Date: 10/19/2004 9:39:00 AM
From Authorid: 62881
I had the same problem...the only solution is to get it in your mind to keep a safe distance. You are the only one who can control that situation. It comes from inside you. If you can't--then after you get hurt enough you will keep a safe distance to keep yourself from going through it again. That was how I finally stopped that...Green Eyed Froggy  |
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Date: 10/19/2004 9:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 62881
You can be friends and friendly without getting attached...Green Eyed Froggy |
Date: 10/19/2004 9:45:00 AM
From Authorid: 37843
I kinda know what u mean, but I don't know how to keep from doing it, it may be a subconcious thing which you don't have control over? good luck w/ finding an answer~~WP  |
Date: 10/19/2004 2:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 52489
This is called "clinging". It's a sign of someone who needs strong emotional bonds in their life. Talk to a counselor, since this could lead to your getting hurt.  |
Date: 10/25/2004 7:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 36965
I am the same way. I am still attached to friends I had years ago, friends who barely remember I exist (if they remember at all). I cannot let go of things or people or events. I have no advice for you, but maybe there is some comfort in not being alone. Love,  |
42522 Category:(General Advice) Created:(10/19/2004 9:34:00 AM)