Date: 12/19/2004 11:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 3263
Tell him if he doesn't leave you alone you'll call the cops. Or, just pay someone to beat him up   |
Date: 12/19/2004 11:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 3688
Get your parents involved, if at all possible, and call the cops, see if they'd be willing to give the boy a little scare...sounds kinda stalkerish to me  |
Date: 12/19/2004 11:59:00 AM
From Authorid: 38601
RESTRAINING ORDER RESTRAINING ORDER RESTRAINING ORDER...shall i say it again? RESTRAINING ORDER!!! This guy is nuts and you need to keep him as far way from you as possible.  |
Date: 12/19/2004 11:59:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Hahaha.. I was gonna get my brother to do so, but he's on probation..  haha.  |
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Date: 12/19/2004 12:00:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Thanks DreamerPoet.. you know something else kinda disturbing? One time he called my house to talk to my MOM.. she told me he seemed to be trying to win her over.. my mom does not like him at ALL.. |
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Date: 12/19/2004 12:01:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Roxie, I have thought about that.. if he ever shows up at my house uninvited again, I just may put your advice into effect. |
Date: 12/19/2004 12:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 3688
Keep in mind that depeneding on your area restraining orders can be hard to get....but it is DEFINITELY worth looking into  |
Date: 12/19/2004 12:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 62476
if you want to take a different path you could hire a hitman..but you probably don't wanna take that path lol  |
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Date: 12/19/2004 12:04:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Thanks DreamerPoet.. |
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Date: 12/19/2004 12:05:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Shorty, yeah right... and spend $30,000 a head? I think not. |
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Date: 12/19/2004 12:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 62476
you could hire me for free |
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Date: 12/19/2004 12:07:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Oh really....... haha |
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Date: 12/19/2004 12:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 62476
I'm crazy like that |
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Date: 12/19/2004 12:09:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Interesting.... lol |
Date: 12/19/2004 12:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 42522
OMG, girl! I have the same exact thing happening to me. He shows up at my house uninvited, like one time, I told him I didnt wanna hang out, but he came over anyway. So, he was ringing the doorbell, and I refused to go downstairs, and he kept ringing it for 15 minutes, until he finally drove off. And he talks about if we get married someday!! i think I need to come back and look at the replys! lol.  |
Date: 12/19/2004 12:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 57579
This guy sounds like a freak to me I would stop answering his calls and when he shows up at your house dont answer the door. If he doesnt get the hint get a protective order  |
Date: 12/19/2004 12:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 28767
I would say call teh cops and tell your parents. I had a guy threaten to kill me once. I had to call the cops on him. He was apparently in love with my sister and he told me if I didn't stop getting in between them he would do that. I told me sister and called the cops. He got thrown in Jail for a few days. Just call the cops and keep calling them. Peace Out..  |
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Date: 12/19/2004 12:21:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Barbie, OMG I know! It's freaky.. Jay dictated to me what to wear when I "meet his parents".. like I want to or something!! And he's always talking about "showing me off" to his family and friends.. I'm not even his freaking girlfriend.. grrr.. plus I like this other guy and he said VERY nasty things about him on my answering machine while I was hanging out with the other guy.. my family hears that crap, I don't need some psycho littering my machine with a bunch of nonsense! Sorry.. heh... went on a little rant there. |
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Date: 12/19/2004 12:22:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Misty, trust me.. when I see his number on the caller ID, I don't answer.. |
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Date: 12/19/2004 12:23:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
That's horrible, Monkie.. thanks for the advice. |
Date: 12/19/2004 12:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 26598
I would suggest tell your parents your problem, and go to the police to get a restaining order delivered to his parents other wise he would ignore it and violently attack you. He is not right in the head and his parents need badly to know this stuff is going on. Tell your teachers and principal about him, they will do what it takes to keep violence out of their school and protect you from possible rape. I hate to say it you cold benifit from tae quan do martial arts classes as self defence and self esteem booster that punks like him can rob you of.  |
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Date: 12/19/2004 12:26:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Pale Knight, the thing is... I'm 18 and he's 19.. we're both legally adults so I guess I'm on my own, really. |
Date: 12/19/2004 12:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 36766
I'd get a restraining order on him. That's messed up that he's doing that to you. Or you could always play around w/ his head. Say you'll date him, then when he comes over, act like a total slob & be disgusting - maybe that'll chase him off? lol.  |
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Date: 12/19/2004 12:43:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
LMAO BabyCakiez.. trust me.. I've tried ALOT of things to make him go away.. I was like "yeah.. I'm a gold digger.. I don't care about anything but money.. good thing you have money, huh?" In actuality, money doesn't matter much to me.. but he didn't care either way.. grr.. |
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Date: 12/19/2004 12:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 42522
Yeah, he wanted me to go to his house too. lmao. ughh. |
Date: 12/19/2004 12:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 28190
I agree with all that said tell your parents, if for no other reason that to get them involved because you live there, and then if it he continues, involve the police. He definitely doesnt acknowledge the nice way that you have tried, in telling him to leave you be, so the only other option is to get tough on him. Definitely sounds like he is stalking you, and if not, then he is drangerously close to that level. Sorry you have to deal with such a donkeyrear... I hope the message gets through to him, sis. *huge hugs*  |
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Date: 12/19/2004 12:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 28190
my goodness, I cant type today.. lmao... that should be *than*... and Drangerously should be *dangerously*.. sorry hun.. *hugs* |
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Date: 12/19/2004 12:55:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Barbie, hopefully they leave us alone! *hug* |
Date: 12/19/2004 12:56:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Haha Manda.. we all have our days.  |
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Date: 12/19/2004 12:56:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Haha @ donkeyrear.. Thanks for the advice sis! *hug* |
Date: 12/19/2004 1:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 14754
Restraining Order  |
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Date: 12/19/2004 1:03:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Thanks Tweeti! |
Date: 12/19/2004 1:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 4144
you need to get your parents involved. they need to tell him not to call or come over. if that don't work, call the cops. next time he shows up, let him in. go to another room and call the cops. that way he will be there when you tell the cops that you have asked him not to call or come around. then there will be a record of it and a cop as a witness. if he does it again have him arrested.  |
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Date: 12/19/2004 1:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 42522
I say we beat em up! lol. |
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Date: 12/19/2004 1:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 36766
I just thought of something else you could tell him, but I don't know if I'm allowed to say it here, lol. |
Date: 12/19/2004 2:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 1799
it's time to call the cops! or to knock him out, stick him in a box, and send him to china.  |
Date: 12/19/2004 2:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 18516
I'd say go to the cops and file for a restraining order. The only thing I don't understand about that is if the dude breaks it and still shows up what are you suppose to do? Throw it at him? Even tho your a legal adult I'd have one of my parents beat him up if not myself...but that's just me..  |
Date: 12/19/2004 3:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 20956
I think you need to tell him to firstly rack off and if he doesnt leave you alone you are going to get the cops involve, ie. restraining order. You might want to consider changing your phone number too. Its a pain in the butt but atleast thats one less way for him to harrass you. Stay away from him .... goodluck  |
Date: 12/19/2004 6:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
maybe it's time to stop hanging out with him, hang up on him.. tell him you have no interst in him and to plain out just leave you alone  |
Date: 12/20/2004 8:29:00 AM
From Authorid: 59746
I'm in that same situation right now. Thing is the guy is not just a friend. He's my exboyfriend. We'd broke up because we couldn't stop accusing each other of things. I felt afterwords that we really weren't meant for each other, cuz he's vain, cocky, and always calls himself "Knowyaboy". He yells it out "I'm Knowyaboy!!" just like he's "the master". I really don't like that about him, and then whenever we talk and I say something he doesn't like, he says I'm mean and that I've changed. He wants to get back together with me, but something's telling me that I shouldn't jump back into all of that, cuz I'm seeing the same old thing even now that we're not together. Then when I tell him I don't know about it, he boasts on about how he loves me and how good he's been acting towards me and all he's done and is doing for me. It's driving me crazy! I'm thinking maybe I should just take a few days of not talking to him just to get some thinking done. Maybe not talking to your friend for a while could help you out.  |
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Date: 12/20/2004 8:32:00 AM
From Authorid: 59746
of course if that doesn't work, you gotta sit him down and make him hear you when you say that you don't want him. Yell at him, write him a note if he still can't comprehend. Do what you have to do. |
Date: 12/20/2004 9:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
*Shudders* What a creep... I went out with a guy who was like that too, he told me what to wear, how to wear my hair, who to hang out with according to what friends he liked, etc. He used to call my freakin' house 15 times a day and then drive up and down my street- I live out of town, BTW. The only thing that helped was when I got a huge new boyfriend who was known as a fighter. As soon as he found out I was with him, he backed off. Start hanging around big, threatening guys, tell him that the biggest and scariest one of all is your new man and maybe he will get the message.  |
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Date: 12/21/2004 7:28:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Thank you all for your comments.. Midnightly, I haven't hung out with him in a long time.. when he asks, I say I have plans.. but that doesn't stop him from coming over. |
Date: 12/24/2004 7:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 46486
I'll beat him up if you beat Crystal up. lol!!  |
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Date: 12/25/2004 7:47:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Deal, Lia.. I'm on it.. actually, I seriously will beat her up, I have no problem with doing this. |
Date: 1/12/2005 2:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 55251
Personality, I never thought that violence was ever a good way of solving a problem, but thats me. A Restraining Order does sound like a good idea if it does persist no matter what, I would say, if he lives with his parents, tell them about it and make it absolutely clear to him that you don't want to hang around with him. Its up to you if you let him inside of your house, its up to you if you let him come near you. Whatever you do eventually do, I hope everything works out for the best. Always There,  |
Date: 3/14/2006 5:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 63077
I'll totally track 'im down and kick him in his teeth.  |
