Date: 4/2/2004 6:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
The is a classic case of once he gets what he wants you are history..not good enough to wipe his feet on..Guys like this are total jerks..and one day they will get theirs..trust me, they always do. Hang in there..stay clear of this moron and eventually payback will be coming.  |
Date: 4/2/2004 6:34:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 6860
Thanks, LL.   |
Date: 4/2/2004 6:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 24003
The best way for you to get over this is, Stay far away from him. Im sorry this happened to you...guys can be such losers. PLEASE PLEASE think wisely before you decide to have sex again Time will heal your pain, I promise you that...but if you continue to have this guy in your life, he will cause you pain.  |
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Date: 4/2/2004 6:48:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 6860
I didn't have intercourse with him, I wouldn't have gone that far. But I did have relations, thats why I put them in quotes. But thanks Adrienne. |
Date: 4/2/2004 7:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 48250
Just As Lady Luck And Green Eyes Have Said...Whether You Did Or Didn't...In Which I Know You Are Glad You Didn't...Still If he behaves like this with you...he has a Problem And A Big One at that...Kick Him to the Curb Honey..You're too good for the Likes Of Him...Best Wishes...T/C....  |
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Date: 4/2/2004 8:57:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 6860
Thanks, KY-Bluebird. |
Date: 4/3/2004 11:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 31048
Unfortunately I've met way too many guys like this one...guys like this are bad news. Forget about him because he honestly isn't worth your time and he doesn't deserve any heartache from you. Good luck  |
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Date: 4/3/2004 3:52:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 6860
Thanks Blondie. |
Date: 4/5/2004 11:56:00 AM
From Authorid: 30786
*Hugs* I'm going to be honest with you. When girls have an "experience" with a guy, we take it to heart, and feel there is a connection, and it is special and memorable to us. We see there is meaning to it. A lot of guys, (not all of them!) do not see that connection. They see that they got something they wanted, it felt good at the time, and then it is over for them. There is no significance to what happened in their mind. It sounds like your guy was too immature to handle what happened between you two, and doesn't know how to act now. Maybe he thought that you wouldn't actually agree to it, and that he wasn't actually ready to do it. In any case, you have to realize that we all make mistakes. You are not dirty or stupid or less of a person because you did this. You simply made a mistake. You need to forgive yourself. Write yourself a letter detailing how you feel about this situation, and what you will do differently next time, just to clear your head of those thoughts. The important thing to do now is to take this experience and apply it to future relationships. Now you know what casual sex and doing it before you're really ready can do, now you can avoid it. Learn from your mistake, and don't make it again. When you find a loving relationship in the future and decide to become intimate, it will be nothing like what you went through with the other guy  |
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Date: 4/5/2004 12:27:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 6860
Thank you so much Breezy. That really helps me a lot. |
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Date: 4/5/2004 12:32:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 6860
Actually, I talked with him this weekend, and I told him everything that I mentioned here. I was open and honest with him about how I felt and I told him that I didn't want to be angry anymore. He told me that I should get used to anger since I'll be angry all my life, and then he pushed the blame for his behavior onto me. Needless the say the conversation didn't go well at all, but I'm not as angry as I was because I finally told him how I felt. Thanks for all your advice everyone! |
