Date: 10/4/2004 12:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 61897
All I have to say is-Who cares what everyone else thinks! If YOU like him, that's what matters, no? It is *you* who will or will not be with him afterall. If there is nothing wrong with why you like him, what's the problem, then? That has happened to me many of times, I've liked guys who I saw very redeeming qualities in, but not many others saw them. So I went for the guy not caring what my friends, family etc. thought or might say (even though I had a pretty good idea what they would say and think, but I didn't care)......And they ended up also seeing those redeeming qualities in them, even liking the guy for themselves. So heh, go with your gut feeling Just make sure you are right about it and it is not just wishful thinking  |
Date: 10/4/2004 12:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 7574
Sometimes I find myself liking people and it's just so weird, because I don't know them and I'm not like them at all. Usually I let it simmer for a few weeks, and then I realize I was insane.  |
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Date: 10/4/2004 12:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 7574
But you never know...There's that whole opposites attract thing and some of the best couples I know are never who I would picture together. |
Date: 10/4/2004 1:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 21266
its just a crush i s'pose, dont let it develop into something serious..  |
Date: 10/4/2004 1:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 49172
First- If you like someone, then you like someone, you can't force yourself to not like them. Second- Life is about taking risks. Yes, these risks can hurt you, but remember, what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. Third - Who gives an eff what your friends think? Yes, they are your friends, but if you like this guy and he makes you happy, your friends should understand and be happy for you and accept him. Heck, maybe before they judge him (and you for liking him) they should get to know him.  |
Date: 10/4/2004 3:55:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25756
Chi-Girl, Thanks, I will have to make sure it's not just wishful thinking. Amers-That seems to be happening to me a lot! I *really* like this guy one week, then the next week I'm like "What was I THINKING??" Lol! Thanks Absz, if it happens that it is just a silly crush, I def. won't let it become anything serious. Unknown Destiny (and Chi-Girl too)-I know I shouldn't care what my friends think. I KNOW that. But sometimes it's just hard to deal with? But if I REALLY get into a guy I won't care so much about it, it's just these mini-crushes I guess I could call them. Thanks for the replies.  |
Date: 10/4/2004 7:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
You're normal. Really. I remember when I was younger I would get these intense, but fleeting, crushes on all sorts of guys, that I now look back on and laugh because I don't know what I was thinking! I think it is all about growing up. Just enjoy it, it is all part of figuring out what kind if guy you want to end up with.  |
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Date: 10/5/2004 12:29:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25756
Thanks Breezy...that makes me feel less weird, which is a good thing. LoL! :-D |
