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ugh i cant stand her anymore...

  Author:  56297  Category:(Discussion) Created:(8/10/2004 7:22:00 PM)
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ugh ok, i officially cannot stand my mom anymore. EVERYTIME I make a decision its never good enough for her, she hates me friends and she doesnt even know them either they wear to much black or they "seem" like bad people, she doesnt respect any of the plans I have for my future when I graduate. I tell her about my problems and my plans for the future and she gets mad at me and preaches about how thats not a good life and that I'm going to end up going down the wrong path and going to hell. Then I get mad and go in my room and tune everything out with my music then she comes in crying and spazing about how hard her life is and that I'm being a bad daughter, and that I need to think about other people and not just myself and about how I should respect her. SO then I try to explain that if she respects me and my decisions and my ways of life that I will respect her then she says " I cant respect them if there wrong" and leaves and doesnt talk to me for hours. It makes me mad! I meen she doesnt have to agree or like my plans and stuff but she doesnt have to give me a hard time about it. I just cant stand it anymore, I'm close to just running away and going to live with my boyfriend or with one of my friends. Then whenever my friends do something like lets say "go to edmunston" she says stuff like "there gonna get in trouble, thats such a bad place, I dont want you to hang out with people who hang out with lots of boys in edmunston" but yet she LETS me go to edmunston all the time....so I dont get why she freaks out about my friends when they do the stuff that shes okay with me doing. It doesnt make sense at all!

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Date: 8/10/2004 7:26:00 PM  From Authorid: 17081    She sounds like she cares about you. She probably wants whats best for you.  
Date: 8/10/2004 7:26:00 PM  From Authorid: 37101    Go ahead and run away. Consider the outcomes, they're really awesome. I'll spell some out for you. Say you run away and your friends parents reject you and send you home but your mom decides she doesn't want you back. Or, say you run away and CAN live somewhere else and your mother is overjoyed. None of these are realistic and neither is your proposal to "fix" your problems. It's called being a teenager. -  
Date: 8/10/2004 7:29:00 PM  From Authorid: 36704    Oh yeah she sounds horrible, how rough it must be to have a mother who cares about you and wants what's best for you.....that's just so rough.  
Date: 8/10/2004 7:30:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 56297    Base...I really dont want negative comments right now, if your going to leave a comment atleast make it nice and not so rude...even if u dont agree with my post u can say u dont agree with it in a none sarcastic way. Thanks  
Date: 8/10/2004 7:32:00 PM  From Authorid: 37101    Oye... Base was just giving you what you really need. A wake-up call. Be grateful for what you have. -  
Date: 8/10/2004 7:34:00 PM  From Authorid: 36704    your entire post was negative, I went with the mood you set, appreciate that you have a mother who cares, there are people who aren't so fortunate  
Date: 8/10/2004 7:37:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 56297    I know this sounds kinda wierd...but i would rather have a mother who would just leave me alone that or respect what i think, i meen she even yells at me when I give my opinions on how I think theres nothing wrong with gay marraiges or how I think that we should respect people of other religions.  
Date: 8/10/2004 7:41:00 PM  From Authorid: 33041    Geeze, lay off her you stubborn rocks. X_x do you really think that's fair of her mother? Anyways, Tina, just talk to her and try to make her understand that you're growing up and in order to make it in the "real world" you HAVE to make your own decisions. Let her know that if you make a bad one, that's how you learn. She can't control your life, so just tell her to ease off because it's not like you're going to do something extremely outragious. Oh, and if you are thinking of doing something outragious (lol) bad idea...that'll make her even more skeptical and angry with you. She's probably just worried about you, scared of your safety or something. The best you can do is talk to her. But before you do, try to process in your mind what exactly you want to let her know. Just try and get the point across to her.

I hope I could be of help. BTW, what the heck is edmunston? :P

~Kaylee/WC
  
Date: 8/10/2004 7:43:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 56297    haha edmunston is a town thingy in canada ^_^ i live right near the border lol! Anyways thanks for the help WildCherry! *hugs*  
Date: 8/10/2004 7:46:00 PM  From Authorid: 36704    *tear* breaking my heart here wild cherry, of course it's unfair of the person who feeds her, clothes her, and puts a roof over her head to want what's best for her, what's wrong with her mother????? someone call child protective services  
Date: 8/10/2004 7:50:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 56297    base..wanting wuts best for ur child is not yelling at them for having their own opinions and own decisions for their future, then locking themselves in a room and not talking to their child.  
Date: 8/10/2004 7:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 36704    "Then I get mad and go in my room and tune everything out with my music then she comes in crying and spazing about how hard her life is" in the post you wrote you were the one who went to your room. It sounds like you're not willing to listen to her anymore than she's willing to listen to you.  
Date: 8/10/2004 7:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    I think you have a good thing & you are just not seeing it! Your mom cares! Bottom line! When your 18 & move away from home you will make all your own rules & stuff! Untill then be greatful for what you have! A mother who cares!  
Date: 8/10/2004 7:55:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    Totaly agrees with Base!  
Date: 8/10/2004 7:55:00 PM  From Authorid: 33041    All those things that you list is not optional. It's pretty mandatory for a mother...I never said her mom was a bad person, just realize Tina's situation. Her mother insults all her future decisions? Isn't that kind of a self esteem downer? Her telling Tina to go to hell? Oh right. What great behavior for a loving mother who wants the best for her child. I would understand if Tina's situation concerned her mother having the kind of behavior to calmly and collectively discuss some of the downpoints of her desicions...but obviously that's not how it is.  
Date: 8/10/2004 7:56:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    Also agrees with SC! He makes a great point also!  
Date: 8/10/2004 7:57:00 PM  From Authorid: 33041    I TOTALLY understand Base's side saying that her mother cares. But It just seems like her mother is being a little harsh. Oh gosh. What do I know? I'm only thirteen. Anyways...Sorry for having an opinion.  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:00:00 PM  From Authorid: 37101    I'm sorry that apparently we live in a world where adults are not human, therefore are not allowed to become frustrated. I'm sorry that perfect parents do not exist. I'm sorry Tina's situation exists, and I'm sorry she thinks her situation is somehow worse than anyone else's. I'm sorry that we're not sympathizing like we supposedly should. -  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:01:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 56297    Smooth I never said that my problem was worst then everyone elses now did i?  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:01:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    Oh I am not falling into her mom does this & her mom does that! Mom's that love do the best they can! If you judge a mom by what you are told then shame on you! If you see this as a bad thing maybe you should step away & let mom & daughter work things out & not feed the fire!  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:03:00 PM  From Authorid: 19460    Girl, if you only knew. Your Mom cares about you. She probably is trying to raise you to grow up to be a better adult than she is. Not that she is a bad one, I'm sure, but all parents want more for their kids than they had/have. My parents were strict on me. They made it hard on me becuase of the way my older sister turned out. I had to bear the brunt of her actions. They figured they did something wrong raising her, so they would try to do it right with me. Kids will be kids, and I'm not dogging on you. But running away is never ever an option, especially these days when young kids are being used and abused and kidnapped and raped and killed and everything. Just try to live by your Mom's rules and get along with her. Count the days until you turn old enough to leave. And then remember how bad you wanted out when you ARE out and need your Mom for something. You have no idea how bad I wish sometimes I could go back home to Mom and Dad. And even though I was heck on wheels growing up, they are always the first ones willing to break the bank to help me out if I need them. Just some advice, no harm or anything to you. Huggs, Mandy AKA  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:03:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 56297    because I know that there are people with other problems that are WAY bigger then mine, but that doesnt meen I should just swalow everything I feel and keep it to myself.  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:04:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 56297    Thanks baby froggy, I do understand that my mom only wants wuts best for me, but I also think she should respect my views and opinions.  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:06:00 PM  From Authorid: 36704    I'm with Moongirl, I'm not falling for it either, to one sided and I've read posts before about her mother doing this and that for her. They're having a rough period everyone has it, it's not abnormal for parents to not always support their children's decisions 100% that's just life.  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    Be mad & frustrated! But put the blame where it lies! Sounds like your mom is only looking for your best intrest to make something of yourself! Once again I say be greatful you have a mom that give's a darn about you!  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:11:00 PM  From Authorid: 19460    When you grow up and have kids of your own, you will understand everything you arent understanding with your mom now. Now I see why Mom wouldnt let us go on dates with boys til we were 16, I see why we had a curfew. I see why Mom didnt trust alot of our friends. I can see it all now that I have kids of my own and I think I might even be stricter on my kids than my parents were with us! My kids CANNOT bring home a grade below 80. They cant ride their bikes or walk any father up the street than I can see from my kitchen window. They cant go anywhere with their friends and they cant stay the night at anyones house unless I know them WELL. When they tell me some unrealistic thing they think they are going to do as adults, I dont shoot them down, but I do tell them that it wont be as easy as they think it will be. My son has this fantastic notion that he will get drafted straight out of HS to play baseball for the Yankees and not have togo to college. I tell him that would be dandy to say the least, but its not likely. He thinks he will be able to buy a lamborghini diablo when he graduates HS... i tell him he better go to college and become some kind of someone who makes multi millions of dollars LOL I know my kids arent teens yet, but they are getting close to it and they need to set realistic goals in life. Maybe your mom is trying to help you set realistic goals?  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:13:00 PM  From Authorid: 35720    You're a little girl and your mom's looking out for you.. one day you'll understand.  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:21:00 PM  From Authorid: 62752    ur a a teenager EVERYONE here is not downing u, WE have all been down that ROAD, as bad as it sounds, u will understand when ur older, TRUST me, were all not blowing smoke up ur butt, i agree with base and moon 100% u need to calm down and realize this is what CARING moms do, i give her credit!!! this is what kind of parents u need, that is what keeps u out of trouble, but u will not listen to ANYONE on this ever, one day u will look back and be proud ur mom was this way, i know i do, i was one of the only girls i know that was not knocked up at 15, on drugs, being somewhere they shouldnt, my mom used to listen to my phone calls, follow me and everything u could think of, but it is for the best i love my mom every day for how she raised me, good for ur mom KK  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:24:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 56297    So ur saying that wen she yells at me for thinking that gay marraige is ok and that theres nothing wrong with people of other religions that its just good parenting? I agree that trying to keep me out of trouble is...but not stiffling my opinons.  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:29:00 PM  From Authorid: 36704    Is your mother not a strong Christian? It's her house so yeah even if people don't agree with your mom it's her house and her right to raise you in the religion she wants. When you're 18 and out of her house then you can have your own opinion but if you know that she's gonna yell and get upset then why do you bring it up in the first place.  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:31:00 PM  From Authorid: 62752    hun there is a reason, u vote at 18 if u ask me, im not much older then u im 22, and u know that is her opinion, and u dont pay for the bills, worry about u ever second of the day, parents get stressed out look at it this way when ur 18 and u can live on ur own, u will be the boss of your own domain, but for now u will do as she says, and how dare u complain about this, atleast ur not beat, or mistreated, u have no clue what some kids go through consider ur self lucky!!!!!!!!!!!!!! KK  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:31:00 PM  From Authorid: 38751    Be lucky you have a mother! unlike some people  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:32:00 PM  From Authorid: 62752    every*  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:33:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 56297    because she brings it up lol, she sees something on gay marraige and says like "thats disgusting" or she says "thats unnatural" so of course if shes voicing her opinion i will voice mine.  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:34:00 PM  From Authorid: 36704    well if you do it when you know it's going to upset her, you do it for a reaction so when you get a reaction don't go whining about it  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:34:00 PM  From Authorid: 62752    u dont understand must be something with teenagers, heads are strong i dont agree with gay marragies either so what but im old enough to vote and have my opinion KK  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:36:00 PM  From Authorid: 62752    right on base  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:38:00 PM  From Authorid: 62752    and here is a hint if u havent noticed, everyone on this post agree's with ur mom, hun just stop Crying over something that is pointless, ok u will understand later in life, KK  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:39:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    Agrees with Base! What is the whole point????? Deal with it! you are under a house rule! Oh aren't you lucky you have a house to live in? Stop being so bratty that you can't see what's in front of your face! Love! No matter what you do or say will change anything! When you are 18 you can move out & be responsable for your actions! If you have blocked off parental values then you can become a drunk, drug addict, lady of the evening, pregant! And you think you can just run home to mommy when this happens? Get a grip open your eyes! Go to college & get an education! That's the best thing ya can do!  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:40:00 PM  From Authorid: 48941    I really think your mother has your best wishes in her heart and mind even if they are far there. Hang in there,it will get better some day. As a parent myself I have to admit I do some of the same things you say she does, not as bad but in a way I understand her. I just think she needs to chill out.  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:41:00 PM  From Authorid: 62752    *stands up and cheers* gooooo moooon!!! Nicely put KK  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:41:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 56297    im out for the night..getting tired..ttyl take care!  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:52:00 PM  From Authorid: 22308    let me tell you, since i'm almost 20 and going to be out of my teen years soon, you've got a long way to go. your mom cares about you. i get gripes from my mom alot and also when i was your age. just think of how many kids are out there right now without parents or ones that do have them and the ones that don't give a care in the world about what they do. they would think you were pretty lucky. i used to want to be like them but once i stopped and thought about it, i liked how i had it. yeah its rough some times, but you get through it. and don't go running away, all you are doing is running away from your problems and you need to face them. if you keep running from the situation, you won't get very far!  
Date: 8/10/2004 8:57:00 PM  From Authorid: 24319    I can understand how you feel, Tina. When I lived with my father and step mother it was tough. For example; We had to clean our top drawers and they would inspect it. One day, my step mother didn't like the way my brother had did his, told my father and he dumped it all over the floor for my brother to pick it all up again. Was that going to far? Yes, I believe it is. It's a TOP DRAWER, before anyone starts spouting off. He had to know eeeeeeeeeverywhere we went and had to meet our friends. THAT is not going to far. That is being a responsible father. However, on the other hand, while living with my mother, she was going through so many problems she didn't pay any attention to us. Never knew where we were and we fought like you wouldn't believe. We phsycially fought. She'd hit me and I'd hit her back. I wish that many things didn't happen back then. For instance, I wish my mother paid more attention to us, and I wish I never had laid a hand on my mother. BUT, there is no denying that my mother and father loved us and we loved them. My mother got us out of so much trouble I lost count. The point is, yeah, parents can go a little overboard. And, I have no idea what really goes down in your house. I am not there to observe. I am not going to say she doesn't, all parents do. But, she does it out of love for her daughter. Luckly for me, after I was done with my fathers crap (it was really bad) and moved in with my mother. If I had it my way, my father wouldn't have been a little less and my mother would have been a little more. Basically, if you don't try and talk to your mother about things, your kinda screwed and you're going to have to find an outlet to help you deal. Hope all works out ok for you.   
Date: 8/10/2004 9:04:00 PM  From Authorid: 62752    bubbles i agree a parent can go overboard, but all this is to me is a teenager not getting to go somewhere or do something her mom doesnt want her too, now if her mom was beating her i would be a lil less heartless KK  
Date: 8/10/2004 9:08:00 PM  From Authorid: 24319    Well, I can see where you and others might think that and it very well can be that. However, I am not in that house to see exactly what is going down. So, I am not going to assume.  
Date: 8/10/2004 9:11:00 PM  From Authorid: 22308    and also i do think it is great to have an opinion. i don't know what goes on when a conversation goes down and you voicing an opinion but maybe in her eyes she doesn't seem to get enough respect as she should. i'm not saying that you don't give her any at all but maybe in her eyes she sees you not giving her respect and then in that, she doesn't think you should have opinions on things. and also maybe its a responsibility issue. some parents think once you respect them and have responsiblities you can have a say in things. once i started behaving more, like not lying to my parents anymore, i had more say in things. and i really did once i turned 18. now that i'm 19, i've changed so much that my parents have so much respect for my privacy and decisions. they tell me what they think and i do take their advice to heart but they always tell me whatever i do, just know that if i do something bad, there will be consequences. all that your mom is trying to do is help you out. it may seem like she's being mean but when things turn rough, sometimes when you want to get your point across you've got to go tough on people. just tough it out and when you get more older you will see the lesson that she's trying to teach you.   
Date: 8/10/2004 9:16:00 PM  From Authorid: 24319    And another thing. Don't you people remember what it was like when you were her age and your parents got on your case and you swore they were out to get you? Remember how angry your were (Unless you had a picture perfect relationship with your parents), no matter what her reasons are for being angry at her mother, she is allowed to feel that way. At least she is venting in a post and not out doing God knows what to get back at her mother.  
Date: 8/10/2004 9:23:00 PM  From Authorid: 24003    Sounds like youre being immature, which is totally normal youre only 16. Its hard to see it now, but when you have a daughter..are you just going to leave her alone and let her do whatever she wants? I certainly hope not. Your situation could be alot worse.  
Date: 8/10/2004 9:25:00 PM  From Authorid: 24003    another thing, You CANNOT tell your mother you will respect her if she respects you. Thats insane. You are a CHILD, she is an ADULT. She deserves respect for being an adult and most of all being your mother.  
Date: 8/10/2004 9:30:00 PM  From Authorid: 62833    I can remember what this is like and I can totally relate...HOWEVER, I learned the hard way and I even now sometimes say to myseld I wish I'd listened to my mom when she told me this or that. They want what is best for you, and that is why they yell at you and tell you who is bad and what not. But at the same time you are under her roof and you must respect what she tells you to do. When yoy are of age and you can do what you want with your life then she can say nothing about it, but I would bet you when you are 24 or 25 years old you will be able to look back and say you know what Mom was right, I should have done this, I shouldnt have done this. But by then it will be too late, you need to reach a compromise now, respect what your mom says, talk to her and tell her you will respect her opinions and in return youd like her respect, how can you expect her to respect yours if you fo to your room and shut everything out. There has to be an even divide and you BOTH need to reach that point not just one of you. I wish you luck, it gets better you just have to hang in there until you are old enough to be independent and not under her roof. Then you can live YOUR life the way YOU Want to. Until then there has to be a level of respect achieved. Good Luck, ~*PeacefulDreamer*~  
Date: 8/10/2004 9:33:00 PM  From Authorid: 60992    I think she cares about you, but I don't completly agree with it. I think some of you are abit tough on her here. I mean yelling is notthe way to go. Yelling only makes a kid more rebellious most of the time. I do not think it's fair that she yells at you about your opinions. Maybe it's your tone or the facial expressions.. My parents freak out on me god forbid my tone is different when I voice my opinion. I say just zone out, let her say what she wants but just block it out that way you won't say anything that'll upset her..
*Canuck Hugs*
-des
  
Date: 8/10/2004 9:57:00 PM  From Authorid: 62793    HEY HEY HEY! Hold on there people...what's with all the hostility??? She's a daughter who is venting about a parent. Specifically her mother. Don't you think it would have been more helpful to listen to what she had to say and offer constructive criticism rather than a full blown attack. Some of you missed the point entirely. No one should be debating whether or not her mother loves her. I doubt that's what she's thinking right now. I think her complaint more had to do with how she feels that her mother is not listening to her and she is frustrated by it. This may come as a shocker to some of you...but a teenager is entitled to his/her opinion too. Parents are not infallible and a parent that won't listen to what a child has to say solely because that child hasn't reached the "magical" age of 18 is, in my opinion, not being a good parent. I'm not saying that she's a bad parent, I'm just saying that this whole conservative religious "honor thy father and thy mother" thing doesn't always work. Sometimes it's hard to honor a parent who makes blanket illogical statements.
Date: 8/10/2004 10:30:00 PM  From Authorid: 53157    Shes just looking out for you. I've been going throught this with my dad. Him saying oh i dont like so and so dont hang out with them. Stuff like that. parents and kids each have there own opinions on things. Im 16 and wish i could do whatever i want but hey on some things they are very right about because they were kids like us and there older than us so they know more. Be thankful you have a mom that loves you. My cousin married this one woman and they had 3 boys and one day she decided she didnt want to be a mom anymore so she divorced him. She still lives around here but never goes to see her kids and wants no contact with them. I think its horrible they arent gonna have there mom in there life cause shes being crazy. In time youll understand why your mom does things and why she doesnt. We all go through this, one week our parents are so great the next there horrible and we wanna just get up and leave to do our own thing. I hope everything works out for the best. Try to sit down and talk to her and tell her everything on your mind. Tell her you respect that she has opinions but it would be nice if she respected yours too  
Date: 8/10/2004 11:00:00 PM  From Authorid: 58308    I agree with Base and everyone else that agrees with Base.  
Date: 8/11/2004 1:08:00 AM  From Authorid: 28190    I totally agree with Base and Smooth Criminal here. You are still a minor, and from what you have written here, all I see is that your mother cares about you. Stop for a second through all your immaturity, and realize that SHE may just know what could happen to you with the wrong choices. That's one thing I dont see some teens understand nowadays, and that is- that Our parents have been there, lived through it, and know what they are talking about on pretty much everything. Doesn't make her always right, but as long as you live in her house, eat the food she provides you, wear the clothes that she works every day to buy you, YOU have to live under her rules in her household until you are 18. Sounds to me like you are the one that is making the situation so difficult, and that alone is enough to make a parent question the choices that their child makes, and really mistrust those choices. You would probably be really suprised if you stopped fighting it so much and just listened to her, HOW much you would learn from her. You would see she is doing what she can to help you make the best of your life and that you are being very inconsiderate. I know this because of the things you have said in your posts.. You may not like the truth, but its still that, the truth. I hope you work on it, because your mother sounds like she tries extremely hard for you.  
Date: 8/11/2004 1:16:00 AM  From Authorid: 28190    Oh and respect goes two ways.. WHEN you start respecting her, Im willing to bet that she will start respecting you. Also, Froggy had a really good point too, RUNNING Away is not an option these days.. Unless you want to live on the streets for the rest of your life, end up on drugs, kidnapped, raped or killed. I do NOT see how ANY of those listed would be better for you than living at home with a Mother who loves you. So, dont do that, Im sure your situation is really not as bad as you make it out to be.  
Date: 8/11/2004 3:24:00 AM  From Authorid: 30229    There is a lot of great advice here. I agree with Base, MG and a lot of the people here. In a day and age where mothers are killing kids, abuse running rampant, kids killing parents, I highly think that a little yelling and disagreements are anything to worry about, ... in fact... they are pretty normal in a loving household. I know a LOT of people who would absolutely LOVE to have a mom that cares so much about them. When you turn 18 and CAN move out of the house, pay your own bills, stand on your own feet, then I just bet you will be singing a different tune. I, however, also agree with Carrie in that while we are in fact LIVING the life of a teen, we cannot understand the why's of life and it makes life seem too difficult. Only age and maturity can make people thankful for what they had, even though they didnt SEE it at the time.  
Date: 8/11/2004 3:25:00 AM  From Authorid: 30229    LOL, you kidlets dont come with instruction manuals, and we parents can ONLY do what we think is best to do at the moment. Parents are not always right, but at least we give love and support. That you will see when you get older.  
Date: 8/11/2004 7:26:00 AM  From Authorid: 62682    Its a tough age you are at. You are trying to identify yourself and figure out who you are. I know it seems really bad right now and I know its not easy, but hang in there. This will get better. As a mother, she wants whats best for you. Though I know that that doesnt always seem like the case, its true. She loves you and only wants to see good things for you. Hang in there, it will get better. My mother and I went through this too at your age, but looking back at it now...it wasnt so tough and rough, I see now its only because she loved me and cared about me so much. So hang in there hon!

Humming Bird
  
Date: 8/11/2004 8:07:00 AM  From Authorid: 23796    Teenage years are hard on parents and I honestly believe that your mother only wants what is best for you. Your mother cares, believe it or not, even if it isn't handled in the best way. Best ways are not always black and white for parents, because there are emotions involved. Emotions cloud vision, and even though I think her vision may be clouded, I also believe your's is too. Mother daughter struggles are normal. And believe me, at least you have a mother that cares. A mother that focus' on you and not just herself. I didn't get that and guidence was something I needed so much. You are 16, right? You are still young and Way too young to be so into a "Boyfriend" thing let alone running away. Running away isnt' an answer and Boyfriends need to grow up too. I'm sorry to hear about your hardship, but I think the hardship is equal for your mother. Keep your head up, and your heart open.  
Date: 8/11/2004 8:56:00 AM  From Authorid: 47218    do yourself the favor and don't run away. So what if your mom drives you crazy? My mother drove me crazy. Most girls don't get along with their moms at your age. I've met kids with bigger problems-- parents that are sexually or physically abusive towards them or completely neglectful, family members with substance abuse problems, moving in and out of foster homes or being shifted from relative to relative because their parents are incapable of taking of caring of them, and many other sad and shocking things. Your mom may be wiggy, but at least she cares about you and provides a stable place for you to live. You only have a few years left before you are out of school and capable of supporting yourself-- surely you can put up with this for another few years. Time will fly by faster than you realize!  

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