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Would this be a major factor?

  Author:  25756  Category:(Discussion) Created:(12/21/2004 8:17:00 PM)
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Well, I'm wondering, if you had a crush on a person of the opposite sex, adn you found out that they smoked (and you do not and never would), but they were trying to quit, would you stop liking them because of it? What if your friends and relatives (aka parents) were strongly opposed to it because of that reason?

-Agent Q-

Also, what if your crush was kind of "different," for example, they were more of the goth-looking type? (I mean even if they were nice, funny, etc.)

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I'm having a hard time figuring this one out for myself actually. I don't this the smoking would be a very large factor as long as he wouldn't smoke around me. I know for a fact that my family and friends would probably be very shocked if I ever admitted I have a kind of crush on this guy. As much as I shouldn't care what others think, I do in this case and I'm very scared of admitting to even a friend of mine who knows him that I like him. I've thought about it for a while and I've decided that I have legitimate reasons for liking him and it's not me trying to "rebel" or anything like that.

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Date: 12/21/2004 8:27:00 PM  From Authorid: 12118    I've always gone for the gothy looking guys. I love rebels,lol. ..though my fiance isn't quite what I always went for, he's all I've ever wanted and more. He's not preppy or anything..just comfortable in his own skin and wears what he wants to, loves Phish, and most of all loves me for who I am. Don't let anything keep you from what could be a true love; the opportunity may never come around again *hugs*  
Date: 12/21/2004 8:28:00 PM  From Authorid: 36704    It probably wouldn't be a factor for me especially if the person is trying to quit. I don't judge a person by whether they smoke or not.  
Date: 12/21/2004 8:28:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 25756    That's good advice Aeval. I'll tell you a secret (shhhhh...lol) I have a tendancy to go for the goth-looking guys too. Okay, so it isn't much of a secret. Lol!  
Date: 12/21/2004 8:30:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 25756    Thanks Base. I agree with that. Unfortunatly a lot of people I hang out with (including my good friends) don't. I'm not entirely sure about ym parents, except I know they'd be scared I'd start smoking too!  
Date: 12/21/2004 9:02:00 PM  From Authorid: 24732    I'd probably like them more for smoking, which is odd because I'm allergic to cigarette smoke. I guess I'll have to blame watching the delinquent films of the 1950's where all the cool guys are lighting up.  
Date: 12/21/2004 9:30:00 PM  From Authorid: 26452    The strange thing doesn't bother me one little bit, I'm a weirdo myself, but after dating a smoker I NEVER EVER in my life will date another smoker, and if my current boyfriend decided to start, it would be the end of us. He just quit smoking when we first went out, but then after about 6 months started again, I didn't mind it too much at first, but then it just came to be a huge pain in the butt. Plus kissing someone with smoke breath is the nastiest taste I have ever tasted in my entire life. I'd wait until he did actually quit before dating him, just to make sure he does, my ex "quit smoking" every other weekend lol.  
Date: 12/22/2004 2:33:00 AM  From Authorid: 59418    It personally wouldn't bother me at all...If you like them then you like them...You can't judge people by whether they smoke or not   
Date: 12/22/2004 2:34:00 AM  From Authorid: 59418    But if this person does other things too, ie smoking weed, i'd stay away....  
Date: 12/22/2004 5:17:00 AM  From Authorid: 59385    Cigaretes(sp) is a lot worse than weed!!Cigaretes are cancer sticks,weed is a painkiller in part(Still something helpful)  
Date: 12/22/2004 5:28:00 AM  From Authorid: 56489    Judging a person by them smoking is just plain ridiculous to me, it don't change what's on the inside. Sure people say you live longer, but you only go around once in a liftime you mine as well do what makes you happy.  
Date: 12/22/2004 2:26:00 PM  From Authorid: 63011    It wouldn't matter to me. Smoking has nothing to do with their personality or intelligence or anything else. I've dated a few smokers before. The worse thing that could happen is you might come home smelling like cigarettes and your parents would probably ask if you've been smoking. -GreenClover  
Date: 12/22/2004 6:15:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 25756    [email protected] I watched enough of those I'd probably agree. Haha!  
Date: 12/22/2004 6:18:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 25756    Oh, that's true MoonAngel...Kissing a guy with smoke breath....hmmm, I'll have to think about that one...the odd thing is though-I don't really mind the smell of smoke....really...even though I say I do.....it doesn't bother me all that much.  
Date: 12/22/2004 6:25:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 25756    Thanks for your comments metal princess!   
Date: 12/22/2004 6:27:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 25756    That's true GreenClover, I'd have to be careful of that. Lol! Thanks for your comments BEWD and Aimless.   

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