Date: 2/16/2004 11:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 12581
OMG what a bugger! You should sit down with him & have a long talk on what it means to be a husband. I sure hope things turn out sweetie! *HUGS* Take Care!  |
Date: 2/16/2004 11:25:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 7830
Thanks Akua. He wouldn't listen though, Ive had about a thousand of those talks with him. He's a brick wall lol  |
Date: 2/17/2004 12:36:00 AM
From Authorid: 59418
OMG!!! Does he know you've seen the emails??? I cant believe someone would do that! *Big hugs*  |
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Date: 2/17/2004 12:56:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 7830
Yea I confronted him about it and he said "oh i accidentally filled the form out and signed up." Yea right, he thinks Im stupid or something. |
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Date: 2/17/2004 1:00:00 AM
From Authorid: 59418
wow...how can u accidently fill out a form??? *Big hugs* I'm sorry you're goin thru this...I think you need to talk to him again, he can't keep doing this... |
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Date: 2/17/2004 1:10:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 7830
Yea, I'll talk to him while booting his butt out the front door! LOL |
Date: 2/17/2004 1:11:00 AM
From Authorid: 59418
go you!!!!! hehe  *Big hugs* and Keep smiling |
Date: 2/17/2004 1:15:00 AM
From Authorid: 32806
OUCH!!!!!!! I have no time for cheats, whether they be male or female. You being pregnant and unable to have intimate relations has no relevance. I had no desire to cheat on my girlfriend when she was pregnant because I loved her. What an inconsiderate and hurtful thing to do. I am so sorry you have to go through the feelings this must generate within you at this time in your life. Be strong. Peace and Harmony.  |
Date: 2/17/2004 1:44:00 AM
From Authorid: 62552
Woah... considering he now knows you know chances are he's probably going to change email addresses... beat him to it... get onto one of the match emails and redirect it into your inbox. How does he make himself out to be on his profile? I'm sorry you have to go through this - hope you have a healthy baby and all goes well with this. >>Bageera<<  |
Date: 2/17/2004 2:19:00 AM
From Authorid: 53360
Sorry to hear that. My old man did something similar to that about 2 years ago. But he didnt sign up for any dating thing. I snooped in his email too, nd found an email from some girl saying how she couldn wait to meet him and all that junk. And i talkedto him about it, he got furious that i snooped in his email, and told me she was just some psycho he had met ina chatroom. well, come to find out, he actually told me a year anda half later that he actually did meet her, while he was at work. I couldnt believe he had lied to me about it! As if thats not bad enough, he also told me, the same night, that when he was over the road, driving truck, he met someone he had went to trucking school with, and cheated on me with that person too, while i was sitting at home pregnant with his baby! the saddest part is, im still with the jerk!  |
Date: 2/17/2004 3:34:00 AM
From Authorid: 1799
well what a little jerk. had it been me, i woulda kicked him out into the snow!  |
Date: 2/17/2004 3:46:00 AM
From Authorid: 33925
Ooooh NASTY!!! I can think of a few things I would do to my man if he did something like this!! Show no mercy girl!!  |
Date: 2/17/2004 4:10:00 AM
From Authorid: 44321
Your husband is lucky I am not in your area I would take a broom to him lol,he has no respect for you to pull stuff like this.What a load of bull puckey ,how can you accidentally fill out a form ? LOL . Seriously though if I were you I would have a nice chat with him.  |
Date: 2/17/2004 6:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 32133
WOW!!!!!like 8 months ago this (almost exact) same thing happened to my aunt.she wasnt pregnant and they had been married for 4 years. she was so happy with him everyone liked the guy in our family.....one day she walks in the room (she had been re-maried and my aunt and the guy both had kids before) and hes standing there WITH HIS DAUGHTER looking for a new wife! the daughter says "i hope she has money cuz (put my uants name here.dont know if she wants me giving it out.)is so poor.....they got divorced and the guy put a restraining order on my aunt to assure that he would get the house and not her!......im really sorry for you  i hope you and your husband can work things out so you can both be there for when the baby grows up.  |
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Date: 2/17/2004 6:58:00 AM
From Authorid: 32133
and really if you dont mind me saying.....a guy who would sink so low as to not take care of his wife while shes pregnant but would rather look for someone else isnt a real man.....hes a coward who cant stand life and thinks if do this i'll get kicked out and wont have to take care of the baby. kicking him out might be what he wanted he might not want the responsiblity of a baby so he set himself up to get kicked out. |
Date: 2/17/2004 7:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 15777
OMG!!! That is about the most horrid thing I've heard in a long time! That just makes me want to kick him in the tush for you. What are you going to do? Have you said anything to him?  |
Date: 2/17/2004 8:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 58611
Oh man that is so low. HUGS  |
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Date: 2/17/2004 9:15:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 7830
thanks for your support guys. This is our second child. Our oldest is 16 1/2 months old. |
Date: 2/17/2004 10:41:00 AM
From Authorid: 62334
Oh my.. I know you must be feeling awful right now. First off remember take care of yourself. Stress isnt good for you right now, I know its hard. What he has done I would consiter cheating. (some might not but I do) I would confront him. Please keep us posted on how you are doing.Take care.
Robin  |
Date: 2/17/2004 11:44:00 AM
From Authorid: 62456
OMG! I would be mortified! I guess I shouldnt jump to conclusions about what he's really up to but how terrible for you to come across something like that. Ready to have a baby too-I am so sorry that your going thru this. You have to talk about this with him. I cant believe you'd even consider that it might be your fault. I'm sorry for saying this and hope I don't hurt your feelings--he's a major creep. Good luck with everything and I bet everything will turn out for the best in the long run. IsisKat  |
Date: 2/17/2004 11:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 3263
Did he realize that you updated his profile yet? LMAO!!! I'm STILL rollin about that!!!!!  |
Date: 2/17/2004 12:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 13283
Grrrrr ! If I had a woman like you I would NEVER cheat or get on a singles website . I got on this site and it does the same thing . It gave me pics and addys of women who live in my area to , but Im not looking around . Razzy aka  |
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Date: 2/17/2004 2:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 32133
guys who cheat on girls are the lowest life form on earth.....lower than rocks and they arent even life forms. |
Date: 2/17/2004 2:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
ouch...don't quite know what to tell ya except you HAVE to make him listen...somehow....Good luck....and congrats on the new baby; I had no idea you were so close to delivering!   |
Date: 2/17/2004 3:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 51587
congrats on the baby..but you are gonna need to make him listen to you and make him talk to you and tell you why he did that. why he signed himslef up for that. I would be mad myself if i learned a guy i was dating did that do, expaclily if he was tryin to meet w/them I would be very upset and everything. Hope everything turns out okay *huggs*  |
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Date: 2/17/2004 11:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 62487
Hear! Hear! I will vent with you!!!!!!!!!!!Need I say WRONG and LOWLY? But I dont want to hurt you by my venting so let me just say if you need anything please let me know!!!!!!!I am here for you!!!!!!!>>>>>>tamara |
