Date: 8/24/2004 4:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 46530
Unforunately friends come and go. Even the best of friends can drift apart because the circumstances of their lives change. In this case his life has moved onto another friend (or more) and this has left you behind. You have two choices. Confront him, which won't change anything bar he may not speak to you at all from then on, or move on in your own friendships and life. I wish you well for the future  |
Date: 8/24/2004 5:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 22308
go ahead and message him and tell him you can't be friends with him anymore if he won't stop lying. that's not being a friend at all. if he can't do that, then he's definitely not worthy of your friendship  |
Date: 8/24/2004 5:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 50434
Tell him you know that he has been hanging out with that other girl but that it is kewl, but you just dont want to be lied to. See where it goes from there.  |
Date: 8/24/2004 5:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 62753
WOW! Don't let him get to you --- sounds like you really like him though! Maybe he will snap out of it, and realize where his true friends are... don't push him though!  |
Date: 8/24/2004 5:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 62100
First of all..is this a friendship between you and Kyle or is it more?? You seem to be very bothered by the fact that he is specifically hanging with another female..because you were okay with him hanging with Daren (who I am assuming is a guy). Or is it just that you specifically don't care for this specific girl??? Otherwise, why should it be such a big deal if he's hanging with someone else, and why should he feel the need to lie??? Couldn't the three of you hang together?? Or perhaps, he is crushing on this other girl and doesn't necessarily want to share his feelings with someone else..even you??? Maybe he's a little shy about it and is afraid you'll tease him??  |
Date: 8/24/2004 7:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 16373
I agree with X 100% BeeBop  |
Date: 8/24/2004 7:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
This is a little confusing. You are acting like you have caught a cheating boyfriend. He is not your boyfriend, he is your friend and he can have other friends as well. Friendships often become stronger, then weaker, then stronger again. If he wants to hang out with her, then that is his decision. I don't mean to sound rude, but this whole thing sounds a little unhealthy to me. You don't need to read this girls' online journal to check up on your friend. If he wanted you to know about his relationship with her, he would have told you about it himself. It seems like you may be driving him away by always wanting his time and getting upset when he hangs around with other people. Try hanging out with other friends and just chill on him for a while.  |
Date: 8/24/2004 9:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 62588
You made your feelings public by putting them here. I'm going to reply but I hope that you understand that I am trying to be rational and not mean at all. I'm guessing that Kyle feels like he has to lie to you because your feelings seem to get so hurt over him hanging out with this other girl. He's nice enough to try to not hurt your feelings over it. It's nice that you went to him and talked to him about how you felt. You didn't get what you wanted from it, though, so just let it go. I get the impression that you like him as more then a friend, and it would be a shame if he found out what lengths you went to to track his movements. He might even start to feel like you were trying to stalk him. Also, if you back off now, and give him the space he needs with other friends, it might not be the end of your friendship. Most people, though, have a friend who got a little too needy that they just quit talking to. No matter what you do, I wish you the best of luck.  |
40979 Category:(General Advice) Created:(8/24/2004 4:38:00 PM)