Date: 6/5/2004 10:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 50193
Just keep searching; we're out there somewhere.   |
Date: 6/5/2004 10:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 34912
What you need to do is try to seek out men as similar to me as possible.  - btw, what's a "propastion"? (see, nice guys like us don't even know these what things are)  |
Date: 6/5/2004 10:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 38601
ugh...I know how you feel...all my boyfriends seem to only want to go out with me so they can say they have a girlfriend and then lie to me and tell me they love me and all that just to turn everything around on me and act like it's my fault everything's going wrong and use my insecurities against me...*sigh* hang in there...don't be like me, I'm only 16 (17 in 5 days!) and I'm about ready to just give up.  |
Date: 6/5/2004 11:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 34487
Wow, that guy was a real creep. As for this being a general problem, I know how you feel. I attracted MANY a loser in my day. I thank God I married to a great guy now but we knew each other 7 yrs before we married. I met him through his sister. Sometimes that a good method, meeting someone at a family or friend gathering. My hubby was a blind date, so you never know. The other issue to remember is that no man, or woman I suppose...is going to totally fit the bill of what you think you want. I mean, I'M SO grateful I didn't marry my hubby when I first met him or originally wanted to. We would've been divorced within the first year! LOL! Look for males as perspective friends first. If they treat you well and respectfully as a friend and can actually be just a friend, they'll most likely be a good husband some day. Make sure guys know you command respect too and don't accept remarks like the one from the guy above. Just be strong, secure, kind and SAFE...time will do the rest. Good luck!   |
Date: 6/5/2004 11:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 26452
I agree with You Choose, good men are out there, and the friends things is normally much better, I was friends with my boyfriend for almost 2 years before we started dating,I got to know him well, got to see how he acts with other girlfriends etc. And WOW that guy you're talking about sure was a creep. And be brave lol I was actually the first one to tell my boyfriend I liked him, I though I had no chance with him, and he thought the same with me(how he got that idea I'll never know lol) The good guys could just be afraid of being turned down  |
Date: 6/6/2004 12:07:00 AM
From Authorid: 49689
Stay away from men altogether? Get yourself a nice dog   |
Date: 6/6/2004 2:09:00 AM
From Authorid: 53360
dont know what to say except all the good ones are either already taken or they are gay lol
nah, theres good ones out there, your just not looking in the right places  |
Date: 6/6/2004 7:29:00 AM
From Authorid: 31515
Move yourself to a new level honey. Dress better. Act a bit more sophisticated. Expand your knowledge on anything you feel would benefit you. By setting your morals and values higher, the losers will fall away, and you will attract a better quality of man.......Try it, ......you'll like it. Queen B.  |
Date: 6/6/2004 8:18:00 AM
From Authorid: 47218
We women are all bound to be hit on by sick losers or men who are old enough to be our fathers now and then. This even happens to married women, so don't feel bad. My suggestion is to join clubs and do activities where you can meet people with similar interests. And don't stress out about it! Emjoy life-- you are very young, and you have many years ahead of you to meet someone. The right person will come along eventually.  |
Date: 6/6/2004 9:13:00 AM
From Authorid: 6867
Stop looking? My mother has always told me that ince you stop looking, that's when a good one falls in your lap. Until then, I adopted a cat and have put all of my time and energy into family and college. I don't know what to tell ya. I have the same exact problem, lol. HUG-A-NURSE,  |
Date: 6/6/2004 2:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 52489
No, I don't think that's the answer, Gia. I stopped looking, and one did walk into my life--the Wrong One! The best way, I think, is to find someone who matches your own interests. Join a club or organization, and look for someone through there.  |
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Date: 6/7/2004 11:07:00 AM
From Authorid: 52489
Queen B's idea is a good one: Move up! Put together a new wardrobe, restyle your hair, maybe take voice lessons. In short, reinvent yourself! That's what I'm doing: I'm recently divorced and I'm reinventing myself: working out more, shaping up, cleaning the house, etc. Reinvention can be a lot of work, but it's rewarding, too! |
Date: 6/8/2004 6:44:00 AM
From Authorid: 60945
Well, next time you see a guy and you're like "Eek, not the right dude..", give him a chance. He's probably different than the guys you've fallen for before.  |
Date: 6/8/2004 10:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 21912
haha cant help you there...happens to me all the time  |
Date: 6/16/2004 5:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
I am also a jerk-magnet (and that is toning it down for this site! lol) I have since given up on finding a good one and have instead focused on friends, family, career, and personal betterment. Much more fullfilling  |
51586 Category:(General Advice) Created:(6/5/2004 9:44:00 PM)