I'm going to throw up! I can't stop shaking and I am an emotional wreck. And it is only Tuesday.
Every month or so, I make a post updating all of you on my boyfriend's court battle over his kids. In case you don't remember (and because I NEED to share) I will lay it down again for you.
Fourteen months ago, my boyfriend's wife left him for another man. She called the cops, had him bodily removed from their appartment, and started packing. She filed for a legal seperation, and took him to court.
At that court date, she had an attorney and he did not. Her attorney was underhanded (and my boyfriend is not that smart) and they tricked him into signing a CPO on her in the kids. Since he didn't take an attorney and didn't understand what he was signing (her attorney said it was just about the seperation) he signed that he would stay 500 ft from his kids.
She's crazy, but the crazy things she did, don't matter anymore. She kept the kids from him, got child support and STILL faught the divorce. When we went to court in March, the judge said he had a legal right to see the kids...
He looked over the court documents (one of them from her accuses him of molesting the oldest daughter. She had a doctor's report in there that said the girl had never been touched, so she replied that he COULD do it, and that is enough to keep the girls from him) and the judge dropped the protective order on the children.
The judge ordered supervised visits, to re-introduce the kids to him (they were 1 and 4 when this started). They started in April and he has gotten a total of 15 visits - he has called off one and she has called off 27!
We had one contempt of court hearing and the judge sentenced her to ten days in jail, suspended on the terms that she pay my boyfriend's court costs, and does not miss anymore visitations. Of course, she has.
Last Thursday, we talked to our attorney. He suggested I call around to different kindergardens in our area and try to track down where the oldest girl is enrolled. Our next court date is Friday and our attorney is under the assumption that they will take the mom to jail and send the police to bring us the girls.
I am nervous! First of all, we are currently living with my sister. We have a plan to be out of here in a month, but sheesh! There will be five kids and three adults in this three bedroom house for a little over 21 days.
Second of all, I used to be a step-mom. I loved that little girl as much as I love these two, and it ended badly. I am honestly scared.
What if they don't like me? (They've never even met me!) What if they miss their mom? What if?....
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