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prom... two weeks away and no date *snowymoon06*

  Author:  36757  Category:(General Advice) Created:(5/1/2004 6:39:00 AM)
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hey there...

the no date thing could have been avoided, but here's my story:

i was going out with a guy "tim" but all he wanted was a physical relationship. i am NOT a physical person so we broke up. we were still planning on going to prom (okay this was about april 14th and prom is may 15th) so that was all neat. but then one day at lunch he randomly said "so yeah... we can go out for dinner, get our pictures, ditch the dance, go to this party, maybe get drunk, maybe i can get some, then you can go home." ... so yeah... that's why i'm not going with him anymore.

contestant numero dos. i work with "jake" but at the time i didn't really know him. so i called him up and we had a 2 hour phone converstaion lol. i found out that he is soooo sooo sooo much like tim that it's scarry. he likes to drink (as he puts "a LOT... but not too much O__o") and doesn't exactly want to go to the dance. he said if i wanted to he'd be happy to go but it's just not his thing - it goes against everything he belives in... not in a religous way or like that. he's just the kinda guy who slides through school and is more than ready to leave. get what i'm saying? my problem is is that i don't want to go with him if 1) i really don't know him and 2) if he's so much like tim that it scares me. not like "ahh run away" scared but... deja vu sort of thing. that's no fun. OHHHHHhhh it's like usher's "you remind me" LOL!!! well anyway, i work today at 10 and he works at 9 so i can talk to him then. i don't expect to get a lot of responses before then, but that's okay ^^ he doesn't really know that i'm not sure i want to go with him seeings how on thursday (yes only two days ago) i was like "ohhh!! let's gooo!! please!" of course that was before the phone converstaion. soooo yeah...

and now number three. i have a friend (no more than that) named "todd". i've known him for about 2 years. i haven't had an actual conversation (my definition of an "actual converstaion" is one where you find out information about a person that you could only know if you asked... like my 2 hour phone converstaions. it doesn't have to be that long... 30 minutes is enough to find out a lot [as i found out the other night but that is a different story] but yeah. i've gone past "hey what's up" and such. i dunno. if this makes sense, i'm happy) with him but from what i know about him, he's a good guy for the most part. he wrote in his blog that going to prom is really important because it's his senior year. he said he's so desperate for a date that he'd go with pretty much anyone. it's only 2 weeks away so he isn't picky.

do you see my problem now? lol... i don't know if i should go with jake or todd... and what should i tell jake? *konk* any help would be great!

thanks in advance!

edit: AHH i forgot to say that i'm only a sophomore! the problem for me going alone is that well. yeah. i'd be alone. my senior friend (most of my friends are seniors) either aren't going or are going with a date. one of my friends "matt" has a girlfriend who HATES me. she SERIOUSLY HATES me. okay. so matt was talking to a friend of mine and we're all just a big blob of friends nothing more nothing less. well to make a long story short, matt's gf told him that if he called or did anything with my friend anymore outside of school then she'd dump him. yes she's controlling but they've been going out for 2 years. she has ZERO girlfriends... she even said "i hate girls" so... yeah. some of the friends are going with that group and i REALLY i don't want to mingle with them. i went to homecoming with the group this year and pretty much ruined her night :( she may be a cranky dog but it's her boyfriend's senior year and her junior year. i don't want to spoil the night for both of them.

but yeah. i'm only a sophomore and if i go alone, i'm seriously going alone. everyone has a date already (remember prom is only 2 weeks away)...

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Date: 5/1/2004 6:54:00 AM  From Authorid: 38406    Well, I think you should go with Todd. He seems like a really good guy. I wouldn't go with Jake or Tim at all. The prom seems really important to you and it is an important time in your High School career. And it's also important to Todd to go to his prom. You should be happy at you prom not upset because Jake or Tim are being jerks because they don't really want to be there. Hey, also remember that you can still have fun at your prom without a date. Good Luck on finding a date! Thanks for posting!  
Date: 5/1/2004 6:55:00 AM  From Authorid: 61013    umm does ur crush have a date if not you can always ask him... or ask another guy you find attractive.  
Date: 5/1/2004 6:57:00 AM  From Authorid: 62146    well if you do not like your date if they are to sleazy or what ever then go alone and hung with your friends the advantaqge of this one is (as i discovered) is you can dance with as many people as you can and no one gets jelious. The whole point of the dance is to have fun don't go with someone if you do not like them or somthing I had fun at my formnal and I went alone and with horrible sun burn as well I got to dance with my crush and many other boys. and no one nagging me. so that was cool I had fun I got to dance with as many people as I liked and i just gofed around with my friends personaly i think I would have been to nervious to be the most inthusiastic dancer their if a guy was their. Trust me if you can not find someone who will not be fun to be with then go alone and the live the advantages of single life.   
Date: 5/1/2004 7:02:00 AM  From Authorid: 58078    Todd unless you have another close guy friend you can ask if you are iffy about Todd..but out of the three, he's your best choice. You are a beautiful girl, I'm sure if you asked someone they would be more then happy to go with you. Just because you go to a prom don't mean a person is getting some afterwards...jeez I hate that concept thats its like a mandatory thing or its expected and its NOT. Have what regardless what you do...but I think Todd is the best here....get to know him.  
Date: 5/1/2004 7:04:00 AM  From Authorid: 58078    *Have FUN regardless....  
Date: 5/1/2004 7:11:00 AM  From Authorid: 62599    In the end its your choice, but todd seems like the good guy here.  
Date: 5/1/2004 7:16:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 36757    thanks everyone. (note the edit)  
Date: 5/1/2004 8:54:00 AM  From Authorid: 59418    I'd say go with Todd, he sounds like a great guy...there is no point going with Tim because he sounds like he's just gonna try and take advantage of you...and If Jake is just like tim, he probably will too........*Big hugs* Tell us how things work out!  
Date: 5/1/2004 10:45:00 AM  From Authorid: 53052    go with todd its important to him and you wont be pressured into doing something you dont want to do or just dont go... it's prom for the seniors isnt it?  
Date: 5/1/2004 11:18:00 AM  From Authorid: 31048    I'd have to go with contestant number 3. You really don't want to go with someone who, to put it plainly, is going to spend the whole night trying to get in your pants. It sounds to me like that's what Jake is up to. Besides, you can use this opportunity to get to know Tood better and maybe make a new good friend. I really don't recommend going alone...you'd be bored stiff! Whatever you decide to do, good luck   
Date: 5/1/2004 11:19:00 AM  From Authorid: 31048    Ooops I meant *Todd* lol  
Date: 5/1/2004 3:08:00 PM  From Authorid: 51952    i was singing the dateless blues as well, welcome to the club lets have jackets made. I was lucky to have found an underclassmen to go. Your a sophmore? and you're aloud to go to the senior prom? wow. my advise is either to go alone and have fun with friends or find an underclassmen or someone from out fo the school. Good modivationt o meet people i dunno. but i know how you feel. Good luck

Ecco
  
Date: 5/2/2004 9:55:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 36757    thanks everyone i work with jake tonight so i'll talk to him. OH i went out with todd last night but we really didn't talk about anything. i didn't want to bring up prom because i don't want to go with him and then have jake think i'm still going with him at the same time. one thing at a time UmMmMm... yeah... i'll let you all know how it goes. thank you SO much!  
Date: 5/4/2004 4:12:00 PM  From Authorid: 62682    aww...dont worry about it hon. Go and have a good time, you only are in high school one and besides there will be more proms down the road and I am sure you will have someone for you to go with  

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