Date: 10/18/2004 3:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 8905
I think you need to discuss this with him, and if that doesnt work, then with your folks.  |
Date: 10/18/2004 3:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 62753
Wow this sounds like it is going to be one of those things that hurts a lot of people involved.... How old is your guy cousin, and why hasn't he came forward already! I can understand why you are upset --- don't you have any proof that you weren't there the weekend that the calls were made.... Who's cabin is it? I don't know how i would approach all this - but it sounds like your were framed..... maybe your male cousin will come forward!  |
Date: 10/18/2004 3:17:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 8555
I do have proof, I was at work, but my grandparents can't remember what weekends I was up there, so they think I'm lying.  |
Date: 10/18/2004 3:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 36901
If they can't remember when u were there, get them to check when the calls were made then prove to them that you were at work. Sounds obvious to me that your 'guy cousin' was the one who made the calls. What about your parents? Can't they talk to your grandparents?  |
Date: 10/18/2004 3:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 59876
you are 24? have your grandparents had reason to have major trust issues with you in the past?  |
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Date: 10/18/2004 3:34:00 PM ( Admin )
Sometimes there is no proof and you have to tell them to realize what they are doing. You can only accept your reputation as the proof. You know you and that's is what you have to live up to. I know it hurts for them to think this but, it is their decision not yours. |
Date: 10/18/2004 4:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 62184
I'd sit down and talk to him. Explain the entire situation and what you think of it. See how he reacts and what he says in retaliation. After that, I think you should sit both your grandparents and parents down and explain it to them. Don't let them just brush you off, make sure they hear your arguments and your evidence that supports it. I sound like a lawyer I know. If none of that works. Add your cousin to the mix. Make EVERYONE sit down and then you can explain it. 9 times out of 10, the guilty will crack when confronted and unable to wipe the situation away.This might make no sense, but good luck!  |
Date: 10/18/2004 5:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 28767
That's not right. Did this happen like right away. Because human nature is to blame someone right away without thinking about it. I would give them time and do not give up your stance or give into the fact that you did it. Seems like you didn't. Obvious....I duno good luck. Peace Out..  |
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Date: 10/18/2004 5:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 28767
Oh and tell them to check there phone bill as to what time those calls were made and what dates. It should be on there. Peace Out.. |
Date: 10/18/2004 6:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
If I were you, I would just shake it off. I think it is ridiculous that you are being blamed, but when it is brought up, just shake your head, look at them like they are idiots, and say "You've got to be kidding me, you HAVE to know better that it wasn't me. There's just no two ways about it" and then leave it at that. You know the truth. If you are really choked, then go to your cousin and tell him that you would appreciate him clearing your name and this whole thing has really hurt you, and then see what he does. Being one of 4 siblings, I got blamed for stuff I didn't do all the time, and although it is frustrating, there's not much you can do to make the guilty fess up!  |
Date: 10/18/2004 11:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
I can not see why they would asume it was you, it seems more logical that it was your cusion. you have done all you can so far, but if you ind some more evidence into the matter it might convince them more so, like you can look into what time the call was made, and see where you and your cusion were around that time, you can examain the phone bill to see how many time they made this call to this "wild women, anything goes" thing. they know he was there o the day the calls were made but maybe they are not so clear about where he was the time of the call. hopefully they stop blaming you for somthing you did not do.  |
