Ok, to make a long story short, my guy thinks I blew him off last weekend. I didn't though, I was really tired after working and just wanted to go home to catch up on some sleep. I don't know what he has in his head that I was doing. I told him that I was exhausted and that I wanted to take a raincheck on the evening. I was working a double shift basically and knew that I just wouldn't be much company. I emailed him around 10:30am that morning, I didn't get off work til 4pm even then.
I guess I should have called, but he does work out of town, so he wasn't going to be home around noon anyway, and I can't make personal calls from the work line.....so I thought the email would work. He says he emailed me before he left out to come back....that he asked me to either call or email him. He said when he got home, no message on either, so he waited for me all evening, until he just fell asleep for the night himself.
He sent me a snarky email Sunday night/ Monday morning. He basically reminded me of how he waited and how he thought that I just blew him off. So I get it later on while here at work, I wait til my boss leaves and then I call him. Well, he wasn't home from work yet. It was too early still and I should've known that but I just picked up the phone upset and not really thinking. So I get the machine and leave a message....nothing too detailed (he has a roomie)but that it was just me and to call me at work, or jump on Yahoo cause I would be online.
That was Monday evening, I haven't heard a word from him. My friends think that he is trying to prove a point and make me squirm. I just don't know why someone would do someone else this way. He says that he cares about me...etc..etc...so how can he go 5 days without talking to me? It's not that I don't know where he is or whatever, because I do, but I can't bring myself to call again/or email due to pride. I made the last effort of contact. The only way he can contact me when I am away from work is by going online, I just moved into a new place and don't have a phone yet. But still, some line of communication would've been nice. I mean, I could be in hospital right now and he certainly wouldn't know it.
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