My Fiance and I Are No Longer Together...And I Couldn't Be Happier

My fiance and I called it quits Saturday night. I found out that he's had a relationship on the side with a co-worker of his. She's pregnant with his child and he even asked her to marry him, even though we were planning our wedding together, on our deceased son's birthday no less. That's not all. There are 2 other women claiming that their pregnant with his children.

He did say after the break-up that if myself or my children needed anything, all we had to do was call. This turned out to be nothing but one big fat lie, which it seemed like he did alot of during our relationship.

Yesterday I was having some problems with my electrical box in my house. I had no one else to call. So I called him. He came over and fixed the problem. Later on, like 3 am this morning, his new fiance calls me (wakes me up) to basically tell me to leave her man alone. That I had no ties to him what so ever. I mentioned my son (who is deceaed) that I share with my ex. She said that my son is nothing and will always be nothing to Mark. This is where I drew the line.

I let my ex borrow my car before the breakup because his vehicle broke down. I only said he could borrow it for a few days until he got paid). After the events that happened last night, I told him to bring me my car back and he refused because its his vehicle now. I went into my kitchen to look for the title to my car. I have my important papers put up so that my kids won't get ahold of them. When I got to where I keep my papers, the title to my car was missing.

I immediately called him and he admitted to having my title. I got off the phone and called the police. They filed a report and they're investigating the situation about my title. The cops said I had the legal right to go get my car because its registered in my name. So in a stupid move, my ex gave my the address to where they live. Thank god my parents and my uncle own a tow truck. So we went and got my car. This case is pending on how he got ahold of my title since it came up missing in my house.

Here's the topper. I had some money saved up and I had it put up because both of my kids start school in a week and my son's birthday is in one week. I had over $150 saved up and that came up missing as well. My ex had the nerve to take the money I had saved up for my kids and he had no regrets on taking it. he admitted to me that he took it.

So now I'm basically left with nothing. He did have a bank account set up for my to use, even though it was in his name. I could put in my money and use it to pay bills and keep better track of my money. Today I found out that he closed out the account and kept whatever was left in the account. I was able to pay a couple of bills but not all of them. I had enough in the bank to pay the rest that I owed for the month and now he's got it.

I know it sounds like I've gotten the rotten end of the stick but after everything that has happened, I couldn't be happier to be away from a man like him. I thought I could spend the rest of my life with him. I'm just happy that I got rid of him now instead of marrying him and this happening to me after we got married.

My theory is "What Goes Round, Comes Around". He thinks he screwed me over but I do firmly believe that in due time, he'll get what is coming to him.

He not only hurt my but he hurt my children as well. he took away my son's birthday. I got ahold of my son's dad (which is my ex-husband) and he's going to throw my son a party this weekend over at his house.

Should I hold a grudge against my ex fiance or should I just forget that I ever met him and just move on with my life?

I know I'm better off in the long run but he hurt me.

**hugs**

HayKory22

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