Date: 7/21/2004 4:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 23101
ESP911, the only thing you can do is wait, and see what fate has in store for you. Don't stop living life to the fullest, just take each day step by step.  |
Date: 7/21/2004 4:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 62367
If she told you she loves this other person over you then you have to accept her decision. You can't force someone to love you the way you want them too. Take her at her word and move on. Keep her as a friend if you can. Best of luck.  |
Date: 7/21/2004 4:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 55251
Welcome to the game of love. Unfortunately nobody can really tell you what the right thing to do is.. Only you can decide whats right. What she has to decide is who means more to her... and what you need to decide is whether or not this girl is worth all of it? Like the old saying goes, if she won't use any of her time on you, don't use any of your time on her. Look inside of your self and ask if she is really worth all of this..How do you know that she loves this other guy more? It always seems worse then it really is when your inlove with the girl..who knows, maybe she loves YOU more..You'll never know how she truly feels untill you ask her...Good Luck, and I hope everything works out for the best   |
Date: 7/21/2004 4:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 53284
You can wait or you can move on. Your choice. There are lots of people in the world and you're still young. If I were in your circumstances, I'd try to move on with my life. If she is meant to be a part of your life, it will happen. Otherwise, you're wasting your time.  |
Date: 7/21/2004 4:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 52130
aw i'm sorry about your dilemma (but gosh, this happens to everyone sometime doesn't it? lol) it sounds like she's confused with what she really wants and if you think she's worth it, you should wait for her to figure everything out, if not, try your best to move on and like Little Jung said, take it day by day--good luck!! try not to worry  |
Date: 7/21/2004 4:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 45630
Move on with your life. If she is the one then you will cross again. Life's relationships are but merely practice for when we do meet the one. We learn all of our greatest problems and remedy them in relationships leading up to our true love good luck.  |
Date: 7/21/2004 5:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 27583
life deals the cards , all you can do is be patient and play the hands you are given. wooden nickel  |
Date: 7/21/2004 5:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 62100
The best advice that I can give is that she knows that you love her and she claims to love you too- so sit back and let her live her life as she has chosen it, and if it's meant to be, it will happen.  |
Date: 7/21/2004 5:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 49091
Dont let her go!! I felt the SAME way with my current bf. I waited over a year for him. Cause I was not going to give up on him or get over him. It was a rough year, seeing him with another girl, but we're together now and I could not be more happier!! He said he loved her, but he told me he loved me and with him, I felt the EXACT SAME WAY!! I was not going to let go of the one person I could see myself grown old with. Waking up every morning with. To spending the rest of my life with him. It wasnt an option for me to let go. And I didnt. And Im glad didnt, cause he's my everything. I'd be nothing without him....Dont let this girl go!! Wait for her *big huggs* >>  |
Date: 7/21/2004 7:49:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 39949
thank you all  |
Date: 7/21/2004 8:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 11723
Grin and bear it. I think almost everyone has been in a similar situation. When I was in your shoes, I sort of waited. Keep the hope there, but don't put your life on hold for her. Unless she's willing to leave the other guy for ya, don't wait around soley for her. Date around, see what other options you have. You can't put your life totally on hold for her...what if she never comes around? Who knows, there might be a better one out there for ya. So I guess the advice I would tell you is "Wait for her...but don't."  |
Date: 7/23/2004 2:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 62424
*sighs* wow....thats gotta hurt. But all I can say is to just tell her exactly how you feel and ask her who she would rather be with ((dont pressure her)) and if it turns out that you dont like what you hear than you have no choice but to move on. But if she tells you that she loves you while she is in another relationship then thats not right. Maybe shes having some troubles in her recent relationship and she needs help understanding her own feelings. I feel your pain hun.  |
