Who does he think he is fooling? Just a weird situation!

I joined a weight loss forum a few months ago, everyone on there seemed really nice and always offered advice.

This one guy complimented me often, and made me feel good, then I noticed that he was paying WAY too much attention to me. He started by sending me private messages on the forum. He never really said anything out of the way, so I didn't think too much about it.

If he seen a post were I seem to be having a bad day, then he would write and say something like, "I hope your day gets better, a pretty young lady like yourself, shouldn't ever be sad."

He is like 5'12" and weighs 185 pds. He is not an overweight man at all. Very buff looking, and well taken care of. I often wondered why he was on this forum to begin with, then I thought, "well maybe he was overweight in the past and still around because he made friends here."

He seems welled liked on there by all, and he even talks about his children every so often. He made a "flirty," comment about one of my pictures on there, but I laughed it off as a "friendly," joke.

Yesterday he contacted me on MSN messenger, we just chit chatted, and all seemed fine. He then asked if I had a webcam.. "alarms start going off in my head now," I simply told him, "No, never felt the need to have one of those things."

He then says, "Aww :( I was hoping that you did, but I have one.. can't get it to work right on MSN messenger tho. Do you have Yahoo?" I said that I didn't, but I do..

Then he wants to know about my marriage, if I am happy..etc I got off that topic as fast as I could. He goes on for another 20 mins. about how pretty I am..etc I finally told him that I had to go, and then I blocked him.

I log on today, and he contacts me on Yahoo, now how in the world did he find me on Yahoo? He was at work, and he says that he wants me to see if I thought he had lost any weight. More to the point, he turns his cam on, I see him, I tell him that he wasn't overweight to begin with..etc

Then he sends me a URL and tells me to check it out, I stupidly go to it, and it was pics of him "semi nude." I reply back with, "That was more than what I wanted to see!" He then says, "Aww, do you want to touch it?" Well, about this time I totally lose my cool, and go off on him.

Does he think I am stupid? How many other women has he pulled this off on? He is married, has 3 kids, and talks to women like this at work. I guess he thinks, "I will go to a fat forum, women there are vulnerable, have no self-esteem, and would be easy prey. I am good looking, and they will love how I compliment them."

I don't think this guy has ever been overweight, he is just looking for some easy "play," on the side. Ohh that reminds me, he mentioned that he travels a lot, and asked what state I lived in, because he may have to visit soon. Jeesh! Yeah, I may be overweight but I'm not stupid!

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