Date: 7/6/2004 1:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
Staying together for the sake of the children when the parents are miserable does more harm than good for the kids. I've only been married about a month and a Half so I really cannot relate yet.  |
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Date: 7/6/2004 1:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
er well and heres hoping I never relate.. |
Date: 7/6/2004 1:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 62753
Well ---- I think that when two people don't have children that it is easier to just say - OH HECK I GIVE UP AND I AM GONE ..... when it isn't really what they want....... people say things when they are angry of coarse.... I think that if you really love someone, and that person doesn't dramitically change than it isn't possible to fall out of love, it just means you didn't love them as much as you thought you did. A lot of times people make a realization in thier head that --- the marriage they are in is safe, and comfortable, and they just settle even if they aren't really happy. I have a son, and beleive me I LOVE MY HUSBAND more than life, but there have been some times when I would have kicked his butt out if it wasn't for my son, but I know if I kicked him out- I'd be BEGGING HIM dearly to come home the moment he left!!!! Hope this made sence! Lizard-1  |
Date: 7/6/2004 2:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 62401
I have been married for almost 2 years and nothing has changed...if anything has, i love him more, seeing him with our daughter and the way he looks at her. People told me that i was getting married too young and it wouldnt last, but i disagree  It is going great! -Lindsay  |
Date: 7/6/2004 5:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 62104
I'm not married but have been engaged to my partner for over 7 years, we have two kids and even though we're not legally married, it feels like we are. I love him very much but do have moments where I wonder what my life would be like if we weren't together or if I was with someone else. Having kids does make it alot harder to leave a relationship but it should not be the only reason a couple stay together if there are major problems in the marrige/relationship. Everyone's case is not the same, some couple will fall out of love with each other and some won't.  |
Date: 7/6/2004 7:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 53427
I don't think my love for my husband has ever gone away. But the excitement of everything being new I guess isn't there as much. We've been together 11 years so its different than it used to be.. But I'm not really unhappy. At times I can't stand him, but thats because of the way he behaves, not necessarily because I'm bored of him lol.  |
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