Date: 5/3/2004 9:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 62588
wow, that's tough..  |
Date: 5/3/2004 9:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 53909
Sorry to hear that. It sucks having a friend leave like that. Maybe it might be a good thing that she's going to boarding school? Or has she always been a good kid? Hopefully that you and her will keep in touch with each other.  |
Date: 5/3/2004 9:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 53055
well, sorry to hear that she's leaving. She normally a good kid? But still, might teach her stuff though, like not stealing cars, running lights and running from cops. She must have known the consequences of her actions. Hopefully she learns not to do that next time.  |
Date: 5/3/2004 9:30:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
Shes done some stuff before like had friends just come over to the house and "forgot" to tell her mom. So her mom said they gotta leave in 15 min, so they did then her n I met them at the college across the street and her mom like followed us and when her n I got home, her mom slammed the front door and was like STEPHANIE!!!!! and took her in her room and slapped her in the face for meeting these ppls after her mom said shedidnt want her being around them. I was like *gasps* omg stephanie what happened?! she was like mom hit me, I dont care, wanna go watch TV? Like it never bothered her...  |
Date: 5/3/2004 9:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 38751
with all due respect , if that was my daughter , shed get a LOT more than boarding school  |
Date: 5/3/2004 9:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 51587
That really sux about that..But it might be a good thing tho. IF she went and did all of that.and she was my child I think I might have done the samething. Wasnt right of her to do that...she probably goin to get some sence knocked into her for doin a think like that like she did w/the car....she could have got in lots of trouble or hurt by doin that..Sorry that your plans got wrecked....but I'm sure you can do things w/your other friends *huggs*  |
Date: 5/3/2004 10:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 51952
oh wow i'm sorry *hugs*
Ecco  |
Date: 5/3/2004 11:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 26452
Althought it does really suck about your guys plans being messed up., if it was MY daughter who stole a car, ran a light and from the cops, I would have done so much more than boarding school. I'd say she got off lucky. Isn't she spending any time in juvy for all of this??  |
Date: 5/4/2004 3:29:00 AM
From Authorid: 43706
It does suck that you guys wont get to hang out, but I think Stephanie might enjoy boarding school if she gives it a go  Plus it sounds like her mum is having problems too so maybe the distance will help. I was at boarding school from 11 and I can't imagine living at home for any real length of time now! I think me and my mum would kill each other! Maybe Stephanie just needs a breather away from her mum and when she gets back you guys could like go away somewhere for a weekend to catch up Hope everything turns out ok lol  |
Date: 5/4/2004 3:34:00 AM
From Authorid: 1799
i'm really sorry.. *hugs* i'm not sure what else to say..  |
Date: 5/4/2004 3:46:00 AM
From Authorid: 10798
Well, it sounds like her mom thinks she is on the road to real trouble and is trying to help her. I know you don't want to be separated from your friend, but it sounds like she is starting to have some behavior problems. Maybe when she comes back she will have grown up a little.  |
Date: 5/4/2004 4:32:00 AM
From Authorid: 46527
I think she NEEDS to be sent there! She'll be back and there will be plenty more summers.  |
Date: 5/4/2004 6:10:00 AM
From Authorid: 48809
This is a shame that you will be seperated from your friend this summer and I am sure you will miss her . It seems though that her mother has tried to raise her right. Some kids think they know it all and do not have to mind their parents. They forget though that their parents are responsible for them while they are still minors and must keep them in line . If these kids get in trouble with the cops and destroy property or whatever etc.... guess who gets to pay for their mistakes. I agree with her mother and if she will not mind her ... then she will have to take whatever she gets... because from what you have said, she seems to think that she can do whatever she pleases.  |
Date: 5/4/2004 6:14:00 AM
From Authorid: 8278
i do agree with the others. it is upsetting when your friend leaves and plans are ruined...but it may do her some good. if my child had done all that, it would have been worse than boarding school. my son KNOWS if it comes to things like that, i will file a report with the police. i think your friend got off pretty good. and she may come back a much better person. i am sorry she will be gone all summer and that your plans will be changed...but you have to look at the positive side of this. it is in the best interest of your friend  |
Date: 5/4/2004 7:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 35720
If I stole a car.. nevermind boarding school.. I'd be going straight to my grave.  |
Date: 5/4/2004 9:52:00 AM
From Authorid: 4144
if she's a "habitual offender" it's probably for the best. i know i sound like a mom but she has to learn sometime. sorry she messed up all your plans but she probably deserves it. my dad threatened to send me to a christian school if i didn't straighten up and i knew a couple of people that went there and belive me i turned into a "good little girl"!  |
Date: 5/4/2004 10:26:00 AM
From Authorid: 52919
she deserves it..she could have killed someone by running the light...jail is were she should be..boarding school is much too nice of a punishment...Kamui DragonOfEarth  |
Date: 5/4/2004 1:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
i can understand why her mom is sending her away!! though it's sad for you  |
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Date: 5/4/2004 5:39:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
Thanx for the replies guys, but is the only time shes REALLY messed up, liek big! I can see staying out late or breaking the house rules, but this is her first offense and it was WAYYYY back. Maybe it's just me, but I dont think its really necessary until she has REALLY done something wrong, and yeah, why wait that long, but every teenager is going to mess up at some point. Im on myy way to gettin arrested here soon and my mom keeps tellin me, sarah, you know whats happened, dont do it. Maybe I think this cause I've seem my brother get away with SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much crap and he was never punished for his wrong doings. *shrugs* I dont know. |
