My One and Only B-day Wish (Update to another story also...)

Well if you have read my other post entitled Controlling b/f then you should know somethings about him.. well here is an update:

I went to a psychotherapist and she said that I was depressed. I told her about him and now she wants me to rent "Whats Love Got to do with It?". (not sure if i did the quotes and punctuation corretly lol). So I still need to do that. She also said that he emotionally abuses me. I have to go in and see her again on the 24th...

What that has to do with my post:

Well for my b-day my two best friends (mentioned in the other post) asked if I could come over tomorrow since it was my birthday- that they would have cake for me and a little party. Of course I said yes because I haven't really been around them for many many months and they are both like sisters to me. I didn't know that my bf planned on taking off tomorrow to spend time with me and he tells me this today when I already said yes to my friends. He got all mad at me we argued etc. Basically he says its my fault because I never ask anyone else (him) before I make other plans. My view is that he could have told me that he thought about taking off tomorrow to spend time with me last night when he called... Do you all think I am in the wrong? He also doesn't trust me over there because he thinks that my one best friend... dun know how to put it without using the word he used... (he thinks she messes around with too many guys, etc.) but he thinks that after over two years of being with him and getting yelled at because i talk to other guys that I am really going to mess with them... I just dun understand him.. I am not the person to cheat on someone no matter who I may be with and he doesn't except that. He told me I better take my cell phone with me tomorrow because he is going to call me :\.

I dun know I guess I'm not really seeking advice- just an answer to my question and also I just needed to get this out... Thanks for reading! *hugs* Ash

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