Date: 7/15/2004 7:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 55386
>>hugs<< You did what you felt you had to do. Everything happens for a reason, and it always turns out okie in the end. I'm here for you ^.^  |
Date: 7/15/2004 7:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 57579
Three weeks is a bit too soon to fall in love with someone. If you felt you needed to break up with him then you made the right decision it'll take some time for that to click but it will. I'm here anytime you need to talk *hugs*  |
Date: 7/15/2004 7:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 37101
If break ups killed people, Jennifer Lopez would be dead five times. But she survived, and so will you guys. And I can't promise you that you're not Satan, but I think you'd have figured that out on your own by now. You know? -  |
Date: 7/15/2004 8:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 55251
I'll be your friend  He could be in love with you. Love is something that can happen anytime. The question is, have you told about how you are feeling? I mean he can love you, that shouldn't be a problem, unless hes making it one. Often people don't fall in love at the same one, rather one before the other. Its up to you how you want to handle it..Your not a bad person for feeling the way you do  Good Luck and Take Care,  |
Date: 7/15/2004 8:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 62100
LOL- you're not the devil, and trust me..you both will be fine. You listened to your gut and trusted how you feel (or in this case, DON'T feel), and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Don't beat yourself up- and if this guy is as great as you say, he will understand and give you space and remain your friend- and who knows about the future..seasons change, and so can your feelings. Good luck!!  |
Date: 7/15/2004 9:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 53157
The way i see it is if you didnt like him why keep dating him. I mean even if he meant that or not why keep dating him and like leading him on and makin him think that you feel the same way when you dont. in the long run both of you would be hurt. I think you did the best thing for both of you!  |
Date: 7/15/2004 10:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 24003
Oh its fine. You are still young, things will be okay.  |
Date: 7/16/2004 5:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 11097
(((hugs sis))) of course you are going to be okay, because your strong! Sometimes when things just don't feel right we have let go or make a change and many times we are right. Love is limitless and if you don't feel the same then it was good you let him know right away. Don't ever force yourself into something your not ready for. If in fact things between the two of you are patched up and real... ever hear true love always comes back ? Hang in there and know I am always here for you! (((hugs)))  |
Date: 7/16/2004 10:13:00 AM
From Authorid: 4144
i love to see a teen with a good head on her shoulders. not to badmouth teens cause i am not one of those old people that think they are all alike! you did the right thing. if my daughter would have done that a few times it would saved her a lot of heart break. it seems like everybody (40 year olds too!!) is looking for something and as soon as they start dating, they start planning the wedding. it's crazy really. i don't think you are satan. he might but he'll get over it! seriously, you did what you felt like you needed to do and that's the most important thing.  |
Date: 7/16/2004 10:42:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 11749
Thanks everyone! Ah! I love USMers! You are really the best people in the world! Thank you for everything! *big hugs* to everyone! Lots of love - Caitie  |
Date: 7/16/2004 6:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
When you are young you always feel like a breakup means the end of the world and that it will affect you for the rest of your life. Sooo not true! You will have dozens of relationships before you find one that really works for you that you are ready for. Each one will teach you something about yourself and about life. Of course you will be okay! If a relationship is not working for you or makes you uncomfortable, why stay? You did the right thing by not leading him on  |
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Date: 7/17/2004 12:18:00 AM
From Authorid: 62815
You are not bad. Maybe its something you are not ready for right now. I know exactly how you feel. Things going too fast makes me panic. Maybe you should tell him you're not there yet...and if he understands than maybe his feelings are genuine. And if they are, he will wait until you are ready to move to that level. But no, you are not bad at all. You are doing what is right for you, and thats what is most important |
Date: 7/17/2004 7:42:00 AM
From Authorid: 57640
Wow.I know what you're feeling. I'm 15 and this guy that I liked is 17. We didn't go out, but we were always together so it was kinda like "unoffical dating" He told me he loved me all the time, but then he would go kiss other girls... it made me so mad. I told him, how can you know what love is...when you're only 17.. he would get mad if i didnt say it back so i just started to bring up a new subject or not reply everytime he said that.. you're going to be ok and i think you did the right thing. *Hippo Hugs*  |
Date: 7/17/2004 9:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 23101
You did what you think is right, and when it comes to relationships at this point in your life, and any point in your life, your relationships are your relationships, and you know what is best. Don't trouble yourself with these kinds of things when you are only 17. You have many more to go through, and many more chances to find the one you love.. A lil quote for you: "Maybe God wants us to date the wrong people so we know who the right one is and what we are looking for in him. -I dont remember." *giggles* Everything is fine hunny! Turdle AKA  |
Date: 7/17/2004 11:24:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 11749
Ah, thank you turdle! I love that quote! And thanks again everyone! *big hugs and lots of love!* -Caitie
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Date: 7/18/2004 11:11:00 AM
From Authorid: 16000
i think maybe he doesnt know what love is and he is going to fast,,,,,i think u should just tell him that he is moving to fast for you...and i am proud of you for being 17 and knowing that he is going to fast |
