Date: 6/14/2004 10:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 57232
I hate to say it, although he was a rat you are curious because you once were together. I had a 'friends with benefits' and I knew from the get go that it was never going to be serious, so when it got to be 'around that time' I sort of said OK I get it, it was fun while it lasted. I've been with my boyfriend now for 4 years and about 2 years ago I was in the mall with him and we were at the bottom floor and looking at those calendars they try to sell every once in awhile. I heard a noise above me and there he was, Joe the guy before. He was grinning and waved sheepishly and motioned for me to come up there. I went to my boyfriend and held on to him, he had no idea I was looking up and such, but I do secretly wonder what did Joe have to say???  |
Date: 6/14/2004 11:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
people who treat other bad think it is the easiy path but really it is just easy to get into and alot harder to get out of. and live on to.  |
Date: 6/15/2004 5:31:00 AM
From Authorid: 62753
Cyndi - it is normal to wonder about him, because at one time you probably really cared for him. I still think about one of my ex boyfriends, the only difference is he just kind of disappeared after three years of being my high school sweetheart! I think of him some times, but it doesn't mean I don't love my husband. I think that the guy you use to date is probably just going through some hard times, and maybe he is getting his turn of bad events. Lizard-1  |
Date: 6/15/2004 7:32:00 AM
From Authorid: 15228
I would let sleeping dogs lie. Sounds as though his life is already messed up enough. You have a husband and 4 kids?? How is he still messing up your life?  |
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