Date: 5/1/2004 6:08:00 AM
From Authorid: 61013
Hmmm have you like tried to talk to him? fyrefairy aka~  |
Date: 5/1/2004 6:11:00 AM
From Authorid: 14412
You really need to just sit down and talk everything out with him. He may feel just as uncomfortable as you do, for he did make a mistake in judgement and is probably feeling very lost himself in this. You both need to get things out in the open, and at that time you can make sure you both understand the boundaries of your friendship in full. Friends through many years have gone through this same thing, communication is the best alternative, otherwise you may find yourselves losing a good friendship in all the silence and doubt.  |
Date: 5/1/2004 6:48:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 62146
I fell slack about rejecting him because trust me I know very well what that is like. but ok he was steppingn over th line I had to be harsh with him he understood in the end......I think I still fell un-comfortabble.  |
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Date: 5/1/2004 6:54:00 AM
From Authorid: 61013
hmmmm... i've been in this situation before but I just talked to him and it worked |
Date: 5/1/2004 8:18:00 AM
From Authorid: 62632
I've been in a similar situation too. Except it was the other way around for me. =s Well anyway, we both had a talk at lunch (privately) and it worked. We're still good friends.  -CW-  |
Date: 5/1/2004 8:58:00 AM
From Authorid: 19685
You just have to tell him straight up that you are NOT interested. If he is really a friend, things will eventually feel normal again. If he has only been a friend to be close to you, then he will quit coming around, unfortunately. It's just one of those things in life. But the sooner you tell him the better.  |
