A good friend of mine has a problem that she wanted to ask you guys.
My friend has had a far-off kind of crush on this guy for years now, but she never had the nerve to talk to him before because she used to be really shy. She finally ended up meeting him at a party a while ago, and they totally hit it off. They found out they had all these mutual friends and experiences, and sparks were flying. Ever since then, for like the last 6 months or so, she's heard from his friends and his sister that he (let's call him Matt) has been talking about her and saying really sweet things about her, saying she's so sweet and beautiful, etc. Everytime she's run into him since, they always hit it off continually.
There is one problem: Matt has a girlfriend. "Kate" and him have been going out for a few years now, but it has been off and on for a long time. She had cheated on him in the past, and there have been many problems between them. He is often unhappy in the relationship (this is from his best friend) and talks often about leaving and finding better for himself. This gives my friend hope that they might end up together one day. She's not counting on it, of course, but it would still be great for her. A lot of people who know the two of them (Matt's sister included!) say they hope they will get together someday because Kate is so bad for him. He is well known as an awesome guy and boyfriend. This is the first time that he has been smitten by someone else while he's had a girlfriend.
What do you guys think? Do you think that guys stay in relationships that they're unhappy in solely because it's safe and what he's used to? What are the chances that they will break up? Do you have any similar experiences?
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