A Lifes lesson...Predictor

In life, we all have our own decisions of fate to make on the way to who we will be destined to become. Along that way we have many trials, these trials can come as accidents, betrayals, friendships, and so on. All of these make us wiser and more secure in the fact we can control our fate, all we have to do is learn from these trials. There will always be trials that involve other people, some of these people will spread rumor and gossip, some spread outrageous lies, and some are there to hold you back up when you forget who you are anymore.

The people that betray you, are those that are insecure in themselves. These people need to take others and try to make thier decisions for them, by ruining friendships, love, and most of all, make them feel they have done what is wronged on an other. They have no concious to speak of, as in thier minds they are doing what is right. They will stop at nothing to step in and ruin everything they can. The worst part is they will even befriend people and use them, in this manner they get close and know just how to act on the weaknesses of the person. They also usually wait til you are at the lowest in your life to add more, this in turn breaks you to the point of not wanting to even take action to bring yourself back it. It is sad, but there are people out there like this. I have seen not only in in my life and on this site, but going on throughout many others lives as well. It's hard to believe someone could prey upon another person to make themselves feel good, but yet, this is the case with many people. They are so unhappy in thier own life, that they need to make someone else feel unhappy to get a good feeling for themselves. They will also try to tell you they never meant for it to happen, but yet thier apologies are lack in sincerity, and always proven to be nothing more then more lies given out by them.

It's actually kind of funny, because then you have more people wondering why you find it hard to trust someone. Could it be, that you have been betrayed and hurt so many times, that you expect it to happen all the time from now on. Meanwhile, these others that have caused this are laughing up a storm and enjoying the happiness they created for themselves in your sorrow. It is time for society to fight back and not just sit there and let these people prey on others anymore. Fight back, do not let what they say and do bother you. If they try to ruin a friendship, don't ignore it, sit and talk it out with your friend. For the truth of the lies and rumors will come out as you hash things out in the open. Silence will get you nothing but more silence and lonliness in your life. You will forget how to feel, to talk, to love, and most important, how to live.

Life is to short to just sit in the dark and let it pass by. You need to look forward to every minute and feel the sun on your face. Live life like it is the last day you will ever see, take chances and risks, for they are the only things you truly can control and learn from. These people may try to take your happiness, but that will only happen if you let them have it. Keep it for yourself, share it with the world. Love yourself for who you are, and share the love of your mind and heart with the world. Don't make rash decisions on emotion, if you get angry, calm down and then talk about it and decide what you will do. Don't just take action and then think later on that you regret what you have done. You are the only you in the world. The uniquness you bring in your life, is a value this world can never replace, pride yourself on who you are and what you believe in. You can't judge yourself or others on sexuality, creed, religion, or a handicap, you can only judge by thier actions, thier heart and thier mind. Many people hold inside of them, a caring heart, one that would be glad to share the world with you and experience all the wonders in life.

"Be true to yourself and see the heart of light you hold, for in this life, YOU can make the difference between a smile or a frown"

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