Date: 10/12/2004 4:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 45630
He is going way too fast. I think if someone is that eager, so quickly when they haven't met you and don't really know you then there is something up. Be careful.  |
Date: 10/12/2004 4:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 53284
Way too fast. If I were in your situation, all my alarms would be going off. This doesn't have anything to do with trust issues.  |
Date: 10/12/2004 4:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 49539
To me, he is definitely going too fast. Can you him why he feels the need to go so fast and what he has to hide? Because honestly, you guys have all the time in the world. I've gone through this kind of thing a lot and it always ends up not working out because I don't truly like the person. To like someone you have to get to know them, that's just how it is.  |
Date: 10/12/2004 4:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 61966
Like Wildbob said, alarms would be going off if it were me. I know it does seem great and everything but this guy is moving way too fast especially since you just started talking to him recently. It could be that he's just a nice guy searching for someone but you never know. Be careful and take care!   |
Date: 10/12/2004 4:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 10798
You be careful! There are all kinds of wackos and sickos who prey on people through the internet. Don't you dare meet this guy anywhere alone and in fact I would not let him anywhere near you until you have gotten to know him much better. If you have not done so, do NOT give this guy your address and be careful about giving him clues so he can figure out where you live.  |
Date: 10/12/2004 4:48:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 60685
Sigh, thank you soo much for your comments guys Guess my alarms were right, I have to trust my intuition a bit more I guess. I'm truly feeling suffocated by him, but don't worry, haven't told him where I live nor have I given him my digits. *HUGS*  |
Date: 10/12/2004 5:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 62246
Seems a little creepy to me. Ask him to slow things down a bit. I suggest NEVER meeting this guy in person. If he is true, than he's really rare, but this is just weird. I mean, you never know when someone could turn around and be a... well you know.  |
Date: 10/12/2004 5:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 12103
well im not doubting that he isnt nice or anything..maybe he is...but SOMETHING is wrong if he is saying this kinda stuff already...Even if his feelings are true he is really lonely and crazy just to be w/ anyone (no offense ofcorse) which means he has problems deep down or he just wants one thing. Be careful.  |
Date: 10/12/2004 5:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
You know what they say- if it seems too good to be true, it probably is. I would definitely get scared off if I knew a guy for a week or two and he was throwing all that attention at me. Quite honestly, it would be a turn off. If it's making you feel uncomfortable, then tell him that he is moving a bit too fast for you and that you'd like to get to know him a bit more before jumping in head first.  |
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Date: 10/12/2004 7:13:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 60685
Actually he talked to me a couple of hours ago and I kinda stopped him cold. I basically said that I was flattered but that the things he was saying were just too intense and that he was going way to fast and he apologized explaining that he's just sorta excited to meet someone different and that the last thing he wanted to do was scare me. Thanks for all your advice everyone, we'll see if he slows down but like Breezy said, his attitude can be a turn off and it is, and don't worry, if I ever accept meeting this guy it will be at a crowded place and perhaps even bring my mom along, hehe, that should scare him away if needed, I know I'd run of if a guy invited his mom to tag along on a date. |
Date: 10/12/2004 7:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 2734
Yes, he is going too fast. The flame that burns too hotly and too quickly is the flame that burns out first.  |
Date: 10/12/2004 7:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 7574
lol..I've been talking to someone online for like 5 years and we still haven't called each other yet.  |
Date: 10/12/2004 7:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 56293
Wayyyy to fast ...  |
Date: 10/13/2004 12:10:00 AM
From Authorid: 39043
I have to agree with everyone else. I'm like you..i have trouble with trust issues so i know where your coming from. It's hard to think that there is a good guy out that, who can actually have a mature conversation...usually if you think you found someone..eventually they end up blowing it. Atleast that's what i've found out. I'd say tell him to go slow..and if he truelly is for real then he will respect you and if you do meet him one day..make sure there is a lot of ppl there and take someone. Good luck and i hope everything works out for you.  |
Date: 10/13/2004 1:45:00 AM
From Authorid: 62226
hmmmmmmm
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Date: 10/13/2004 6:14:00 AM
From Authorid: 25390
*screeches the brakes* Woah!! Slow down, Betsy! Yup, he is going just a weee bit fast. Listen to your gut, it's always right.  |
Date: 10/13/2004 6:41:00 AM
From Authorid: 39258
too fast. the guy is psycho  |
Date: 5/15/2005 9:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 50678
You have to be very careful with online stuff, I was lucky and found a great person online, here at USM, but we where friends for about a year before we got together and met. I think you picked the right choice.  |
