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Hearing God, dating and marriage..

  Author:  47162  Category:(Debate) Created:(10/30/2004 1:40:00 PM)
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I was talking to a friend today, and we started talking about marriage, dating, and following God.

I believe a person should use wisdom, and just try things out when dating. Be wise, pray, try it out, and see what happens.

She believes you must hear from God, period! If you don't hear a yes from God, you shouldn't even try something with a person. In other words. if someone isn't divenly zapped with a heavenly voice saying go, you shouldn't act at all!

So which way is more scriptural?

Be wise, pray and try it out, or the way where you don't act until you hear an OK from God?

I hear alot of sincerity in the former approach. But I don't know how scriptural and realistic it is to do.

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Date: 10/30/2004 2:42:00 PM  From Authorid: 62915    Im not christian but I would say your point of view is the most realistic. As long as you pray for guidance everything should be fine I think God expects people to make mistakes but as long as you have god in your heart then he forgives Just my opinion Ghost-Chick  
Date: 10/30/2004 4:40:00 PM  From Authorid: 55967    To me, the Bible has this valuable lesson: learn from ANY experience. All the people who came to God in the Bible had life experiences (sometimes quite unpleasant) that led them to God. Dating is simply another experience in life! The first option is the best in this regard. Yeah, pray for the right person. Yes, be wise! But by all means, try it out. That's the only way to gain experience. Don't separate dating from all the other things you will experience in life and wait for a booming voice from within. It won't happen. Let life happen, for better or worse, and keep your faith in God throughout. Try to learn something about people even if your date turns out to be a "jerk." That's the way God wants us to experience our time on earth.  
Date: 10/30/2004 10:46:00 PM  From Authorid: 62146    I belive in any case in love you should follow your heart.  
Date: 10/31/2004 1:11:00 AM  From Authorid: 62915    Well put Gypsyhawk... what I was trying to say :P Ghost-Chick  
Date: 10/31/2004 4:13:00 AM  From Authorid: 22080    there must be alot of lonely people if god has to talk to you  
Date: 10/31/2004 7:25:00 AM  From Authorid: 15621    Your reasoning is wise, pray and ask for guidance and just go with what you feel is right and you will be given what you need by God in any situation in life.  
Date: 11/2/2004 11:01:00 PM  From Authorid: 37900    I think the answer you seek lies somewhere between the two positions. If you rely solely on what God gives you explicit permission to do, you'll never eat at McDonald's, shop at Wal-Mart or drive a vehicle again. If you "just try things out when dating," you expose yourself to date rape or STD's. God provides principles, such as avoiding pre-marital sex and people with tempers and addictive behaviors. He also gives intelligence, so you date girls you find attractive and have common interests with. Do what you know is right, and move cautiously with the rest.  

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