Date: 10/14/2004 7:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 12103
Well you know what he did was wrong..and everyone who really IS your friend AND is open minded about ANY situaion wouldnt just jump onto ANYONES side (including yours) Just hold your head up, because you know how he REALLY is..and all these other people he is telling this dont know how he really is and mabye he will screw them over someday like how he screwed you. You can only do so much, you cant force someone to belive you if they dont want to. Good luck...hang in there  |
Date: 10/14/2004 7:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 37843
He is wrong, there is no reason he should have done that. I think it may be illeagle. Like Princess Jen said just keep your head high because you know that you are right.  |
Date: 10/15/2004 5:00:00 AM
From Authorid: 42945
You've done nothing wrong sweetie, get rid of him and ignore those who choose to believe him, hold your head high and move on in your life, he sounds like a real creep...you dont need him....hugs  |
Date: 10/15/2004 5:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 62917
What he did was completely wrong. and if the guy sat school dont beleive you when you tell them what really happened then they werent your friends in the 1st place. Obviously your ex betrayed your trust and should no longer be a part of your life, and as far as the other guys, dont worry about what they think. In some cases (not all) guys seem to stick together so it might just be a waste of time to worry about what they think. Maybe start making a new set friends and ditch the old. You'd be better off.~frobbins~  |
Date: 10/15/2004 9:13:00 AM
From Authorid: 4144
i'm sure if you and your real friends put your heads together you can come up with some way to prove what he did. i haven't been in high school for a very long time but i would not have let this slide! or, you can keep quiet about it and sooner or later he will show his true colors and other people will see him for what he is.  |
Date: 10/15/2004 9:14:00 AM
From Authorid: 4144
i'm sure if you and your real friends put your heads together you can come up with some way to prove what he did. i haven't been in high school for a very long time but i would not have let this slide! or, you can keep quiet about it and sooner or later he will show his true colors and other people will see him for what he is.  |
Date: 10/15/2004 10:49:00 AM
From Authorid: 53284
The reality is that in the end people will find out what kind of person he is. You've told people. Even if they find it hard to believe now, they will believe later. If he calls you, put one of your parents on the line or better yet, have your parents call his parents and let them know what their precious child has been doing.  |
Date: 10/15/2004 2:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 57404
One thing I have learned in life is that if you get upset over something that isn't true, people tend to view you as guilty. Why would you be upset over something that isn't true. This is a place in your life where you learn who are your true friends and who aren't. The ones who stand by your side and believe you, then those who take his side. My advice would to be (understanding how angry you are at what he did. He is wrong for doing so. Maybe a restraining order would be a wake up call for him that what he did isn't fun and games.) whenever someone says anything about, hold your anger and just let it go, brush it off and tell them to believe what they want.. that he is lying. Then change the subject or drop it. It will pass, and I have learned in life that people like this are eventually brought to light and they are the ones in the end who look like the moron. :-) God Bless  |