Date: 12/26/2004 7:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 3688
I think ours has gotten a lot stronger, but the first year was really hard, as most are....some say that if you make it through the first 5 you've got a pretty good chance at surviving anything  |
Date: 12/26/2004 9:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 53909
I've been married since September and I feel no different. lol  |
Date: 12/26/2004 9:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 62893
I would say that my marriage has gotten increasingly better over the years. I have been married 4 years now and we have grown close over the years. I think its all about attitude when you are entering marriage though. I went into my marriage that this is a life long relationship, and divorce is not an option only in the worst situation possible. Good luck with your marriage.Misty  |
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Date: 12/26/2004 10:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 53909
Maybe we'll feel different after we've been married longer. I do feel that things have got a little stronger but not too much of a difference yet...hehe |
Date: 12/27/2004 4:17:00 AM
From Authorid: 10245
We got married after only 6 months, so everything in our relationship was very new. I feel like I really KNOW him now. We've been through some major disappointments over the last 15 years and we've accomplished even more than we've been disappointed... all of it together. We started out as 2 people, seperately trying to find their way through life. Now we work as a team (most of the time) to accomplish things. Even idividual/personal goals get team work. We've grown in many ways... conflict resolution being the biggest and most helpful. And it was a whole lot quieter in the beginning... no kids!   |
Date: 12/27/2004 4:24:00 AM
From Authorid: 18928
What do you consider a while? I have been married for 8 years and things are a lot different. Some better, some worse. I think the relationship itself has a lot to do with how the years will affect it. All relationships go through their own kind of tests. I guess I didn't answer, but I will say I feel much much closer today than I did when I got married, and I have always loved my husband. He makes me feel safe with him and that came with time and tests.  |
Date: 12/27/2004 6:25:00 AM
From Authorid: 58308
Hubby and I have been together for 16+ years and every day gets better. The biggest thing is communication. Always talk things through and work as a team. Our anniversary is also in July.  |
Date: 12/28/2004 9:42:00 AM
From Authorid: 4144
it will be 21 years in march for me! things have always been about the same for us from day one!! we are just older and slower now! the first year was the hardest mainly because i was pregnant and fat and it was summer and i was hot and cranky! but, my old man has always been this calm laid back workaholic so he keeps me calm! and we talk about everything AND everybody!! we can rag on any family member, his or mine, and the other doesn't take offense. that could because both of our families are NUTS!  |
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