Date: 9/25/2004 1:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 3263
You need to do what makes YOU happy, not your parents, not the guy. You are the one who has to live with whatever decision you make, and you know what will make you happy or unhappy. I say give it time, don't rush anything, let something come about on it's own.  |
Date: 9/25/2004 1:41:00 AM ( Admin )
Follow your heart and be gentle with the other guy. It's the only way. If you don't love someone then you can't keep them hanging on waiting. Absz  Your a good kind hearted person, you will know what to do.  |
Date: 9/25/2004 1:42:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21266
thanks admin..   |
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Date: 9/25/2004 1:42:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21266
time is right..but the problem here is i cant keep them BOTH hanging and i cant decide on anything/anyone right now..i wanna wait a few years but they keep asking me for an answer!!! |
Date: 9/25/2004 2:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 35720
Go with your heart.. sometimes you have to hurt people, it's just life.  |
Date: 9/25/2004 3:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 3835
I would follow the old wives saying that has held true for me everytime, "When in doubt... do nothing until you are certain of your own feelings first... " In other words: Follow your heart, but be kind..  |
Date: 9/25/2004 5:32:00 AM
From Authorid: 15677
Absz sissy I agree with the follow your heart advise, see where it goes with this other guy and let the first one down as easy as you can. If you have no feelings for him he needs to know. Msg me )  |
Date: 9/25/2004 6:12:00 AM
From Authorid: 62842
How'd you get with the guy that you don't have feelings for in the first place? I think that you need to try to let him down easily especially if you don't have any feelings for him and probably never will. You will only end up being misserable.
Please do follow your heart, be with that special someone that you will have a happy life with and get to share good times with. This may not even be with the frist guy... you never know what the future holds. ~Sairth |
Date: 9/25/2004 7:08:00 AM
From Authorid: 22308
do what you think is right. i have this guy that is my friend and he loves me to death and my parents love him and everything and i just don't like him cause he's like a brother to me and everything. do what you feel you think you should do.  |
Date: 9/25/2004 7:46:00 AM
From Authorid: 46035
Well sweetie.The joys of youth. Sometime's LOVE can be one sided. Or Not in equal terms,it seems than one will always love more than the other or not at all.But true love will prevail. And when the time comes to decide. Please follow your heart. Because it is seldome leads you astray. Best wishes & Take care. Deborah AKA Chinablue  |
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Date: 9/25/2004 11:39:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21266
thanks everyone..i guess ill just tell him to give up and if he doesnt thats his problem..i dont know what else i have to do. thanks so much everybody!! |
Date: 9/25/2004 12:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 25390
No matter what decision you make, someone will get hurt. You have to go with what YOU want. You said it yourself, this is serious. You can't spend your life with someone you just don't LOVE. Don't settle for that. You never know. neither guy may end up being the one you marry. You just have to go with your heart and your mind. Be gentle with whomever you do not chose, but be firm. If you're not ready to make a decision now, DON'T!! There is no need to rush into that big of a decision. If they can't wait, then that's not love.  |
Date: 9/27/2004 6:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 19869
marry me instead  sorry i cant really help with this one! if i was u i guess i'd just tell them both u like them (or dont) and that u wanna wait a while before u take such a big step in your life!  |
Date: 10/1/2004 5:33:00 AM
From Authorid: 23886
Abszzz! (wow, I didnt call you that in a loong time.) lol, I know one of them your talking about, but whos the other =D?  |
