Date: 6/15/2004 12:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 62136
Talk to her. She may surprise you with what's buggin her. Ok, maybe you have done that, now what? There really isnt much you can do, its her parents responsibility to help her and probably the only ones that can, if they want to. My daughter was and sometimes is like this(she is 14), I have found that she is frustrated and feels like the world is against her. If her parents wont follow the dr's advice, ther's nothing really else you can do unless she is being abused and then maybe you can report it. Not saying she is but using that as an example of what YOU can do if anything. Not a good situation it sounds like. Hope things get better.  |
Date: 6/15/2004 12:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 62752
is she bi-polar? she does need her medication then if she is acting like this, try to sit down with her and the family and talk to her with it, and if that doesnt work there are legal actions u can take, well how old is she first? KK  |
Date: 6/15/2004 12:44:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36646
Ok...she just turned 13, she acts bi-polar, and only took 1 maybe 2 doses of the medication. We have all tried to talk to her, but it does no good, nither did counciling. She is a sweet kid, but I am having trouble with her being this way. She only does it when there are people around...Like her mom or grandmom or a friend...It is making me nervous and frustrated trying to put up with it.  |
Date: 6/15/2004 12:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 62740
tell her parents she needs the medicne, they em it will proly only get worse if they dont then if that doesnt work then talk to her doctor, tell him/her that her parents wouldnt allow her to take the medicne...*BurningKitten*  |
Date: 6/15/2004 12:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 62740
tell her parents she needs the medicne, they em it will proly only get worse if they dont then if that doesnt work then talk to her doctor, tell him/her that her parents wouldnt allow her to take the medicne...*BurningKitten*  |
Date: 6/15/2004 1:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 15157
She sounds spoiled to me...But that isn`t exactly her fault alone...Parents are the blame for that. If the Parents are denying her meds...why did they take her to the doctor in the first place?...That is very perplexing.  |
Date: 6/15/2004 3:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 22992
Get her back on the medication and talk to everyone in the family.. really just speak and get everything out, tis the only way to be sure you KNOW what exactly needs to be helped, done with, and moved outta the way  |
Date: 6/15/2004 4:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 53284
That must be really frusterating for you. Don't let that interfer with the rest of your life.  |
Date: 6/15/2004 4:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
I classified as a probblem child in primary school. because I have probblems with learning. and I would missbehave. ok you need to speak to your perents about the violence. it will after awhile hurt her. not to mention you.  |
Date: 6/15/2004 4:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 8278
sounds like my son. he was like that at a very young age. at the age of 5, he was on medication. he is 9 now. at first, i didnt want to give him the meds. i felt bad doing it. but it really inproved his behavior. when he was younger, he was jumping out of classroom windows, getting into fights and even locking the principal out of his own office. now, he is MUCH better. my son has ADHD, ODD (obsessive defiant disorder), severe behavior problems among more (like seizures etc.) the doctor said it is possible that he is bi-polar...but they wont diagnose anything like that until he is in his teens. he's too young now. was your sister like this as a small child or is it a new behavior? it honestly sounds like bi-polar to me. i would talk to your parents and tell them she needs the meds. it may make a world of difference. best of luck to you  |
Date: 6/16/2004 6:20:00 AM
From Authorid: 62624
Well, the next time she is violent towards you, call the cops. Maybe once she gets arrested, your family will realize that she really does need the help. Kimberley  |
Date: 6/16/2004 9:13:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36646
Everyone knows how she is, but they won't and she won't do anything to help her b/c she doesn't think she needs help.  |