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Date: 12/9/2004 11:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 36700
go for it |
Date: 12/9/2004 11:52:00 AM
From Authorid: 46527
mored = more  |
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Date: 12/9/2004 11:52:00 AM
From Authorid: 46527
The older you get the less age matters, at your age it is mored frowned upon that in a few years time. You'll need to take the wishes of parents and family into consideration. |
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Date: 12/9/2004 11:52:00 AM
From Authorid: 46527
eeekk....that = than |
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Date: 12/9/2004 11:53:00 AM
From Authorid: 46527
methinks I need to sleep....LOL! |
Date: 12/9/2004 11:54:00 AM
From Authorid: 7574
That's not a bad age difference at all. I see nothing wrong with it. Personally, I feel that maturity matters much more than age. (to an extent of course)  |
Date: 12/9/2004 11:59:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61920
I don't think my parents care much when I'm dating in high school, so it's pretty much up to me. Also, I'm speaking honestly when I say that I'm a lot more mature for my age than normal. Also, I don't know yet the girl I like, so I'd like to get to know her first, then ask her out if we "click." That's pretty much saying that I'm going to date her...  |
Date: 12/9/2004 12:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
I really don't find 2 years to be that big of a difference at all...not one that should matter anyhow. But it really depends on how the two of you would feel about it.  |
Date: 12/9/2004 12:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 62917
^^^^^Yeah, what LSR had said ^^^^^ ~frobbins~  |
Date: 12/9/2004 12:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 51587
oh its alright...i dated a senior when i was a freshmen..lol..so its alright.lol *hugs* at least to me.  |
Date: 12/9/2004 12:24:00 PM ( Admin-FA )
My friend was a freshman and hooked up with a senior.. and they are still together to this day, and engaged.  |
Date: 12/9/2004 12:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
i see no problem with it... when you get older the age differnce doesnt matter as much i've never seen a problem with 2 years(hubby and i are 2 years apart) but if it was 5 years(for example one was 13 and the other was 18 that i tend not to agree with but 20 and 25 sure why not)  |
Date: 12/9/2004 1:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
Wow. Kudos to you for having such wicked confidence. I can't believe someone your age has already gotten to that point where you are willing to take risks like that. I've just gotten there, and I'm almost 21! If she doesn't want to date you, I am certain you will find someone else very soon who will. Girls LOVE confidence! Anywho, for your question, I think that it is always a matter of opinion, and you never know if she likes you until you ask her. High school can be a drag in that respect, when there is a lot of pressure on you to be a certain way, and some girls may not want to date someone younger for fear of what might others may say. But like I said, if it doesn't work, it doesn't work, and you will find luck elsewhere.  |
Date: 12/9/2004 1:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 43807
It seems more acceptable in high school for girls to date older guys. But it is rare for an older girl to date a younger guy. But it has happened, my suitemate use to go out with a guy a year younger then her, and a girl i went to high school with dated a guy also a year younger then her. so there is really no telling. And no two years is not bad, My cousin married a man two years younger than her. So go for it.  |
Date: 12/9/2004 2:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 61897
Well, I'm dating a guy who is younger than me right now (2yrs. younger). It is perfectly fine with me, I oft times forget he is younger because he is so sweet and mature Although in h.s. I might not have gone with the idea of dating a freshie if I was a junior, in worry of "what others might think". Yeah, I know it's dumb, but that's the sort of mentality that h.s. has. It was more acceptable for younger girls to date the older guys than vice versa. But you seem pretty confident, go for it! Who cares what others might think or say, there is nothing wrong with it, there is only a two year diff anyway. People will talk crap and have something to say NO MATTER what anyway. Set the trend and example  |
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Date: 12/9/2004 5:47:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61920
Believe it or not, I am one of the "popular" guys in my grade, so I don't really have to worry about stereotypes, since everyone thinks what I do is "cool" (btw, I still wouldn't worry even if I wasn't that popular). Anyway, after thinking about it, I agree with all of you guys that 2 years isn't a huge difference. I think it depends on whether the two of you are old enough to know the risks and are mature enough to get along. And, I have to give my congrats to all those who have dated someone younger/older than you- you've really given me the confidence to go for it!! I believe that there's only one true love for everyone, so I try to make friends with everyone and date the ones whose personalities I really like. |
Date: 12/9/2004 8:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 62100
Nah..I don't think that it matters so much.if you were the one older would it stop you from asking out a freshman girl?? Age ain't nuthin' but a number...(well, in MOST cases..but this isn't one of them). I say go for it.  |
