Gravestones ~ faded to grey

I'm feeling in a bit of a morbid mood and I wondered that, if you were to die tomorrow what would you like to be remembered for? It's strange but what I often find is that the things we want to be remembered for are the things that really matter to us. So I suppose what I'm really asking is what matters most to you?

In case you're wondering, on my gravestone what I'd most like it to say is 'She Lived and She Loved'