Date: 7/21/2004 5:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 24003
Honestly, tell her to hush. She sounds really immature. If she had a bf, and all the real problems that go along with real relationships she wouldnt be so quick to whine about NOT having one. Sorry if that sounded harsh...but ya need to be straight forward with her. All of that complaining surely wont get her a man.  |
Date: 7/21/2004 5:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 49763
I don't have a clue what to do. Just try and get her out and having fun. ~~  |
Date: 7/21/2004 5:33:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
Thanx Green Eyes *huggs* I know EXACTLY what ur talking about!! I told her that theres a LOT more to consider if u had a bf. Thanx so much!! *huggs*  |
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Date: 7/21/2004 5:33:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
LOL Its ok Ultima *huggs* LOL Ohh I do :-p :-p *huggs*>> |
Date: 7/21/2004 7:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 62100
I honestly don't know- maybe give her some hints or suggestions as to how to boost her self-image and confidence??? Advise her to just chill and give it time, that love will hit her when she is LEAST looking for it (TRUST me)...she's looking too hard, and anybody she got with now would most likely not last cause she would be with him JUST to have a guy. Tell her to take time to work on HER and find out who SHE is and what she wants in life and to work on that before she starts worrying about a guy. I wish someone had told me that when I was a teen- now I am in a GREAT 2nd relationship after 10 years in misery with a JERK who took advantage of me and treated me horribly- that's what comes of jumping to the first guy who wants to date you. Know who YOU really are and be strong and confident in that knowledge before you get a guy, and then get the guy who will accept that.  |
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Date: 7/21/2004 8:03:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
I TOTALLY agree!! Cause just any guy that asked her out now she might say yes and then he'll end up breaking her heart. I know, cause I thought I was with the right guy n he ended up treating me the same way!! For about 2+ years....then I was like im just going to chill and not date for a while. Well I dated a couple guys after that n none of them gave me the "the one" feeling....till the guy Im with now. When I met him, I wasnt looking for a bf. I just wanted to be single, but he gave me the "the one" feeling and I wasnt expecting it....at ALL!! Thanx so much!! *huggs* |
Date: 7/21/2004 9:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 22308
i know how she feels. i used to do that a lot before i started dating 3 years ago, but now i like the fact of being single sometimes. it gives time to yourself.  |
Date: 7/21/2004 10:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 52612
tell her 2 calm down, she doesn't have 2 have one, that happened 2 my best friend too, and i was lyke, "come on dude, dont b an idiot" and he's all lyke "uhh ok" i guess thats all it took lol i'm not saying it will work 2 tell a friend something lyke that, but doesn't hurt 2 try..  |
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Date: 7/21/2004 11:35:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
Thanx guys *huggs* Exactly, I think being single gives u time to urself. time to think. *huggs*>> |
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Date: 7/22/2004 8:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 62100
No problem at all- I hope everything works out for your friend!! |
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Date: 7/23/2004 12:27:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
*huggs* thanxies |
