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Date: 6/14/2004 11:41:00 AM
From Authorid: 62675
Life is too short to have regrets!! The worse thing that can happen is you tell him how you feel and he doesn't feel the smae way. Then at least you know and ten years down the road you are not going "what if..." That is my advice. Good luck with whatever you decide!! -Sunni818  |
Date: 6/14/2004 11:42:00 AM
From Authorid: 56293
First, I wouldn't run and tell him all your feelings, just yet. I was in something like this. A guy and I broke up, we didn't see each other for awhile and when we finally did .. all these old feelings came back. Of course, we acted upon them .. And we ended up right where we started. I think its just something you were used to, and miss feeling ... So maybe you should just stay friends for awhile, and see what happens? Instead of rushing back into things.  |
Date: 6/14/2004 11:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 8817
my boyfriend of 5 yrs and I just recently broke up as well. At first like you I was fine with i. We would hang out but it was if nothing had changed we acted like we were still together.. but we weren't together. Soon it became too hard for both of us and now we are both in a limbo state. Not knowing what to do. Get back together or move on. I got with him right b4 i turned 15 he was 16 ... we are now 20 and 21 and he is my everything. And although I know this we are still no together. Confusen? yes and my reason for sharing all of this is because nobody can tell you what to do. Everybody told me to go back with him but for some reason I just can't. Sure I may lose him in the long run but it is a risk I have to take for myself. And if you still care for your guy and want to be with him then take that risk and tell him. The only regrets in life are the risks we were too afraid to take.  |
Date: 6/14/2004 12:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 57579
If you're gonna tell him tell him to his face  |
Date: 6/14/2004 1:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 58611
You should give it another shot, if he feels the same as you then it wont matter how or where you do it. I broke up with a guy I had dated for a year and moved about an hour and a half away, 9 10 months later I could not get him off of my mind still! I could not stand it anymore and had to see for myself and showed up at his door one night at 3 am and we were married 4 months later, and that was a little over 3 yrs ago! Good Luck!  |
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Date: 6/14/2004 2:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 53634
perhaps this is comming from a different angle but after I married my childhood sweetheart and divorced him less than two years later I learned the lesson that just because you love someone doesnt meant that they are the right one for you. I also learned that love wasnt looking into someone elses eyes but two people looking in the same direction. I took what i learned (a hard lesson learned) and went on to marry again. This time it feels so different.... much better. The early years of dating are supposed to be the best years of your life together. It doesnt get much better than the early days. Hope you do whats right for you and it will feel right. **Spacegal**  |
Date: 6/14/2004 5:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 22308
i would move on, the thing i would try to do is be friends with him and see where it goes. but along with that move on, there are PLENTY of guys out there. it may not seem like there will never be another person to take his place and that is true, no one will ever take the place of your first love. but there are tons of guys out there and you should live your life. let me tell you something...being single is FUN. yeah it does suck sometimes but its actually pretty fun. i like it but i don't like it forever. just have fun. enjoy your life!  |
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Date: 6/15/2004 12:44:00 AM
From Authorid: 62575
When a relationship ends it is common for things to sort of feel the same when the two are together afterwards. Do not misinterpret this and a reason to get back together. Think about the reasons you broke up and how much that would affect your relationship if you were to get back together. No reason to go through a month of pain just to break up later and do it again. Above all do not let jealousy get in the way of your decision. Jealousy can make us go right back into a relationship because we dont want to see are partners with others. Don't let it cloud your judgement when your contempating your decision and you get a jealous thought stop thinking about it for awhile and return to think on it more later. May you think clearly, wisly, and may your decision be the best. Negative_One |
Date: 6/16/2004 5:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
It always pays to be honest. Tell him that you still have feelings for him and think that there is a good chance you two could be happy together. At least then you will know how he feels and can either move on with him or without him  |
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