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I'm Torn....Help!

  Author:  60052  Category:(Discussion) Created:(3/3/2004 8:26:00 PM)
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On Friday, my husband was informed that his ex wants to give us custody of his son. We haven't been able to find them for more than 4 years, and now all of a sudden out of the blue, we get this call.

He's ten years old now, and I'm worried, nervous and everything all mixed up. I'm 24 and don't have any children of my own.

I worry that I won't be able to handle the responsibility, I worry that his ex will change her mind at the last minute, or try to take him back later, after he's settled in.

I'm nervous about seeing her and him again. I would really like for father and son to be reunited again. They really need each other, but it doesn't qwell my worries and anxiety over the whole situation.

We're leaving to go to TX in 2 weeks to get this all handled, and I haven't been able to sleep since I found out.

Does anyone have any advice for me? Comments? Anything?

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Date: 3/3/2004 8:29:00 PM  From Authorid: 3688    The only thing I can say is my thoughts will be with you through this transition, I think you'll do fine, he's old enough that things SHOULD go smoothly *hugs*  
Date: 3/3/2004 8:30:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 60052    Thanks Dreamer Poet, I sure hope so.  
Date: 3/3/2004 8:36:00 PM  From Authorid: 57653    I think it's a GOOD thing that you aren't just taking this change in stride. It shows that you know that a lot of responsibility is coming and it must be taken seriously. I think you will handle this well - everyone becomes a parent sometime right?? I wish you luck!  
Date: 3/3/2004 9:12:00 PM  From Authorid: 49091    I agree with Silver Fire here. Of you were to take this lightly, it wouldnt be normal. Its good that your stressed about it. I eman its not good that ur stressed but in some sence it is. It shows that you care about whats going to happen next and you know how much responsiblity this is going to require. I also agree with Dreamer, he's 10. Which means around 4th maybe 5th grade. Yeah he might have a hard time at first, but things should go smoothly. Much easier then if he was 16 and moving in with you. My best of luck to you sweetie!! *huggs*  
Date: 3/3/2004 9:16:00 PM  From Authorid: 20956    all i can say is best of luck   
Date: 3/3/2004 10:36:00 PM  From Authorid: 14754    make sure you get something in writing legally...so that she cant jerk you guys around. good luck  
Date: 3/4/2004 6:02:00 AM  From Authorid: 62136    As unnerving as it may seem, it may go really well BUT...I would seek a therapist for you all to go see. Someone who will see the son on a regular basis and you all as a family when needed or even regularly. Now I only say this cuz I would imagine that it would be a very difficult, confusing time for the boy. Not to mention the time span that is there from 6-10...that's quite a lot of growing up for the boy and there may be some clashing. Know what I mean? Good luck and I am interested to see how this works out for you all! I also hope that this custody works smoothly. (((hugs))))  
Date: 3/4/2004 10:11:00 AM  From Authorid: 58611    I agree with silverfire as well, it is good that you are able to reallize the situation. And also Zookeepers idea of having a family counselor to assist with the transition will be good as well. I wish you all the best sweety. We are all here for you as well.  

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