Date: 6/13/2004 8:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
Aww Grammie I am so sorry! Huggs you tightly! Someday he will wake up & realize what he has done!  |
Date: 6/13/2004 8:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 53909
Aw I'm sorry to hear this. I'm sure one day he will come around.  |
Date: 6/13/2004 8:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 36704
sorry to hear that Zema, I hope your family gets things worked out soon  |
Date: 6/13/2004 8:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 28190
I'm sorry to hear this Zema.. I hope he realizes this and comes around someday soon. Many *hugs to you and your hubby*  |
Date: 6/13/2004 8:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 53961
Zema, there is not a word I can say that will make it all better, but just know that I care. Love, Hugs and Butterfly Kisses my dear friend.  |
Date: 6/13/2004 8:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 3688
*hugs* I'm so sorry sweetie   |
Date: 6/13/2004 8:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 44960
Aww, AuntieZ...I went over 3 years and never spoke a word to my son because he disowned me. I know how painful this can be, my heart goes out to you. Much love to you my dear friend. Donna (((Huggzz)))  |
Date: 6/13/2004 9:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 3263
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Date: 6/13/2004 9:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 57232
Gold Dust Woman, I'm not sure if you want to hear my reply or not, it might make you sad. I'm 26, and my brothers are 21 and 23 (24 in July) and I have a terrible relationship with the both of them. It's really horrible and it tears my mom up inside. I didn't make things any better the other day when I had mentioned that if I had needed a kidney and they were a match I'd search another donor that's how much I don't want anything to do with them. If I ever had kids, they will have an Uncle, but it will be Mike's (well if I still marry him someday) brother. We just do not get along, it's that volatile  |
Date: 6/13/2004 9:47:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 42945
as soon as I opened my eyes this morning I thought about him...he was such a darling little boy and God only knows how hard I've tried to get things back together for us, but he just will not respond, the disagreement was with his wife mainly, and at that time she would come into our house and treat us like dirt, wouldnt acknowledge us in our own home, we took this for quite a few years until one day I blew my stack and told them what I thought about it....I told her not to come back unless she could act like a responsible adult, but Larry and the kids were welcome any time...now I know he is sticking by his wife and I wouldnt want it any other way...but!!! I dont think asking for a bit of civility is asking for too much to come from her....so I suppose its the old cliche' "mother in law" syndrome!!!!  |
Date: 6/13/2004 9:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 21867
Zema...so sorry to hear this...my heart goes out to you dear friend ((((((((HUGS)))))))  |
Date: 6/13/2004 9:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 15157
Aw Sweetheart!...I am soooo sorry for your heartbreak...(((((squishyhugz)))))  |
Date: 6/13/2004 10:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 19460
awww big hugggs! i'm sorry for your troubles! people can be stubborn. maybe he will wake up one day and realize he only has one mom and one dad!  |
Date: 6/13/2004 10:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 49348
Zema i am so sorry for that, im sure somthing good will come of it eventually, wounds do heal eventually  |
Date: 6/13/2004 10:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 50499
Oh Zema I am so sorry! A rift in the family is a painful thing to go through. In time I hope all comes out right for you. Hugs to you.  |
Date: 6/14/2004 2:27:00 AM
From Authorid: 30229
Awwww, Zema Sis.... I am so sorry this is happening to you, it just isnt fair!!! Your son can stand by his wife and at the same time TEACH her some respect for his parents. It is sad to see things turn out that way and my heart goes out to you and Ted. My thoughts and prayers are with you that this rift mends very soon!!! Love ya!!!  |
Date: 6/14/2004 2:59:00 AM
From Authorid: 58308
awwww. Aunty Zema I am so sorry. I hope he'll come around soon. Love you and Ted much!!!  |
Date: 6/14/2004 3:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 32133
sorry about this.....hope things work out or you guys soon.  |
Date: 6/14/2004 4:06:00 AM
From Authorid: 46069
awwww. huggz Zema.... Its hard... my family is split too... and it makes it difficult... sorry to hear about that.  |
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Date: 6/14/2004 5:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 62744
I'm sure (and I hope) your son comes to his senses. A lot of us have those family arguments and go without speaking for a time, but where mom's are concerned, I don't see how a son can stay away. I don't think he will. God bless. -Damon |
Date: 6/14/2004 6:02:00 AM
From Authorid: 46320
I am so sorry you are sad Zema! It is so hard to have someone you love and care so much about not be there for important moments. I am sorry you are going through this. Sending hugs and love to you. Be Good...  |
Date: 6/14/2004 6:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 13937
Awww, that's so sad. I'm sorry. I understand sticking by your spouse and all but to completely give up your family?  |
Date: 6/14/2004 7:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 48809
Zema , this is very sad to hear. There is really nothing much that we can do about things like this. Some people are very unforgiving , and even if they receive an apology they will not have it any other way. For some reason they seem to believe that it diminishes their self respect if they forgive someone that they think has "gone against " them in someway. Perhaps in time to come, things will change and he will come back home again. I hope so, because I know this is hard for your family.  |
Date: 6/14/2004 8:09:00 AM
From Authorid: 6867
Aaaaaw Zema....don't know what to say...you are such a dear, sweet lady....all I can offer are my (((hugs)))  |
Date: 6/14/2004 8:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 59418
i'm so sorry grammie *Big hugs*  |
Date: 6/14/2004 9:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 53054
Zema...i am so sorry about this! *hugz* best wishes...being the 14th of June i have also been thinking about my nanna, who would have been turning 96 years old today i think! LOLZ....well keep trying to make contact with your son...i hope one day the mend is broken! Much love and god bless you! *hugz*  |
Date: 6/14/2004 10:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 53284
That is so sad. Just keep trying. Perhaps someday his feelings will soften. Bob  |
Date: 6/14/2004 11:02:00 AM
From Authorid: 3648
Zema, this is rather sad ....Just try try again I guess....Write letters if need be sometimes the written word is more powerful then the sword...It's a shame it has to be like that for you....They should at least allow you to be involved in your grandkids' life no matter what problems are going on....I wish I could help out...but here's some *hugs*...I think you'll need a lot of them today....  |
Date: 6/14/2004 11:29:00 AM
From Authorid: 35160
aww sweety, im so sorry . huge {{{{{{{{{{{{huggs}}}}}}}}}}}}}} hun.   |
Date: 6/14/2004 11:35:00 AM
From Authorid: 26203
Dear Zema I am so sorry for the pain and heartbreak you are going through..I can only imagine the pain you must feel.I pray that your son will come to his senses very soon before it is too late for regrets...God bless you sis I have you and your family in my prays and I am here if you need someone to talk to don't forget I am only a stone throw away love always  |
Date: 6/14/2004 12:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 62753
I feel for you! Lizard-1  |
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Date: 6/15/2004 6:30:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 42945
thank you all so much for your kind words, I've personally pm'd you all, as I appreciate all your thoughts and hugzzzzzzzz...made me feel loved....so hugzzzz to you all...Zema |
