Date: 7/14/2004 3:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 57640
You can do it Laura!!! You're a strong girl and I know you'll move on and be happy with someone else... *Hippo Huggs*  |
Date: 7/14/2004 3:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 27534
Being a "jerk" of guy myself.....let me encourage you by saying....you are a diamond.....and the "real" diamond hunter is digging to find you....be patient and keep working on being the jewel you are....because soon....you will be found. Best wishes on dealing with the lessons of the heart.  |
Date: 7/14/2004 3:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 9509
I know he broke your heart and it will take some time to get over him. But I promise it will get better, just don't let it get to you. Good Luck, sweetie!  |
Date: 7/14/2004 3:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 58308
I know you can do it! Stay strong!! *smiles*  |
Date: 7/14/2004 3:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 25183
A broken heart can take a long time to heal. One day, however, you will meet the man of your dreams!! I think a lot of us here have been in the position you are in and it hurts a lot, but someday the pain will be less. Believe it or not, you WILL make it!  |
Date: 7/14/2004 3:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 55251
You deserve better, and you know you do. You deserve someone that won't hurt you and leave you. You can and will get over him. EVERYONE goes through this at least once. Its hard, but you will get over him..everytime you start to think about him, don't. Just stop, and think about something that makes you happy. I am always hear for you, so if you ever need anything  Take Care,  |
Date: 7/14/2004 3:34:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57579
Thanks you guys *Hugs*  |
Date: 7/14/2004 3:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 34487
This is a hard situation to be in. I think most people can relate to your feelings. You need to remind yourself that there were some VERY GOOD reasons for your not being with him any longer. If he had treated you right or if you were a perfect match at this point in your lives, you'd most likely be together. Stay strong and I won't tell you not to remember the good times but also try to remember what went wrong and why. You're a strong person and you know when you need to ask for help and that in itself will get you through. Good luck and remember that the perfect someone for you but timing is everything.  |
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Date: 7/14/2004 3:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 34487
My last sentence should've said.... Good luck and remember that your perfect someone is out there. You need to focus on yourself right now though, building your self-esteem up and becoming your best. |
Date: 7/14/2004 3:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
Everyone goes through these cycles of feelings. There is a lot of things you can do. When I broke up with a jerk boyfriend of 3 years, it was soooo hard but I knew that he was treating me bad and I needed to stay away from him. The first thing I did was build my self esteem. I kept telling myself that I was worth more than him and that he had no right to treat me badly. Then I wrote a long list of all the things he had said and done to me that were bad. Everytime I got the inkling "just to call and say hi" I'd pull out the list and read it over and let myself relive all the bad things he had done and then I felt the urge to call go by. I'd call a girlfriend and go out with her instead of talking to him, as well. Friends are THE best medicine for a breakup! I don't think it is a good idea to start dating again right away. You will fall into the trap where you compare every guy to him, and they will come up short because you are not over your ex. Give yourself time and space to heal. Go out with friends, exercise, read, do whatever makes you happy and occupy yourself with that. You say yourself that he treated you bad and you know you don't need that. Protect your heart and feelings and stay away from him. Tell your best friend to come over to your house instead. Out of sight, out of mind. You will get over this in time and have a much better guy for you in the future  |
Date: 7/14/2004 5:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 4144
keep dating other guys. don't tie yourself down to one at your age!! o.k. i don't know exactly how old you are but if you are under 40, just keep dating!!  |
Date: 7/14/2004 5:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 55967
The part of you that misses him is simply a part that wants the old back and is afraid of change and that only emptiness lay ahead. Life is not filled with emptiness; you will keep going in it, and the new changes will become more natural. The part of you that misses him will slowly give way to the changes that life brings. Life is all about change. One day you will find someone who will be more compatible to your own self, and then you can stop the changes in relationships and go through the rest of life's changes with your new man. Take care.  |
Date: 7/14/2004 5:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 52489
I know exactly how you feel. My wife and I divorced recently, and I feel the pain in surges. My Advice: Try to stay busy. Get into a schedule of physical exercise on a regular basis. Get a part-time job, or take up some new hobbies. As long as you're busy, you don't have time to brood.  |
Date: 7/14/2004 6:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 55297
My first serious boyfriend just used me. I hurt so bad, I hated him, then I loved him, then I hated him so much. then I loved him and blah blah blah... It was hard, the pain lasted for a while, but eventually, it subsided and one day, I realized it was gone. Relax hunny, it'll be ok, thats what I did and love found me... When you least exoect it, love will come to you and it will take you by surprise. But first, let the hurt heal, and it will, trust me on this, it will.  |
Date: 7/14/2004 6:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 50678
I know how you feel, I felt the same way with my ex until the last time he broke up with me, I finally relized he was a blank, lol. Move on!! It will be best for you!! If you need to talk just let me know.  |
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Date: 7/14/2004 6:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 50678
PS He will never change!! |
Date: 7/23/2004 2:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 62424
All I can say is that you deserve better and that there are better guys out there waiting for a girl like you. I know that it sounds like a bit of a cliche but its the truth  |
