Date: 9/3/2004 7:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 35160
yep, i know people like that. and i have NOTHING to do with them. dont let him upset you hun. all that does is make you sick. just stay away from him. tell him you dont want to him around and leave it at that. your getting upset over things not in your control . no sense making yourself sick over it hun. if he doesnt want to grow up and take care of his responsibilties then he will eventually pay the price for that. but if you dont want him around and mooching off of you, tell him to hit the road.  |
Date: 9/3/2004 7:46:00 AM
From Authorid: 34487
I generally stay away from people like him. I also make it clear to the others I'm friends with that I won't be around that particular person so there's no confusion. I think it's also best in your situation to do the same and avoid someone that may get you into trouble. Good luck to you  |
Date: 9/3/2004 7:54:00 AM
From Authorid: 62813
Those that brighten your life draw near and dear, and those that diminish your life, steer clear !!! I just love this saying, cause my Hubby say's it all of the time...and ya know what??? It's a great rule to live by...takes all of the drama out of my life...hope this helps sweetie...and get rid of the looser !!! Your USM Friend, Slickchick :->  |
Date: 9/3/2004 8:25:00 AM
From Authorid: 29928
It's better for you and your health tostay away from toxic people in your life. I have known too many liars unfortunately and I don't know of anything worse in this life than someone that lies. I would just stay clear of him. Hugs,  |
Date: 9/3/2004 8:31:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 62766
Yeah I do stay away from him most of the time but sometimes he just tags along and it makes me made EW he makes me sick  |
Date: 9/3/2004 10:34:00 AM
From Authorid: 8024
I wouldn't waste any energy on him ... definately not worth it and definately not worth getting mad about cause there isn't much you can do ... don't go creating trouble for yourself ... c  |
Date: 9/3/2004 11:46:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 62766
yea I know. I get what yous are trying to say and most of the time when he does come around I do leave but some situations Im stuck there but yous are right though. Just the next time hes around maybe I can quietly say Look dude you changed to much for me you lie blah blah all that and tell him that when hes around Im not going to be around ya know. you know what the really messed up part about it is he use to be my best friend. ohwell thats just the way things are  |
Date: 9/3/2004 12:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 62880
Well there are alot of people in this world like that. Theres no reason to hate them, love conquers anything and everything. You should try talking to him and seeing what his deal is. Much Love *Joseph_3*  |
Date: 9/3/2004 5:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 17275
Sounds like he really needs to take a class in social skills. I get the feeling he doesn't really know what having a real friend is all about so he is winging it and trying to impress people by lying through his teeth. I hope someone has the nerve to wake him up soon.  |
Date: 9/6/2004 11:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 30786
Oh yeah, I know exactly what you're talking about. My ex's brother was the same way. He had dropped out of high school, then dropped out of college twice while "trying" to get his GED, and he had a kid that he saw maybe once a year. The little boy would come into town, and he would take off camping with his friends. People who don't take care of their children are some of the absolute biggest lowlifes. I can't believe no one has said anything to him yet or beat the tar out of him. *shakes head* Good luck getting this plague out of your life  |
Date: 9/8/2004 7:33:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 62766
YUP AND OMG i just found out yesterday his girlfriend is pregnant again the kid is 7 months and shes 16 JEEEEZZZZE. hello birth control. anyway I did FLIP out on him because also EVERYONE found out that he is doing COKE what the heck is wrong with him I told him Im done but dont worrie when everyone found out he was doing coke he got an ear ful of hatred. Joseph we tryed helping him there is no hope for a kid who grew up like him not saying it was bad but honestly its the only thing he knows so we all just decided to walk away this time and let him find out the HARD WAY ON HIS OWN.  |