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Date: 10/19/2004 5:06:00 PM From Authorid: 62246 I'm sure you do have a chance. My advice would be to befriend him and see where it goes from there. By "jumping on the wagon soon" do you mean you're joining the army, too? If so, that's cool. Not many girls join the millitary. I want to when I'm of age, but my dad doesn't want me to. |
Date: 10/19/2004 5:17:00 PM From Authorid: 33573 Well, if you like him I don't think you should avoid him If he is willing to talk with you and give you attention, let him! Don't be clingy or desparate looking or anything but this is a great way for you to get to know him and vice versa. If your feelings become more serious over time then you can see where things go As for appearance, if you are doing this for yourself that is awesome! But you don't have to change for a guy ... you said he's giving you attention now anyways Good luck! |
Date: 10/19/2004 7:04:00 PM From Authorid: 55251 What you have to do is decide, is he really worth all of this? Should you really have to change yourself to get someone to care about you? I'm sorry to hear about what happened to your ex. You don't have to "improve" yourself for anyone, you should never do that. You are a wonderful person and you should be loved for who you are Best of luck on this. Always There, |
Date: 10/20/2004 3:30:00 AM
From Authorid: 62914
You definately have a chance and him staring at you probably means he likes you. -Goddess Of Imaginary Light |
Date: 10/20/2004 3:29:00 PM ( From Author ) From Authorid: 62184 Thanks everyone! By 'jumping on the wagon' I meant going into the dating scene so soon. I'm too girly, I guess you could say, to join the army. I'm trying not to avoid him as much because I find it kinda mean.. when I'm doing it for no reason. I just have a problem with this guy that he seems to be friends with. She's the type of girl that if she fell off the side of the earth, I'd wave on her way down. I don't like her AT ALL! Which she's the kind of girl, I'd figure he would used to be friends with when he was into the wrong things.. I don't know.. maybe I'm making this more complicated..lol.. thanks again!! |
Date: 10/20/2004 7:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
I agree that you should wait it out and go slow before you ask him out so that you can get over your ex. Rebound relationships are usually bound for failure. And please, if you plan to "improve" yourself, do it for YOU and only you. If giving yourself a makeover will make you feel more confident, then fly at 'er but don't do it because you don't feel like you're worth anything unless you're attractive. The most attractive quality a person can have is confidence. |
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