Date: 9/21/2004 1:39:00 AM
From Authorid: 35160
RUN!! dont walk, run from him. sounds like he enjoys playing games. life is to short for that . you can find someone who will respect you . cause he sure doesnt. run girl,.......  |
Date: 9/21/2004 1:58:00 AM
From Authorid: 36352
I'm with Spooky run like he!! Even if he does'nt have a gf why would he say that? Either he's crazy or he's trying to see if you would let him get away with having another gf, either way forget it. Walk away now before you get involved further and it's harder to let go. This is a no winner. Geez (rolls eyes) guys can be such losers and what we will put up with to have one, I swear.
Good Luck!
Love And Smiles  |
Date: 9/21/2004 3:19:00 AM
From Authorid: 1799
there should be these little alarms going off in your head right now because this is not a good situation. get out of this before its too hard on you. something is seriously wrong if this guy is going to lie about having a girlfriend. get out of this relationship. he's not healthy, and he'll just bring you down.  |
Date: 9/21/2004 4:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 62588
Is Keith the guy you aka'ed as Mike on another post? Is he the guy with Ozzfest tickets? If he is either of these guys, he has a history of playing mind games with you. His actions show that he thinks that it's okay to hurt you as long as it serves his purposes. Put it straight in your head and realize that he will never change. Then decide if that is what you want in your life. If you decide it is - get help (psychiatric). You can suggest that he go with you, but it's probably a waiste of time. If he's not either one of those two guys from your other posts, then you need to realize that love starts in the heart, not a foot or two below it. Quit looking for love in the wrong places, and realize that you'll be okay by yourself. It would be a shame if Mr. Right came along, saw you on the arm of some jerk, and didn't even bother. Hope it all works out well for you! Please message me and let me know how it's going.  |
Date: 9/21/2004 4:22:00 AM
From Authorid: 58308
Honey, I would KICK him to the curb!! You sound like a really sweet girl, don't let this little boy play you like a fiddle!  |
Date: 9/21/2004 5:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 3648
Well it doesn't make much sense to me if he's lying about a supposed girlfriend that isn't real...Sounds like he's not living in reality or maybe he's afraid of commitment...But which ever it is you'd be better off telling him bye and showing him the door...  |
Date: 9/21/2004 5:53:00 AM
From Authorid: 29532
I agree with all others, get rid of him. This sounds way creepy.  |
Date: 9/21/2004 6:03:00 AM
From Authorid: 62766
wierd. but ya know there are people out there who enjoy naking the other one feel jealous. they think there hott stuff by doing that or something. I donno. Please dont settle for this guy hes a jerk. I know they can be sooo nice and everything but dont settle for this crapola. Your stronger then him. tell him that you just want to be friends or just ditch him all together If he really does love you hell come for you  |
Date: 9/21/2004 6:17:00 AM
From Authorid: 22308
forget about the situation and if you see him, go the other direction immediately. he sounds like he needs help or something.  |
Date: 9/21/2004 6:39:00 AM
From Authorid: 25390
"He told me that it wasnt his fault that she was at his house and there was nothing he could do about it, but he did love me." Uhhh.....WHAT??? Nothing he could DO about it? That's a cop-out excuse honey. I wouldn't accept that at all. I say get rid of him. He doesn't respect you enough and he's only playing games. Even if he doesn't have another girlfriend as your brother found out, he still lied about that. Why be with someone who can't keep his story straight?  |
Date: 9/21/2004 7:04:00 AM
From Authorid: 48250
This sounds too weird to me...I am with every one else..Even "if" he had a girlfriend he is saying, "It isn't his fault that she in there" SPARE Me!...And Your brother found out for You the "Fantasy" girl doesn't even exist...You are headed for some very serious trouble and heartache darlin...You have already shed tears over his "Deceit"...It's not worth it.. What's that country music song that Tanya Tucker sang? "If it don't come easy, You better let it Go" Love is NOT Emotional Sabotage or Mind Games, Darlin...Don't look back...Best Wishes....T/C  |
Date: 9/21/2004 7:13:00 AM
From Authorid: 62881
I agree with everyone here....walk away now. If he is doing this so early in your relationship then there is no telling what might be down the road. Your trust in him is blown and if there is no trust in the relationship, then you have nothing. The way I see it, you lose nothing by walking away now. Green Eyed Froggy  |
Date: 9/21/2004 8:00:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 29775
My personal opinion is that his cousin had said something to him about going out with me and it made him change his mind. See I remember when we were out one night, he said to me "my cousin called and gave me a lecture saying I better not be going out with you" Now why his cousin would say that is beyond me because I am friends with his cousin. ( not close friends, but friends) I think Keith was intimidated by our age difference and is using any excuse possible. He is 23 and I will be 34 of Oct 2nd. So yeah he is a young punk who probably doesnt want a committment  |
Date: 9/21/2004 10:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 25183
I pretty much agree with everyone else here, get out now!!! You don't need to deal with this kind of junk. There are plenty of men out there that aren't into playing games!  |
Date: 9/21/2004 10:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 47218
"I have a girlfriend" would have been the end of it for me. Either the guy is messing around with you or he's just plain nuts-- neither way is good, so why even waste your energy trying to figure it out? It's time to cut your losses and leave.  |
Date: 9/21/2004 11:27:00 AM
From Authorid: 58611
Umm if he is making up lies and playing games with your head then that should be all you need to know to drop him.  |
Date: 9/21/2004 12:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 26363
Jerk alert! Steer clear of him honey, he's lied from the very beginning and that ain't nothing to base a relationship on. I wouldn't even hang aroung for an explanation...who knows what jibberish will spill forth from his mouth. Move on girl!  |
Date: 9/21/2004 1:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 13119
okay just from your comment that he is 23 and you are 34 (11 yrs difference) you should realise that if he is already playing head games then he isn't going to be stopping anytime soon. Tell him to come see you when he grows up.  |
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Date: 9/21/2004 2:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 36352
Honey we mature faster than men as it is. You want them a little older with hopes you will be on the same page, NOT YOUNGER! Your just asking for a lifetime of child like (okay more childlike) behavior. |
Date: 9/24/2004 7:02:00 AM
From Authorid: 53054
Im with the other ppl!  |
