Last night I went out with my best friend, her new boyfriend, and his roommate. I had never met her new guy before, but as soon as I saw who he was, I knew it was going to be trouble. It was one of the guys who used to always come to the bar where I work and cause problems. One time, he grabbed me, and basically stuffed his tongue down my throat while I struggled to push him away. I warned her about him and told her to be careful, but that I would give him a chance and be polite. Well, almost immediately, he started hitting on me and focusing all his attention on me, which I thought was rude considering my friend was right there. It then escalated more and more through the night. He pulled me aside and asked me to kiss him, which of course I refused. He was also trying to tell my friend to convince me to *all go to bed together* (I don't know how to put it on a G-rated site. Then we were all sitting at a table together having drinks when he started playing footsies under the table with me, totally going up my leg again and again even when I would totally pull my feet back. Finally, I moved my chair so that when he did it again, my friend would see. And she did. She was mad, and we had a talk between us and agreed that this guy was a total jerk and we wanted to leave without him. As we were waiting for our ride, she pulled him outside and they were yelling at each other over what he did. During that time, his roommate told me that the guy had told him that him and my friend were "just friends" and not boyfriend and girlfriend!
After a while I pulled her away and we went walking outside together to wait. He followed us, not getting the hint, and I'd had enough. I turned around and told him exactly what I thought of him, which included how rotten it was to do that to my best friend, and pretty much freaked out on him for being so rude. He went home, and my friend told me that she couldn't go home and leave the relationship "on a bad note" She said that they needed to talk things over because she hates leaving boyfriends on a sour ending, and that it wasn't that bad because him and I never actually "got together". She ended up staying over at his house! I couldn't believe it!
Now that it is the next morning, I am wondering if I overstepped my boundary to yell at him for being such a *bad word* Should I apologize? To my friend, I mean.
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