Date: 12/8/2004 10:59:00 AM
From Authorid: 18527
The Han Solo cocky, yeah... I know  |
Date: 12/8/2004 10:59:00 AM
From Authorid: 45906
earh, not really i tend to like more shy guys, my husband was VERY shy when i met him he had that lost puppy dog look on his face and well what can i say ...........  |
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Date: 12/8/2004 11:00:00 AM
From Authorid: 18527
There are a couple of guys that are super cocky that just make me swoon when I get PM's... having a crush is fun! |
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Date: 12/8/2004 11:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 18527
Mmmmmmm Walken.... |
Date: 12/8/2004 11:01:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25828
yes kethria, exactly. or christopher walken type LOL 8-P future paramedic i sometimes like shy guys....but the ones i'm most attracted to are very sure of themselves.  |
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Date: 12/8/2004 11:01:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25828
yes there are indeed a few of them out here ..you know who you are *-) |
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Date: 12/8/2004 11:05:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25828
indeed. i just saw man on fire a few nights ago, he was good in it but the whole movie was GREAT. it made me cry - not that it was so sad, but seeing self sacrifice, that makes me cry. |
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Date: 12/8/2004 11:19:00 AM
From Authorid: 62970
MMM...you just reminded me of something...I was at a counter at Robinsons May the other night and a nice looking young man was in front of me waiting for the cashier. this guy was dressed really nice ( slacks, tie and jacket) smelled REALLY good and he made sure his BMW key chain was hanging out of his pocket. Then when he was ready to pay he came out with a wallet full of cash..paid with all haundreds..he made sure the cashier and others noticed this...after he paid he took a glance at me and smiled and left. When it was my turn to pay the cashier made the funniest face..she was like" Whats up with that guy?" I just shrugged and left...while walking towards my car I felt some one following me, I turned around and it was him! I kind of stopped and he just came towards me and handed me his card and left. I kind of stood there confused..I looked at the card and it read.."I think your cute, call me"...What the....? Talk about Cocky...no I didnt call..but i still have the card =)hehehe |
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Date: 12/8/2004 11:22:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25828
you mean it was PREprinted? LOL - if that's the case he does that alot LOL ..neat story 8-) |
Date: 12/8/2004 11:24:00 AM
From Authorid: 29387
Christopher Walken type!?! You mean...you like cocky guys who act like aliens?  |
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Date: 12/8/2004 11:26:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25828
actually, chris walken is highly intelligent..thus, as most of us are - eccentric. so yeah, i like the eccentric, cocky, highly intelligent type 8-) |
Date: 12/8/2004 11:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 35160
i dont like cocky , arrogant men. thats a turn off. i like them self assured and confident. but not to the point of cocky and arrogant and stuck on themselves.   |
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Date: 12/8/2004 11:39:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25828
i hate guys that are stuck on themselves. that's not really what i mean. cocky...like football coaches. not cocky like...colin farrell, or something. he's totally unattractive to me. |
Date: 12/8/2004 11:42:00 AM
From Authorid: 62917
Im with Spooky Gal on this one, guys that are confident and self assured without being cocky about it are definately what I like. ~frobbins~  |
Date: 12/8/2004 11:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 27534
Hmmmmmmmmmm cocky guys? I am the very introverted, shy, wall flower type. I can see I do not belong in this post.  |
Date: 12/8/2004 11:48:00 AM
From Authorid: 35160
i dont like how football coachs act, thats still too cocky for me. i dont know, to me thats just a major turn off.  |
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Date: 12/8/2004 11:51:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25828
wise you're very cocky. you definitely fit the bill. i wouldn't call you shy, a bit introverted and guarded, but not shy at all. you fit very well 8-) |
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Date: 12/8/2004 11:51:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25828
p.s..didn't you read the comment about football coaches, wise? 8-P |
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Date: 12/8/2004 11:53:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25828
i hear ya shay. i think we still aren't quit on the same wavelength, if i could think of someone that fit perfectly i would say - maybe i'll come up with it. alot of coaches are just redneck. or testosterone filled (which isn't all that bad in itself 8-p)...but some are cocky and self assured. I'VE GOT IT!!!!!!!!!!...the ultimate cocky man, the one that is EXACTLY the type i'm thinking here, whether i described him well above or not --is..........sean connery. that is what i mean. |
Date: 12/8/2004 12:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
I used to LOVE cocky guys, until I got a bit older and realized that a lot of them are players. Now I turn away from the overtly cocky ones. I still love a man with confidence, it is probably the sexiest thing a guy (or girl, for that matter) could have. Nothing extreme, just a guy who doesn't put himself down and walks with his head up.  |
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Date: 12/8/2004 12:04:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25828
they have a certain strut about them 8-P |
Date: 12/8/2004 12:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 9509
I agree with SpookyGal. I can't stand a guy who is stuck on himself.  |
Date: 12/8/2004 12:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 13969
I think the term you are looking for is 'suave.' And no, I don't like that. Men like that need to be bopped upside the head with a plucked chicken.  |
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Date: 12/8/2004 12:44:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25828
LOL sandghost...maybe i'm looking for 'charismatic' |
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Date: 12/8/2004 12:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 13969
*blushes* I used to have a thing for a guy like that...before I went to the darkside... |
Date: 12/8/2004 12:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 33978
No, I don't like them at all...especially since they are the ones that just assume that you will like them and don't leave you alone. I mean there's a difference between cocky and confident. Unless you mean in the impish way....such as Bruce Campbell/Brisco County Jr way. He's a character and I'd sure have some fun with him. Hugs,  |
Date: 12/8/2004 1:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 55386
Nah, I'm not too big for overly cocky, let alone just cocky guys. I don't mind some of the tendancies, but I just, I can't stand it lol.  |
Date: 12/8/2004 1:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 10245
There's a fine line between cocky and arrogance. And the man that can walk it... *sigh*  |
Date: 12/8/2004 1:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 24732
Anyone Walken fans can use this image I made for my site if they want http://free.hostdepartment.com/M/MissMonster/index.html  |
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Date: 12/8/2004 1:34:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25828
LOL - that's cute alf 8-) |
Date: 12/8/2004 1:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 62100
Yep..always have loved it!! My man has that confidence that you're talking about. All of the ladies at work want him, and he knows it- even the old ones!! He just ahs this "thing" that attracts them. It used to bug me alot..I mean, that's why I love him..but after seeing girls at work blatantly flirting with him right in front of me..(don't worry..I made SURE they knew that he was off the market if they weren't aware). Now though I just have to laugh at the lengths that some go to trying to get his attention..and he just doesn't even pay it any mind.  |
Date: 12/8/2004 9:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 24963
mmmm Sean Connery, the second hottest man on the planet! (the first is my man lol) Oh yeah i know what type your talking about. i call it the "good" cocky, the kind who are cocky yet not jerks My man is like that, and he'll get playful cocky towards me(which gets me going mmmmm) then I get cocky right back, so it gets him going lol  |
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Date: 12/9/2004 5:47:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25828
thanks xylanthia and ferret - yes, the 'good' cocky type. so attractive. |
Date: 12/9/2004 8:45:00 AM
From Authorid: 53284
Wildbob pushed the doors to the saloon open and surveyed the room. The spurs on his bicycle shoes jingles softly as he walked. MaryAnn, the hostess, spilled a drink on a customer as she stared transfixed as the muscles in his legs flexed and contracted rhythmically under his lycra bike shorts as he walked. “Barkeep, I’ll have a chocolate milkshake with a double shot of chocolate.” Wildbob said. “I’ve got a lot of miles left to ride today and stand a little fix before I ride on”  |
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Date: 12/9/2004 8:45:00 AM
From Authorid: 53284
It's all about attitude. |
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Date: 12/9/2004 9:35:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25828
LOL wildbob ....i'd love to see those legs. |
Date: 12/9/2004 12:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 56489
I'm not big on cocky guys, their the ones that need to be slapped with a reality check. I like quite , confident men.  |
Date: 12/9/2004 7:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 54444
interesting read...informative, hmmmmm  |
Date: 1/6/2005 11:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 21435
"Bond...James Bond"..hehe..I love Sean Connery..Ooops! Did I say that??? Hi, Heather Cocky and confident. I enjoy that quality in both men and women. (To a degree, of course Write on...  |
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Date: 1/6/2005 11:52:00 AM
From Authorid: 21435
Go...Wild Bob!.. |
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Date: 1/6/2005 12:13:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25828
yes, i enjoy the trait in women too --but that is another story 8-P |
Date: 2/22/2005 7:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 55967
I believe that there is a difference between being cocky and confident. Not only that, but being confident is limited; you can only be confident in the things that you've experienced and so know you are good at. If you want something more overall, you have to go with good self-esteem. Now for the details of each: with being cocky, there is a certain human phenomena that I've observed. It is that when someone becomes good at something, there is sometimes phenomenon A or phenomenon B, or both. "A" is when they think they have gone further than they have in there ability, and so think they are better than they really are. "B" is when they pretty much know their own ability, but believe that others are going to usually be less skilled than they really are. They assume that others are generally more ignorant or inferior than they really are. If both come into play, you really have a cocky person. Cocky is when confidence involves comparing yourself to others and assuming you are still better. I try never to be cocky. To me, it's a false sense of reality that serves no real purpose other than stroking one's own ego or impressing others who believe in what the cocky one says or does without looking closer at it. Now I do have confidence in many things. The thing is, I know others can be just as good if not better. I don't care. Maybe I can learn something! But I also know that I am better than many others at certain things. I don't care. Maybe I can teach them if they want to learn. True, I have no girlfriend right now, and maybe this is why. But you know, one day I'll find someone who appreciates me for who I am.  |
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Date: 2/23/2005 6:19:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25828
LOL gypsyhawk, i'm sure you'll find the right one 8-) or she'll find you. |
