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Date: 10/19/2004 8:15:00 AM
From Authorid: 62842
This is a horrible situation you are in. I don't know the circumstances of why your kids weren't with you before or why your daughter isn't. I am sorry to hear that your husband treats you the way he does and I am sure that this is one of the reasons the boys do. I hope your situation gets better. Can you maybe leave and get on your feet and try to get your kids? Best wishes to you! ~Sairth |
Date: 10/19/2004 8:19:00 AM
From Authorid: 13119
I understand that you are in a verbally abusive relationship but you said a very telling thing just now. You said you would take your daughter and run, your boys aren't stupid and maybe they realise how you feel and that contributes to how they are acting. Their father is definitely not helping but you yourself are not totally innocent either. Kids come first no matter what.  |
Date: 10/19/2004 8:42:00 AM
From Authorid: 58611
What a tough situation to be in. Are you all going to therapy together as a family?  |
Date: 10/19/2004 8:54:00 AM
From Authorid: 23075
your hubby hits you...well it would be his last time if I was there and saw it.
The boys probably call you names because they hear him do it..and figure it is part oflife.....are you all going to therapy.....and I don't mean to sound mean but personally your hubby needs to attend some kind of anger management classes if he is hitting you. If you wanna chat just message meokay....I'm here for ya  |
Date: 10/19/2004 9:09:00 AM
From Authorid: 25183
I totally agree with Paddy Bear. Your boys are just demonstrating the behaviors of your husband. This is a bad situation for all involved. This is no way to live, and it's really awful that you are basically trapped. Just know that you are better than this and eventually it will get better. Don't listen to all the negative things your hubby says, they aren't true. This isn't your fault!  |
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