Date: 10/29/2004 12:55:00 AM
From Authorid: 49689
If you feel bad..There was something still there,you still had feelings for him..You should be flogged!  |
Date: 10/29/2004 1:00:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 54406
What do you mean, flogged? I mean, I do love him, but its not really that kind of feelings.. well maybe a little bit, but I wasn't happy. i'm mostly unhappy because i feel like its my fault hes in so much pain, because it is!  |
Date: 10/29/2004 1:00:00 AM
From Authorid: 62881
Evidently, you didn't want to break up with him the way you thought you did. You may need to re-think the break-up and start over.....Green Eyed Froggy  |
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Date: 10/29/2004 1:01:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 54406
It's too late to go back, I dont want to play games with his heart because then what if i decide I want to break up with him again? I cant go back and forth... I feel like I must stick to my decision. *sigh*... |
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Date: 10/29/2004 1:04:00 AM
From Authorid: 62881
Then you shouldn't feel so bad...it is expected that there will be hurt feelings during a break-up...Just stay away from him and let him get over you....Green Eyed Froggy |
Date: 10/29/2004 1:05:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 54406
I'll try, but I love him... So it's hard. Thanks for your replies  |
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Date: 10/29/2004 1:09:00 AM
From Authorid: 62881
Well, maybe now he may try to work out what ever problems you had. Sometimes it takes these kinds of measures to get through to someone. You could consider starting over as a regular dating situation and don't live together. There are ways to do this to find out if the relationship will work out...but still....give him space and see how it goes...Green Eyed Froggy |
Date: 10/29/2004 1:11:00 AM
From Authorid: 62915
I guess just try to let it go. You obviously needed the break ptherwise you wouldn't have done it. Of course you will still love him. You will prolly love him for the rest of your life but only you can make the descision on what is to happen now. He will prolly need his space as well, even though he may not like it, to get over you Goodluck! Ghost-Chick  |
Date: 10/29/2004 1:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 27225
Honestly, just follow your feelings and your heart. If you don't love him then don't go back. It will be hard to talk or be friends being so guitly, but that's a part of the break-up process. My gf broke up with me, we still talk and it's just a big mess. Just do what feels right and stick to it, no matter how hard it is. You don't want to force yourself into a situation that you don't want to be in, no matter how guitly you feel. Your feelings are your feeling and you are entitled to them. It's natural and it will be okay =) Hope this helps. ~mike~  |
Date: 10/29/2004 5:39:00 AM
From Authorid: 62146
it sounds liek you are confussed about what you feeling for him due to some events in your life. you got to look within yourself to find how your truely feeling for him. if you have no more feelings for him then he has to learn to deal with his lose but if it turns out you still love him then stay with him.  |
Date: 10/29/2004 5:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 62938
Please try to think and even write down. Ask yourself some questions.Why did I break up with him? Was it something he said? Am I afraid he will ask me to marrie him? Why do I still love him? Do I want time for myself to be alone and exsperience life before I settle down to a serious relation ship. Do I only love him for being there for me, for being a freind? Freinds are not replacable. You sound like you don't want to let him go but, then you do want to let him go. Maybe sit down by yourself with a sheet of paper or PC and do this. Make collums or list such as; #1. What Do I Like about him? #2.What I do not like about him?#3.What do we "HAVE" in comin?#4.What do we "NOT" have in comin?#5.Give each answer one point, then total them up at the bottom.#6.Now on another sheet or PC, write down all the things you would like to do in your life,try to make each thing short as possible.#7.Now down the left or right side ,if you have room,make two narrow colums,at the top of one collum write;"YES" the other "No". each "YES"get one point and each "NO" one point. It has helped me in life when nothing else worked out, exspecialy when I was upset. Your mind is not clear when your upset. Maybe you need to see him again to make sure you still feel the way you felt when you broke up. Make the meeting (if you do) in a public place where you never went before so either one of you can leave at any time. Good Luck, I hope this helped, HAPPY HALLOWEEN.  |
Date: 10/29/2004 8:58:00 AM
From Authorid: 53284
Ending a relationship is always difficult. That's one reason not to live with someone. It's just prolongs the pain you have to experience when the other person is leaving. Typically, men will not want to talk to you about their feelings when you break up with them. Men just don't deal with those feelings by talking about them unless you just broke up with Dr. Phil.  |
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Date: 10/29/2004 11:31:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 54406
Thank you so much everyone, I really, truly appreciate it. Thank you for your ideas author 62938. I'll let you all know what happens in the end. |
Date: 10/29/2004 3:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 47218
Don't know what to say, kiddo, except sometimes you have to make difficult decisions. It's a part of life. Good luck, you have many more ahead of you.  |
