Date: 5/1/2004 8:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 15675
I have quite a few well justified grudges but their not harming me lately. One of the sillier ones is against All Saints, they tried to be the Spice Girls and failed  they deserved it they were cocky LOL!  |
Date: 5/1/2004 8:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 55386
I held a grudge for 3 months once. I've been holding a grudge for 3 years right now too, towards my parents for the divorce...Wow, amazing.  |
Date: 5/1/2004 8:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 24924
I don't hold grudges. If someone has wronged me, and has realized it; we have talked and worked it out, and they ask for forgiveness: It IS history. On the other hand, there are those in my life who simply cannot forgive, much less FORGET, anything that *I* may have said or done. For example: My older sister has never, nor will she ever forgive me for some stupid thing I said to her in anger (which SHE herself provoked!) some 10-12 years ago. HER reason for not forgiving? She says: "Catherine will just do it again"; plus, she claims NO part in what happened, even though an eye witness to it all (our mother) has told her that she DID provoke the angry words. What exactly WERE the angry words? She was ranting on and on about something, and I tried to nicely tell her now-is-not-the-time, and please, let's talk about it later, and I even yawned, told her I was tired, it was late, and even laid down on the sofa, and closed my eyes. Nope, she wouldn't drop it; just kept ragging, and paid no mind to hints and requests. So, I got up off the sofa, walked to the door, opened it, and told her to leave. That was it. She then went around to everyone else and told them that I "Kicked" her out; plus a whole bunch of other stuff that wasn't true. Holding grudges is for immature children.  |
Date: 5/1/2004 8:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 37101
At times I hold grudges but they never last long. Mostly because it's a waste oe energy to keep something like that in my mind for so long. Just... get over it. It's in the past, you know? -  |
Date: 5/1/2004 11:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 29534
I am guilty of holding grudges, some to this day I have not yet over-come. And may never. I'm not proud of it. I have held a grudge against my Dad for almost 4 years, but I have lightened up some. I will talk to him if he calls, he still not aloud in my home, he stole some things off of us, we won't get into that. But anyways, I think it's hard to completely get over something when it's devastating enough. But like I said I have lightened up quite a bit, and I now acknowledge him, before I didn't. So I think sometimes time heals most wounds. *hugs*  |
Date: 5/2/2004 7:16:00 AM
From Authorid: 55300
I do not hold grudges, they simply are a waste of time and energy.  |
Date: 5/2/2004 12:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 48809
I also have a sister that just will not let anything go. She has been mad at me now since 1988 for something that I did not even do. There is no reason to try to convince her that she is wrong because to her way of thinking ... she is always right . I think there is something lacking in people who act so silly and childish !  |
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