Date: 7/8/2004 10:13:00 AM
From Authorid: 9509
It's hard to say. Some guys are just so insensitive, it makes me sick. Don't worry about if he is going to email you. If he does then you know he's into you, but if he doesn't I wouldn't worry about it. You can find someone better. Good Luck, sweetie!  |
Date: 7/8/2004 10:22:00 AM
From Authorid: 48250
I agree with Soap Monkey...he could be busy, but then again he might be just a jerk and You can find someone Better worth Your time....T/C  |
Date: 7/8/2004 10:29:00 AM
From Authorid: 62704
I don't know but it sounds to me like maybe he could be making up excuses. He probably feels uncomfortable going out with his employee's daughter. The way he turned around and left when you asked him does not sound good to me. And then he admitted that he knew you were not joking about going out with him. So why did he turn around and leave if he was interested? I hope I'm wrong and you do get to go out with him. ~Chely~  |
Date: 7/8/2004 10:32:00 AM
From Authorid: 62798
i think it is a possibility that he is busy. it does happen that things come up. if you are worried about it, you can ask him tactfully if he is actually interested in gongi out with you, that way you will know for sure.  |
Date: 7/8/2004 10:45:00 AM
From Authorid: 37101
Well, the world doesn't stop just because you come back from vacation. And he may not be authentically busy but it may just be a bad time for him. Ever think of that? Sounds like guys aren't the only insensitive ones. Believe it or not, we have feelings to. ... Sorry for the rant. Anyway, I'd say he's probably busy or has good reason for delay. But if it keeps up for a while longer, he's probably putting you off. -  |
Date: 7/8/2004 10:58:00 AM
From Authorid: 25183
I agree with Smooth Criminal. Guys do not think of dating the way the we do. It doesn't mean that they are trying to be insensitive. It has taken me a lot of years in the "dating pool" to realize this. Don't over analyze, I always do that, and I am ususally wrong in what I think.  |
Date: 7/8/2004 11:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 58611
He is totally making excuses, if he wasnt he would be all over it. Just leave the ball in his court now and dont persue it further. The next move is his and he is well aware of this.  |
Date: 7/8/2004 11:04:00 AM
From Authorid: 48809
Author, I hate to say it but, perhaps working on his house is more important to him than going out with you... this is the way I would take it. I would not pursue this any further and if I never heard from him anymore I would simply assume that he was not interested! This is just the way I would do it... maybe you will talk him down yet though! lol.  |
Date: 7/8/2004 11:46:00 AM
From Authorid: 26363
Well frankly after his first reaction I would've lost interest completely. He didn't handle that in a very tactful way. I understand it may have made him feel uncomfy as your mom works for him but he could've done better than that. I think you are better off moving on. Seems to me he likes the thought of you liking him but has no intention of taking you up on your offer. His loss!  |
Date: 7/8/2004 12:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 59746
Well, in a way, it's pretty hard to say what's going on. Maybe he really is busy. Maybe you should be a little patient and wait it out. Though if he keeps using "busy excuses", then you should confront him about it, and if it turns out that he really is making excuses, then it's best to just forget about him, because if it's true that he's making excuses, then something's up.  |
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Date: 7/8/2004 12:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 59746
Moreover, I agree with Posey. I mean, what person spends all day and night working on a house? Unless he just has something special going on with the house. Other than that, who knows? |
Date: 7/13/2004 6:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
I would say that he is trying to let you down easy, in all honesty. If he really wanted to date you, he would make more of an effort to make time for you. No big loss. It probably has nothing to do with you at all, he might just not be ready for a relationship at this time, etc. Hey, he may even be gay! You never know. Don't wait around for him. If he wants you, he knows the invitation has been extended. At least now you know you have the guts to ask a guy out (which is a very big deal in my opinion) and can do it again in the future! good luck!  |
29775 Category:(General Advice) Created:(7/8/2004 10:08:00 AM)