Date: 6/15/2004 4:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
Why would you tell her..She doesnt need to know that honey..That would just hurt her..You can make it up to her by treating her with the respect she deserves..Do something special for her to show her how much you appreciate her..She would love that..Just a question though..Why were y'all talking about such a sad subject when you were supposed to be on a FUN trip?? LOL  |
Date: 6/15/2004 4:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 50499
What Lady Luck said  |
Date: 6/15/2004 4:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 22992
.. uhm just try and get over it i guess  |
Date: 6/15/2004 4:47:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61472
we were all just fighting and like then one of our guys friends started crying and said he just wanted to fit in after one of us sorta hinted at how he was alwatys trying to hang out wiht these popular guys that didn't want to hang with him. and then from fitting in i cried cuz im always trying to fit in with my family and then it became a family thing. lol yah i kno evverything was pretty random lol  |
Date: 6/15/2004 4:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 36537
just tell your friends that you were upset, and you didn't mean that they acted mean to you all the time.  |
Date: 6/15/2004 4:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
I fell bad over the same reason my I have issues with my own mother and my fruiends and other people say she is nice. But here is why I have issues with her this is from my side anyway mother tells me I am a horrible child and says "no wonder you have no friends" I tell my dad what she has done when I am angery at her. I fell alful about that but she really dose not know how hard it can be dealing with her I once was haveing trobble with my homework and she hit me with a note pad and yelled at me "other kids can do this why can't you! it is not hard I could do this when I was younger you stupid child!" then she suddenly went from furrious to to nice she was all like "you poor thing  " she means well And yes I know it can be worse and I know what she has done I would not exist ect but she can really have a bad temper somtimes.  |
Date: 6/15/2004 4:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 8278
i agree with lady luck on this. i also think, if the topic comes up again with your friends, let them know that you were upset and said some things while you weren't really thinking. that your family isnt all that bad.  |
Date: 6/15/2004 6:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 40979
Maybe you should tell your friends you didn't mean what you said about her .  |
Date: 6/15/2004 6:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 62588
You needed to vent - everyone does occasionally. And no, don't tell your mom. What good would that do? Would it bennifit her in any way? It would make you feel better and her feel worse. If you really want to make the situation better, the next time you talk to your friends, tell THEM that you feel bad, and explain to them that you hope that they understand things aren't always that bad - and a lot of times they are better then you let on to. Whatever you do, though, please don't tell your mom. There's no sence in hurting her feelings  |
Date: 6/15/2004 10:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 53558
We all say things in the heat of the moment. What she doesn't know won't hurt her. Just buy the bigest bunch of flowers you can afford and tell her that you love her....hugs....  |
Date: 6/16/2004 12:25:00 AM
From Authorid: 50434
Parents at time will always seem to be the bad guys that life. MOST parents try to do what they think is right to better us as people. Me and my mom didnt get along when I was a kid but there were reasons why <not getting into it> but either way no matter how bad it was I am very thankful to her. She made me who I am and I think I am a good person. Just next time before you speak think about the good things they do for you.  |
Date: 6/16/2004 10:38:00 AM
From Authorid: 62766
well there is nothing you can do to change what you have said but you can cover it up and replace bad things with good things ya know im sure your friends know shes still a great person but make it a point to pick out every nice thing your mom and dad do for you and tell your friends about it Kind of brag ya know well good luck  |
Date: 6/16/2004 10:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 13119
why try and cover it up to your friends, it doesn't matter, it was venting. You don't need to tell your mom it will only hurt her, just move on from it. Every teenager does it at one time or another, it just shows that you are an independant thinker and are growing up and have your own opinions and views.  |
Date: 6/16/2004 5:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
I have had this happen to me before. You are just feeling guilty about exposing that much of yourself and your relationship with your parents. Having problems with your parents is normal and doesn't mean you don't love them. It is good to get stuff off your chest  |
Date: 6/17/2004 4:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 62593
It's part of growing up. Everyone vents about their loved ones. Don't be hard on yourself. ~Satori Crush  |
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Date: 6/17/2004 8:49:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61472
thanks you guys for all the help! i really really appreciate it. i just felt really bad for not telling her cuz ever since i was little i would tell her everything andit just feels wierd now that im a teen not telling her nething and i feel like ive betrayed her or something |
