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He's acting like a baby! GRRR....

  Author: 50490  Category:(General Advice) Created:(10/3/2004 4:52:00 AM)
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Ok, to make a long story short, my guy thinks I blew him off last weekend. I didn't though, I was really tired after working and just wanted to go home to catch up on some sleep. I don't know what he has in his head that I was doing. I told him that I was exhausted and that I wanted to take a raincheck on the evening. I was working a double shift basically and knew that I just wouldn't be much company. I emailed him around 10:30am that morning, I didn't get off work til 4pm even then.

I guess I should have called, but he does work out of town, so he wasn't going to be home around noon anyway, and I can't make personal calls from the work line.....so I thought the email would work. He says he emailed me before he left out to come back....that he asked me to either call or email him. He said when he got home, no message on either, so he waited for me all evening, until he just fell asleep for the night himself.

He sent me a snarky email Sunday night/ Monday morning. He basically reminded me of how he waited and how he thought that I just blew him off. So I get it later on while here at work, I wait til my boss leaves and then I call him. Well, he wasn't home from work yet. It was too early still and I should've known that but I just picked up the phone upset and not really thinking. So I get the machine and leave a message....nothing too detailed (he has a roomie)but that it was just me and to call me at work, or jump on Yahoo cause I would be online.

That was Monday evening, I haven't heard a word from him. My friends think that he is trying to prove a point and make me squirm. I just don't know why someone would do someone else this way. He says that he cares about me...etc..etc...so how can he go 5 days without talking to me? It's not that I don't know where he is or whatever, because I do, but I can't bring myself to call again/or email due to pride. I made the last effort of contact. The only way he can contact me when I am away from work is by going online, I just moved into a new place and don't have a phone yet. But still, some line of communication would've been nice. I mean, I could be in hospital right now and he certainly wouldn't know it.

What do you all think I should do?? Thanks...

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Date: 10/3/2004 4:56:00 AM  From Authorid: 62893    I would say he is acting like a baby. But if the roles were turned would you be mad at him if you had plans with him and felt like he blew you off?Misty  
Date: 10/3/2004 7:36:00 AM  From Authorid: 25390    He's just being male. They all do it. Give him a couple more days. If he hasn't contacted you, I would call him once more. Then if he doesn't do anything, he's just a jerk. :P  
Date: 10/3/2004 8:48:00 AM  From Authorid: 4144    he is acting like a baby. he can't help it! seriously, if you really want to get in touch with him you should email him and tell him the same thing you told us. everybody gets a little miffed when plans get changed or canceled but it sounds like he's going overboard. there's a couple of questions you need to ask yourself..... would you act the same way if he was tired and wanted to stay home and sleep? do you think that this guy is a keeper? do you want to spend the rest of your life with a guy who pouts when things don't go his way? it really sounds like he's pouting. most kids get over that at about age 12. you could just copy this whole post and replies and mail it to him!! good luck!  
Date: 10/3/2004 9:01:00 AM  From Authorid: 62085    reminds me of a song back when i was in high school by the rock group "Foreigner"-- it was called-- "Head Games"  
Date: 10/3/2004 9:59:00 AM  From Authorid: 33573    Well if he is going to be stubborn and not talk, you can call or email him. If you want to talk, you can make the first move. I wouldn't think that is giving up your pride. Just think of it, if he is going to be a baby about it and not contact you, then you will be the adult and call or something.  
Date: 10/3/2004 10:46:00 AM  From Authorid: 62889    tut, guys hey. he just feels like u dont want him around now and that if u keep tryin to make contact it means u really care for him-thats what hes trying to find out by not contactin you. id do something for him, buy him something or leave something special as a surprise for him.you'll soon be forgiven and you''ll forgive him and then you can both forget about it all! lucy xx
Date: 10/3/2004 12:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 609    I dont know how long you have been with him and what Im going to say is only advice, don't follow me unless you really agree with it. I hate high matiance relationships. I believe in equality. Having a relationship requires a lot of work even in the best situations, having that kind of childish attitude in my opinion, is not a good sign. How is he going to react when harder trials come up. I suggest talking to him if you want to make it work but if he isn't going to be mature and try to understand or even listen to your side of events then it's not worth it. Like I said I don't know your relationship, how long you've been together or anything but I would give talking to him a shot and make it clear to him that if he's ticked about something he can talk to you about it like an adult, pulling attitude or trying to 'teach' you a lesson is just idiotic. Hopefully it's just a misunderstanding tho.  
Date: 10/4/2004 7:22:00 PM  From Authorid: 30786    *rolls eyes* Forget him. Anyone who is that emotional over something like that, that was a total misunderstanding... imagine what he would be like in other matters  
Date: 10/6/2004 5:45:00 PM  From Authorid: 55297    well, my boyfriend dissapears for 3 days at a time sometimes. Now I finally got him to call me when hes not going to be home. So I dont worry. I dont know. Boys are dumb, thats my explanation for everything.  

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