Ok, Im going to try and make this short as possible. Last August I found out my husband was cheating on me with a co worker, This past January he left to go to NY from GA to have surgery on his jaw, and I havent seen him since. We spoke and decided that we can no longer be with each other, due to his priorities being all mixed up. Thats that. I left our apartment in the beginning of June when the lease was up, and moved all my things to my sisters home (not much)... Went to NY for a week to have some legal things worked on, then came back to GA in the middle of June to help my sister with her son since he will be out of school, and since his grand mother went to her country (Ecuador) for the summer. (sister and her husband been through the same thing I have, they are no longer together either). So instead of having my sister pay for Daycare for her 7 yr old son, she asked me to come back to GA and help her, since I love my nephew so much, I came back. Its now August, and his grand mother is coming back next week. My sister is now picking on me. I cook, clean, mow the lawn, im doing her landscaping and taking care of my nephew. Yesterday I was really out of it, since I went to sleep late Sunday night and had to wake up at 6:30am to get my nephew dressed for school. I did my chores and went on my day as normal I guess. My sister came home and started bickering with me. She was like: "Why didnt you fold the clothes in the laundry? I work all day and have to come home and fold clothes." By the way, these clothes arent mine, just to make that clear. She is beginning to depress me to be honest with you. I am not totaly over my husband and I splitting, as much as Im trying to, its hard to get over after 5 years. I dont wake up everyday, perky and ready to go, I have my off days, and yesterday was one of them. On weekends when her husband comes over with his new daughter, I feel like I have to do everything. Ok example, Last week sunday, he came over with his daughter, I woke up, cooked, cleaned up, went out to mow the lawn to give them their family time together, when I came in, my sister was like "give the baby a bath"... and I was soo tired, her law is huge, and I felt like I walked 2 miles! I did it anyway, not showing how angry I was. I mean how much can one person do? My sister expects me to always be doing things in her house, I am very greatful to her for helping me by keeping my stuff in her garage, and some financial help when I needed it. But when is enough, Enough? I feel so lost, like I want to run away, but where can I run to? I really dont know what to do, and my sister is difficult to talk to. I mean shes 34 years old, Im 25... yet her level of understanding is minimal. I tired talking to her before and its like what I said went in one ear and out the other. So what should I do?! -Diana You can join Unsolved Mysteries and post your own mysteries or
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