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Survey: Are you a mall parking lot stalker? ~Super Princess~

  Author:  42515  Category:(News) Created:(12/21/2004 7:56:00 AM)
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SYRACUSE, New York (AP) -- John Hrynyk emerged from his car at the Carousel Center mall after nabbing a parking space 100 feet from an entrance.

The 55-year-old scrap yard owner admits he's the type to slowly prowl the mall parking lot until he finds a spot close to the building. "I always look for the closest spot to the door, and 90 percent of the time I find one," he said.

A classic "search and destroyer."

Connecticut-based Response Insurance surveyed its drivers and identified what it says are the four main species of mall parkers: "search and destroyers," "lay and wait," "stalkers" and "see it and take it."

But in the asphalt jungle, it turns out, it's the least aggressive who are getting the last laugh.

Search and destroyers roam the aisles, cruising endlessly for the perfect spot. Lay and wait parkers position themselves at the end of an aisle and wait for a space to open up in what they start to believe is their territory. Stalkers, the most predatory, slowly follow shoppers leaving the store back to their parking spot.

The three methods risk situations that can lead to stress or conflict. In Hrynyk's case, he was lucky he didn't run into another search and destroyer waiting for the same spot, said Ray Palermo, a spokesman for Response Insurance.

"It's not like road-rage, but it can cause a lot of stress, nevertheless," he said.

The favored method is to see it and take it, where shoppers don't care how far they have to walk. The company said it's less stressful and helps drivers save the most time.

AAA's tips Even the AAA likes this option. On its list of tips for surviving holiday driving, the automobile association advises people to "play the outfield. Outlying areas have more spaces, lighter traffic and a lower risk of collision."

The advice comes at a time when parking lots may be crammed with last-minute shoppers. The National Retail Federation estimated that up to 20 percent of holiday sales would occur the week before Christmas.

Jena Hamilton, 24, gets irritated by the lay and waiters and the stalkers.

"You're trying to put your bags in the car," Hamilton said. "You want to get your car warmed up, everything adjusted. Then you see this car in the rearview mirror with its blinker on, and a line of cars waiting behind them. It can be nerve-racking, as if holiday shopping weren't stressful enough."

Greg Adessa, 18, a culinary school student, said he parks as far away as he can.

"I have a new car but even when I had my old beat-up Caddy, I park away from people so I don't have to deal with this," said Adessa, pointing to the chaos around him.

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Date: 12/21/2004 8:00:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 42515    My friend is a parking lot stalker. She will do laps around the parking lot until someone is pulling out from a spot that is near the door. She will sit there all day with her directional on waiting for them to leave. She sat there waiting for 10 minutes once..LOL. There is a mall around here that the aisles in the parking lot are one way only. Well she saw someone in the next aisle that was pulling out. So she went flying down the aisle going the wrong way. There was also a car going down the aisle the RIGHT way. She got mad at him when he pulled into the spot even though she was sitting there with her direction on. She has parking lot rage...LOL.  
Date: 12/21/2004 8:01:00 AM  From Authorid: 3835    I just do my shopping through out the year and be done with it by this time of year so I can sit at home while everyone else is stressing out about these things that happen (-:  
Date: 12/21/2004 8:01:00 AM  From Authorid: 62881    I have seen people do this. If I see someone leaving as I am driving up I stop and wait for them to leave, but I am not waiting around for people like that. I don't mind walking. I'd rather use the garden entrance to Walmart, than the front....Green Eyed Froggy  
Date: 12/21/2004 8:19:00 AM  From Authorid: 16845    well....see...I have this HUGE fear of backing out....so year round I'm in the back 40....I like finding those spots where I can pull forward from LOL..as for most my family...they take the first spot they get but will wait if they see someone getting into their car..  
Date: 12/21/2004 8:23:00 AM  From Authorid: 36704    I park in the back and walk, I'm not gonna sit around wasting my time waiting for a spot to open up.  
Date: 12/21/2004 8:29:00 AM  From Authorid: 8817    Not me I park where ever I don't really care.  
Date: 12/21/2004 8:36:00 AM  From Authorid: 12118    I just park where ever..I'm not too lazy to walk,lol  
Date: 12/21/2004 8:37:00 AM  From Authorid: 6867    no way i am a stalker or anything of that sort....I take what I can find...the further away the better.  
Date: 12/21/2004 8:49:00 AM  From Authorid: 18527    I actually park as far as I can away from the entrance (depending on the weather and if it is still daylight outside) and walk. It is good exercise.  
Date: 12/21/2004 9:10:00 AM  From Authorid: 7574    I park about 3000 miles away. Even though my car is a piece of poop, I don't risk parking close to anyone and ruining their nice cars...And I'm not the best at parking either, so I usually take up two spaces, so that's why I park miles away.  
Date: 12/21/2004 9:37:00 AM  From Authorid: 28989    I also park in the back. I get a little more exercise walking, and it's much easier to get in and out. A few years ago I started pulling out and saw a guy behind me pulling out at the same time. I started pulling back in, when he pulled out really fast and hit my rear bumper. It turned out my car didn't have a scratch, but his rear fender was crumpled. Fortunately, he knew he was at fault.  
Date: 12/21/2004 9:39:00 AM  From Authorid: 28989    Oops...  
Date: 12/21/2004 10:19:00 AM  From Authorid: 62876    The only time I would care is if it were raining. Other than that, the farther away from the other cars the better...HipChik  
Date: 12/21/2004 10:48:00 AM  From Authorid: 62996    ...I'm a stalker..Well, im not but my mamaw is..

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Date: 12/21/2004 2:09:00 PM  From Authorid: 63011    I admit, I'm a search and destroyer. I try to find the closest spot I can to the door. -GreenClover  
Date: 12/21/2004 2:12:00 PM  From Authorid: 56923    My dad is a search and destroyer/stalker and it's funny to be in the vehicle with him.. hard to explain, but funny. -TyLyn
Date: 12/21/2004 2:51:00 PM  From Authorid: 62100    LOL..not when I'm out shopping, but I have to confess that when I am on campus for classes I have been known to stalk while looking for a parking spot close to the building..especially in the winter monthes. LOL- some people even go so far as to come up on you in their vehicle and ask "Are you leaving?" as you're walking through the parking lot..I am not THAT bad.  
Date: 12/21/2004 3:21:00 PM  From Authorid: 62997    I don't know what I am because I never take it too seriously, but I always seem to luck out and get a good spot. Maybe I'm just gifted! lol!  
Date: 12/21/2004 3:57:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 42515    I usually park in the back too because I don't like to back out  
Date: 12/21/2004 3:57:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 42515    LOL Xylanthia...people have done that to me too :P  
Date: 12/21/2004 5:09:00 PM  From Authorid: 62100    LOL..you should have seen me the first time someone asked me that, talk about being puzzled. I had no idea why they were asking as I was new to driving to school as it was my first semester on the main campus. I just looked at them and kept walking..I thought they were insane and they must have thought me rude..  
Date: 12/21/2004 5:23:00 PM  From Authorid: 4144    when i am with my mom i park in the handicap spots. she has a card that hangs on the mirror so she can park there no matter whos car she is in. when i am in my car, alone or not, (except with mom!!) i park as far away from the store as i can. i don't want like dings and scratches in my doors! my car is black so every little thing shows!  
Date: 12/21/2004 6:26:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 42515    Nah I'm sure that didn't think you were rude. They just moved on to find someone else to bug LOL.  
Date: 12/21/2004 7:09:00 PM  From Authorid: 62100    LOL..yeah..finding a spot in which to park on campus is really hard at times. One day I drove around for like 10 minutes in the two nearest parking lots before I ended up going to the last parking area which is located WAY away from the entrance to the building. So here I was luggin my books and walking up a snowy hill in the cold..it was AWFUL!!  
Date: 12/21/2004 7:56:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 42515    you think 10 minutes is bad....2 semesters ago I drove around for a hour and a half trying to find somewhere to park because it was close to where my last class was. I never attempted those parking lots again after that. I just parked somewhere else and walked.  
Date: 12/22/2004 7:43:00 PM  From Authorid: 62100    Whoa..an hour and a half??? No way, I do NOT have that kind of patience..I just got mad and gave up.  
Date: 12/23/2004 6:50:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 42515    I don't have that many patience either...but I was determined...LOL.  
Date: 12/30/2004 12:57:00 AM  From Authorid: 3836    Sometimes I actually park as far away as possible. Get my exercise in without fighting for a space.  

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