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Date: 2/8/2004 4:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 58809
You are worth something you know. I've had those days you speak of. It isn't uncommon to have those feelings of worthlessness. You have to remember that you're valuable and timeless. Stuff happens in life, fights or whatever it may be, but that doesn't mean that God is making muppets out of us. Believe me. I've gone through a couple episodes in which I felt I was this insignificant ant, and God was hoovering about me with a magnifying glass under the bright sun...Ah. Bad times. Your situation will pass. All will get better. You are worth a lot more than you know  Just give things time...and it Will get better.  |
Date: 2/8/2004 4:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 55009
i am sorry to hear about your recent and massive losses... i have had my share of losses and often wondered why i was having to deal with it all. i am sort of at a loss of words on how say what i a thinking... but to sum it up i felt god turned his back on me by allowing it all to happen so i turned my back on him. i have yet to turn around and face him, not out of fear but of an anger for him to allow me to go through such a... a self proclaimed hell  |
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Date: 2/8/2004 4:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 55009
and i just accidently hit the enter button... but anyways as i was saying, i felt i was worth nothing and so i crawled around at the bottem on my life for as long as i can remember... i guess what i am saying is, i didn't have that person there to tell me i was worth something because, she had died and i suffered for a long, long time. although i don't know you at all or maybe we have talked a little in the chatroom. you are worth something, we all are if we weren't we wouldn't be here. i just discovered it too late for it to really matter to me, and remember every cloud has a silver lining, it just gets forgotten and lost with all the grey that it surrounds. |
Date: 2/8/2004 5:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 20956
you are most definatley worth something, alot in fact. dont worry, everyone goes through rough periods of their life when they stop and ask themselves why so many crappy things are happening to them and question whether it is really all worth it. Why it seems it isnt at the time, it really is. There will be a time (it could be in a week, it could be in a year) that you will look back at this horrible time in your life and while you will remember it was hard for you, you will realise that you are worth alot and that you lived through it, and you'll wonder why you even questioned your worth. So hang in there and it'll run its course. best of luck to you  |
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Date: 2/8/2004 6:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 33158
Hello! Calm down, it's not so big a problem, i see two possible causes here: one you're talking to the wrong person... secondly, there might be something in your behaviour which you havent meditated about, which makes them angry.... You don't need those people to be happy, happiness comes from within you, if you're happy, it shows, if you're sad, it shows, if you let your self feel angry, it will show!!! Take a look around you, what is the thing that you enjoy the most doing??, let's say playing guitar... try to play your favorite songs on it, write a letter to someone far away, see homeless people, the disabled, people with terrible diseases, people suffering abuse of any kind... and you'll see there is always someone going through uglier things than us!!! You Darling are a wonderful person who deserves a fair treatment, you don't need a jerk by your side, nor an envious friend, besides, you'll overcome your friend's death... why don't you start some kind of diary-journal in which you write the things you wish you could tell your friend (who past away) or things you feel you left unsaid, decorate it, write her poems, songs, try knitting something or creating a collage of actors- singers she used to like, prepare her fave meal and pretend she'll enjoy it from heaven, remember she's watching over you, the least she'd like to see is your life wrecked due to her departure... tell her you'll miss her but that you must go on... Be happy dearest, no one can make you feel inferior, nor sad... the darkest hour in the night is the one before dawn!!!!!! You'll be fine, just be positive about it!!! Hope this helps..  Smile and be happy!!  |
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